stefan

Hehe ok, rly no comments? have you weared your heels outside much? i mean stockholm is crowded with ppl ;D and younger ppl, (ppl at my age) are pretty prejudice, