JSpikeheels

check out the items listed under the seller's name : heelbuy" for some great styles and prices

these are a sample of their product

Jim

if you are in the US check out Payless Shoe Source..stores everywhere sizes up to 12 with a few 13's

these are 12's I wear a 10 1/2 US men's..

these are Frederick's Of Hollywood

.here's the link for the black ones

http://www.fredericks.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=Holiday2002&category%5Fname=Shoes-Mules&product%5Fid=67916

cheers/Jim

this started out 'for the guys" and turned into a 'celebration of Donna"

...back to my adventures in wearing stilettos and how this all plays in:

every time I was determined to practice and master the art of wearing spikeheels like utahnylons said- I would dispose of the shoes and go into a period of withdrawl until the need simmered long enough and I was back trying them again..

...so flash forward to the last year or so and, again like utahnylon, I decided that I would accept my feelings about wearing spikeheels and just let the sensations dictate what I would do.

..at this point there are two courses of activity taking place:

1) gaining comfort wearing them at home

2) gaining confidence wearing them in public

1) I don't wear them at home all the time but when the feelings come I do not resist..when I am alone the feelings generally last an hour or so then dissipate..sometimes I make a point of being in them when Donna comes home and she is getting accustomed to seeing me in them at home..sometimes I sit with her in our loveseat recliner-she in her white pumps and me in mine..

2) when I drive to her store to pick her up sometimes I wear the boots but don't get out and go in..sometimes when we get home she notices..SOMETIMES SHE DOES NOT

last night I told her "honey, you never have to worry about me showing up to pick you up in a pair of frilly pink stilettos with five inch spikeheels (although I do have a pair of pink five inch mules for home)-

..these are very discreet and yet they are very satisfying and she seems to be coming around..if I could spend more time in them and get natural-enough walking in them I suspect that most of her reservations would be satisfied..

..and, that's the key..at some point she won't think anything much of my big event abnd that's when we'll both know it's only a big thing IF SOMEONE MAKES IT A BIG THING..

who ME??

Jim

Donna and I have been married for thirty seven years..We are both Catholic and place a lot of value on our morality. We have two sons ages thirty six and twenty seven and it never entered our heads that anything should come before those babies..

many of you know love does not suddenly hit you between the eyes at first sight-in many cases Life Creates Love in the sharing of happiness and heartache over days. weeks, months years...

Donna has worn spikeheels since before she met me so she has always had a fondness for them but not necessarily what I would call a "passion"...many times she would say to me "you only married me for someone to wear high heels for you".. "yes, you're right and at the same time I married you because I wanted to make a life together with you and I always wanted you to be the mother of my babies.."

So we reached a level of sort-of agreement she wore them for me every time we went out together but never without me and that drove me crazy..I wanted her, somehow, to understand and support what I thought should be a passion for them..

..but, keep in mind, that this all went on inside my head- and I kept my intensity to myself unless I was overwhelmed with the "need" for her in spikeheels..and we would have our "fights" and pouts and eventually get over them.until the next time....

..and we never let on to the boys and we never let any of this have the least bit of an effect on how or what we did to raise them..

--------------------------

so I made do with whatever I could do or needed to do to keep the feelings subdued and appreciated the wonderful years she has given me..

then, about five years ago Robert moved out for the last time and it was Donna and Jimmy and the rest of our lives was NOW..about that time I was an active participant in Jenny's Forum the precursor to this illustrious Company..I began to share stories, anecdotes and jpgs with Donna of some of the more famous of you..Jane, Debbie(HK) Susan, Jenny-herself- and a number of others..

..and, something began to happen to Donna: she began to turn up in spikeheels at more and more unexpected times..

..one day she and I bumped into one another at a WalMart Store and she was dressed in spikeheels-unplanned and without me..and she started keeping a pair by her lounger at night...and I would creep out and peek and there she would be..

..Donna works as a bakery clerk at a local supermarkt chain-store..she has a pair of spikeheels with her in her conversion van which she changes into and wears home from work every night..

(thought you all'd like this one

..and she wears them at home every single evening..

..so something magical is happening..

I was patient for so many years-ssscottie those years drove me nearly crazy but it's been worth it..

..so encourage your wife as often as you can to share the fetish and be patient with her when she is tired..she will be there for you when you need her and that's all that really matters

good luck to you both..

Jim

Best wishes to you and your wife as you try to come to some kind of understanding.. ..a wife with serious issues about a sensitive subject like this-it seems to me- would certainly have sent out unmistakeable signals before this... ...one other thought..I would pay attention to how often she brings up this issue on her own...without any prompting from you..you might be able to detect just how divided she wants to be from you on the subject or how unwilling she may be to wish to consider a compromise... ...those of us who are so attuned to the need for spikeheels understand that this is a powerful river of emotion (that runs through us)-- a flow of which most wives and girlfriends have no idea..because high heels are such a part of the female culture the ladies have no concept of what spikeheels mean to us..or where the current forces a channel.. all the best Jim ,

oh please not to worry the day she accepts them is the day she forgets to notice I decided to just wear them on some outing..today she said "you seem kind of tall tonight are you wearing your spikeheels?" .."nuh uhhh" ..so she had to look to be sure..lol ------------------------------------------ but, seriously, like many of you have mentioned previously... as we become accustomed to wearing them more the focus shifts away from the "event" and they become mostly just part of what makes our world go around...as we (pretend to) notice them less others are less likely to pay attention to our little drama being played out.. .so the question becomes: is wearing them a big deal or is it not..on one hand they are the Centers Of Our Universe so how can we possibly downplay them and pretend they are just somethng we wear on our feet?? how can the two opposite expressions co-exist?? comments?? J

How many of us share that secret connection with the dollies out there in public coming and going everywhere in those wonderful stilettos..

..when I see stilettos on the street I get a delicious feeling that I can sense how they might feel..

Donna said I could wear them when we go out together "just so long as we don't go where anyone knows me.."

but, a wonderful work in progress..

J

..by the way, these are are here: if anyone else would like to order:

http://www.fredericks.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=Holiday2002&category%5Fname=Shoes-Mules&product%5Fid=67916

who said they wanted a closer look??

Jim

This last one is taken with a flash..

Enjoy, everyone

Jim

We hope you enjoy thes epictures..

Donna and Jim

Hello Everyone:

this is my first attempt at linking to a picture from my computer..I uploaded pictures to a hosting service called: PhotoBucket and here is the url for one of my favorites of Donna..

I hope it come across and I hope you enjoy

Jim

Hello Everyone:

A special hello again to Bubba..this is "Charlotte Jim" from Jenny's back with you all again..

As many of you who know me know I have fooled around for years with five inch stilettos but only for brief periods of time and always around the house because I never felt right wearing traditional ladies' style heels in public..

But I just ordered and received:

http://www.fredericks.com/product.asp?catalog%5Fname=Holiday2002&category%5Fname=Shoes-Mules&product%5Fid=67916

and I am going street heeling as an earlier series of posting called it..it really did come down to the right boots that brought me to that "comfort level" that Shafted and Jeff spoke about..

Stay Tuned friends

JSpikeheels (Jim)

..just wanted to say hello to everyone in here..old timers from Jenny's will remember Jim before I was Green__Ice I was JSpikeheels so it's time to resurrect a nickname more consistent with the topics of discussion here Looking forward to participating in the discussions , renewing old acquaintances and making some new friends Jim