Yamyam

Try Brantano. In fact, that's such good advice I may stop off there tonight on my way home

Far be it for me to argue with the illustrious Firefox, but I'm not 100% sure about that last comment. I think different things happen 'down south', to be honest. I was born in Surrey, so it's not just not having been there or anything. People seem more reserved in the south, less likely to comment. Mind you, perhaps it's more about me being shy than them . I have worn heels out a couple of times, and not had problems, but I'm reluctant around the Midlands. But next time I'm near Lakeside, you can bet I'll be up for it .

I agree about hunting down persons responsible for terrorist acts. OK, this is a UK perspective, but I've yet to hear any convincing evidence that Osama Bin Laden is responsible for anything except some dodgy-looking television broadcasts. I'm not really in favour of bombing Afghanistan until the rubble bounces without some evidence to the effect that yes, OBL was responsible for the terrorist attacks he's being hunted for, and that trashing Afghanistan is going to help. Whatever the rights and wrongs of the Taliban (and I don't agree with them either), I don't think that the right thing is being done here. I also don't think that I'm going to be convinced on this one any time soon, either. How has replacing the government helped in any way at all? Sorry, but I want more evidence before I support the rubble-bouncers.

The evening I first went out seriously in my 4" vanes - ouch! And the next day... and the next...

I will learn to be more sensible about this

I work in consultancy, where projecting an image of conformity is quite important. Hence I wear a suit and tie virtually all of the time when I'm working (and dull shoes, before you ask ). It's just part of the job for me. It doesn't bother me, except that I'd rather get changed before driving a long way home, just because I prefer to drive in jeans. I like to choose nice ties that go with the otherwise fairly plain stuff I wear. The one I'm wearing now is a very nice present from my SO, who also likes purple. I've never had one shredded, but I did slam the end of my tie in the case of a PC I'd just fixed, then stand up. Not only did I get a slight case of neck strain, I tore the end off my tie! Ouch .

Well, I think I've got some more posting to do (bummer ) but I've got my eye on a really nice pair of wedges by Kickers. They're about a 3.5", with rubber soles, and nice and subtle to wear around and about while I get used to this idea. I was offered them for UKP60, so I need about 85-90 posts? Oh well, just have to work at it

Blimey - I've made it to the kitten heels! Actually, the shoes in the picture look OK, but I don't think they're really me. More 'work' here to do yet

Haven't looked this one up on the CD sleeve yet, but I seem to remember a fragment along the lines of: "Why can't I be in your shoes?" The song goes on about the grass is greener on the other side of the fence &c, but for some reason, that one line of the chorus stuck in my mind .

Well, as I said in the Achievements channel, not so long ago I went off to a shopping centre in heels. The assistant who'd served me the last time I was there was there again. She remembered me from the last time, and we spent a while chatting about shoes again. She showed me quite a nice pair with a square toe and a blade heel, and fetched out a size 8 (she even remembered my size). I tried them, they fit well, and so I bought them. As I was trying them on, she noticed my vanes, and asked where I'd got them. She asked how long I'd had them on - it was about two hours by then - and said I was doing pretty well in them. All in all, a top shopping experience. So, if anyone's in Meadowhall, I recommend the shop called 'logo'. It is a clothes shop, but has an excellent shoe section too.

Well, I went for it at a shopping centre near a place I was working away. I put my favourite 4" vanes on, left my hotel room, drove there, spent two hours walking around, then came back. I spent about four hours in my heels, all told, and had a top time. Mind you, I was quite glad to take them off, and I've gained huge respect for anyone who could wear them all day . More practice needed for me, I think!

What animated Mr Bean thing?

I'm a big Python fan, and as I work in the computer industry, there are always references to 4 Yorkshiremen &c &c. Anytime anyone mentions anything more than about two versions old, anyone around goes into a 4 Yorkshiremen bit.

I also like the Pink Panther movies, and actually, old comedy in general.

For me, I generally have two looks - suit and 'not suit'. Suit kind of speaks for itself. 'Not Suit' is jeans and a shirt, but I tend to buy big shirts and I never tuck them in! Now, to find some shoes to go with each outfit .

Well, yeah, it depends on the trousers. I've got some easy fit jeans, and they're not a problem under those. I've also got some regular fit jeans, and even snug knee-high boots catch on them. Perhaps I should have another go .

