Anita C.

Generally I tell them and think nothing more about it. If they're honest and straightforeward that's as far as the conversation goes. IF, however, there is an alterior motive, I ask POLITELY what they really want. This makes them either put up or shut up. I don't want excuses, I want the truth. Namaste', Anita C.

It's fall now & school has began. I know a number of you are wondering just what's been happening with Seannie... Seannie went through a peroid of self-examination and consulted with the therapist regarding just where Seannie was, where he is & where this all is going. Currently Seannie is of the opinion that he is transgendered and the therapist agrees. Seannie wants to proceed slowly and is still dressing on the weekends. Seannie is studying as much as possible on the CD/TG/TV issue and is trying to assess where he believes he really is regarding this. His parents are finalizing their divorce and this considered, are doing their level best in this very complex situation. When we all met in September, we sat down and were of the opinion that Seannie would be better off here than back home. He is comfortable & stable here and a move could be unsettling. This is not what Seannie needs right now. We also met with Seannies' high school counselers and told all. They were very considerate and were ok with the decission. Their only concerns being about the actions of the other kids. Seannie agreed that transitioning at school would not be the best for all concerned. They were put at ease when we said Seannie would continue to attend school as a boy. Last Saturday Samantha asked Seannie if there was surgery in the future. Seannie rolled her eyes and said "I've thought about it and right now I don't really know what I want to do next week, let alone the rest of my life! I really think I'll put that off my decission untill after graduation.". Samantha smiled & looked at me "Smart kid!". I couldn't agree more. Seannie is not on hormones, plays his keyboard, still runs around with the guys and has friends in both worlds knowing that right now this the best it can be. I asked the obvious question recently "What if it gets out that you wear girls clothes on the weekend?". "I'll deal with it as best as I can when & if that happens. Untill that time I'm going to be very careful.". We took a trip to Miami recently and he visited with a surgeon who has performed many SRS operations. They talked for hours and the good Doctor was impressed with Seannies' whole outlook regarding his situation. The Doctor told Seannie "you had better be damn sure about this 'cuz once I whack 'em off, I can't sew 'em back on!". They email each other & are keeping in touch. Seannie deals with each day as it comes. As do his parents and I. "Yesterday's past & tomorrow isn't here yet. We have to make the best of the now.". Namaste', Anita C.

I cannot claim all the credit here. Marnie & Samantha made me do it! Namaste', Anita C.

HA! 'Tis to laugh! I enjoyed Lucys' stories & posts and applaud her bravado & expertise! I'm sure "Lucy" exists at some level and enjoy "her" stories & hope they continue! I don't see any harm being done. As for me, well, I'm quite busy of late. I'm leaving the Law and going to entertain more and persue other interests. It's time for me to get out & tend to my first love and continue my journey towards a better understanding of my beliefs. The good news is that I'm getting more ideas for stories to share with you all and will keep on clik-clik-clik'ing away in my 5.5" stilettos! My love to all, especially Lucy! Namaste', Anita C. - STILL a adamant LUCY fan!

I love wearing dressy clothes-5.5" Stilettos & low cut dresses are my favorite things. I have noticed that some guys that have a focus problem. Seems that when they encounter a lady in a low cut dress wearing 5.5" stilettos and who has long 'nails his eyes roving around the scenery & that's ok. It's even amusing at times. A guy who's a regular at the club suffers from this & all of us who wear stilettos LOVE tormenting him. Sam & I are no exception. One evening I was feeling particulairly ornery and clik-clik-clik'ed my way over to his table. Sam & Marnie saw what was happening & as the evening went progressed this poor dude had three lovely ladies sitting with him all resplendant in stilettos, low cut dresses & with long 'nails. This poor man's eyes were bouncing around like a pinball & mean old us we were tormenting him to no end. I'd get up and turn around so he could see my shoes then both Sam & Marnie would do the same...poor gut got whiplash! Subtlety went completely out the window as we clik-clik-clik'ed our way around the room watching this guy in agony not wanting to miss a single thing. By the evenings end we all started talking about going to an all-nite diner and invited him along. He jumped at the chance. We clik'ed the half block to the diner and he was so intently jumping from watching Sams' feet to my feet to Marnies it was all we could do to keep from bursting out laughing. We had breakfast and when the check came Sam picked it up! We asked if we could walk him to his car and he declined...he said he was getting a headache (wonder why?). Maybe it was too much of a good thing? We're so bad....

GAD! It has been so hectic of late! I did purchase a rather interesting piece of lingere' recently. It is a all-in-one that has laces ala' corset! You pull it on & then lace it up! It has 6 garters and is HEAVEN to wear! When worn with 5.5" Stilettos it DOES make you sashay..can't help it! Delightfully tight & very much fun to wear. Makes you feel soooo pretty! Namaste', Anita C.

Now THAT'S funny! namaste', Anita C.

For me 5"-5.5"ers are my daily norm. I occasionally venture into 6" for some days when I feel a bit saucy. However doing the daily do in them requires a bit of effort and I always take along a lower pair, just in case. Namaste', Anita C

Brittney Spears and Justin Timberlake were walking on the beach. Justin said, "Hey Brittney, look at that dead birdie!" Brittney looked up at the sky and said, "Where?" Namaste', Anita C.

A Redheaded mom walks into her daughter's room, finds a beer bottle and says, "I never knew my daughter drank!" A Brunette walks into her daughter's room, finds a pack of cigarettes and says, "I never knew my daughter smoked!" A Blond mom walks into her daughter's room and finds a condom. She says, "I never knew my daughter had a prick!" Namaste', Anita C.

Why don't witches wear panties? Better grip on the broom. Namaste', Anita C.

Brittney & Barbie were standing next to each other when Barbie looks at her boobies, then at Brittneys'. "So yours are plastic too!". Anita C.

I'm re-naming my coputer Brittmay Spears because it's cheap, white & plastic. Namaste', Anita C.

One day George W. Bush and Dick Cheney walk into a diner. A waitress walks up to them and asks if she can take their order. Bush leans close to her and says, "Honey, can I have a quickie?" The waitress is appalled and yells at the President about women's rights and storms away. Cheney then says to Bush, "George, its pronounced 'quiche'." Namaste', Anita C.

Seldom

Does ANYBODY remember "PONG"???? Please don't make me feel any older!!! Namaste', Anita C.

First, your gay friends ARE ordinary people. They have bills, jobs and responsibilities JUST LIKE YOU DO. Second, You are as you are...

maybe you'll feel differently somaday, maybe you won't.

Seannie and I get along splendedly. MY sex life is none of HIS business and HIS sex life is none of MY business. (For the record he is straight).

Do I have issues with Seannie? Unequivicably NO but thankyew for playing.

We are all different and true peace comes from within. It doesn't come from controlling the actions of others.

As for your own dilema, you can ask yourself the following questions:

Is it really anybody elses' business what 2 consenting adults do in

the privacy of their own bedroom?

WHO is being hurt by these peoples private actions?

Morality is something that the psuedo-christians in the Moral Mafia of the Religious Right would LOVE to control. Everyone makes love the same way, same position, only when married, yadda-yadda-yadda-yadda etc.

These neo-conservatives should mind their own damned business!

If being around gay people bothers you, you have a real problem! You deal with 'em each and every day unbeknownst to you and your lil' world still works just fine.

'" T'would be such a nice world if only everybody thought, fealt, reasoned and processed the same way!" Well, toots . . . THEY DON'T!

So get over it and get used to it kiddo 'cuz you'll make your lil' self CRAZY if'n you don't!!!

Namaste',

Anita C.

Can one get Sorells with stiletto heels?? ?????? Anita C.

EXCELENT illustration of "Going off on a Tangent!" Gee, Laurie . . . maybe I SHOULD have ran a poll . . . Ciao 4 now, Anita C.

Gee . . . let me see . . .the answer would be YES!!

Namaste',

Auntie Anita C.

You mean Daddy LIED to me???!!! I stand corrected. T'anks, Auntie Emma! Namaste', Anita C.

Yes, Chris, the foot controls are the same. It IS a trick to work the radio & heater controls LEFT handed! Namaste', Anita C.

American Indian . . . Apache. My Father, Bill, was 1/2 Apache making me 1/4th Indian. Which explains a lot about my temper. If you think I'VE got a temper, you should meet my BROTHER! Namaste', Anita C.

's ok . . . now everyboy will wanna know what "TITL8" means . . . It means "To stimulate or excite in a very pleasurable way". Namaste', Anita C.

It means the spirit within me wishes well the spirit within you. Namaste', Anita C.