I sometimes surf from work, but as I've said elsewhere, my EPM's are ultra-conservative. However, I have a laptop with modem, and our office has a couple of analogue lines left... Need I say more . My SO had the ultimate solution at her previous job - she was the system administrator, so she could do what she liked .

Well, I wasn't affected all that much. I was working on-site that day, and I remember moaning about 'what are all those other buggers doing listening to the news?' I didn't find out what had happened until I turned the radio on as I drove back to the hotel. I have a lot of family in the States, and I lost a distant relation, and nearly lost a closer one (he was late to work). But it's true, tho'. Here in the UK, we've lived with terrorism for a long time, and personally, it doesn't bother me. I've lived in or near several places that a WTC-style attack might work on, but I've never given it a second thought. I still don't. The main effect for me is that as I don't look 100% English, and have a slight Midlands accent, I get loads of unwanted attention from security guards now. I've actually been thrown out of one place as a 'potential security risk' . What's the point of that?

Just watching VH1 at the moment, from one of my companies "branch offices" . Just seen Dido in the video for "Thank you". She always seems to wear heels too.

On 2002-02-24 03:14, terayon wrote:

I think a nice knee high boot with small platform (or none if you dont like em...doesnt really make a difference) with a 3-4 inch chunky/wedge heel looks really good on both men and women alike

True... but knee high boots are often a bit impractical under trousers, and I never wear shorts, so I'll stick with ankle boots.

I'm surprised no-one's mentioned Eddie Izzard yet . Of course, speaking of celebrity examples, if we could just convince David Beckham, we'd all be sorted, no problem . Oh well, we can dream.

I didn't use the old board, so I've no idea on how they compare. But I like the way this board works. After finding a couple of handy documents, like how to do BBCode and smilies, and also the search trick to find new stuff, I'm quite happy with it. Personally, this is the first on-line community I've ever felt at home in, and happy to participate in. I email friends and family (doesn't everyone ?) but this is the first time I've been mixing it in with people I don't know personally - well, with one exception! I don't think anything can be all things to all people, but I'm happy with this board the way it is. So, let's keep it going! Oh, and I'm an IT consultant, with a degree in computer science, and about 9 years experience of several different kinds of computers, so I guess I count as a high-end user. I don't know if that makes any difference!

On 2002-02-28 17:15, hoverfly wrote:

Sounds like a good time for the two of you to intergrated your love for shoes together. Having a common interest in a relationship helps strengthen it. If your BF hasn’t established a style of shoes for him self, why not look around and suggest what you think you like to see on him? Maybe you don't think stilettos and satrappy sandals are your idea of a man's high heel shoe. Maybe boots or closed shoes with a chunky or not so chunky heel? Maybe start with a lower heel? This might help you get comfortable with the idea of him wearing heels. I bet you love to shop for cloths as well? How about shopping outfits for your BF to go with those heels? Jeans, t-shirt, and heels may not go over well. But a sharp dressed man? You might not be so focused on his shoes then.

Interesting advice there. Well, (being as I do know who 'anonymous' is in this case ) I hope we'll be able to give it a try.

And yes, I'll bear with you, coz you're worth it! (sound of hundreds of registered users thinking that's really soppy)

Yeah, it's probably true. Every so often the local police warn 'young ladies' not to drive in heels. But both my SO and I can drive perfectly well in heels, so what's the problem. Actually, I tend to drive slightly slower in heels too. Wonder why?

Oops! I did indeed mean 8UK. In fact, one of the things that bugs me about sizes is that I'm never sure what 8UK is in EUR. As for adding the country code - great idea, I'll try to remember to do that.

Yup, it's great to be in here reading and talking. I'd spend too much time in here but for the fact that my EPM's monitor our web usage quite closely, and I'm not ready for that conversation. Especially as it'd probably go something like this: Me: Hello? Them: You're fired. So, it's only when I'm near a phone line . But sometimes, I'll spend a while reading, then post a couple. According to my profile, I've managed 1% of the total posts, tho', so I must be talking more than I thought

Well, as some people have said, if you're complimenting a woman's appearance, she's not likely to complain. And fortunately for us guys, women seem easier with this kind of stuff. It's like all those great shopping trip experiences, where the female assistants will really help you out. I must admit, I've not asked someone yet where she got her shoes (other than my SO) but I don't see why I wouldn't.

I tend to just wear ordinary jeans, but I am looking for some slightly longer bootcut ones, just for a bit of added confidence. Actually, I seem to end up in my suit trousers and heels quite often, because I'll be driving back from somewhere that I had to go to in a suit .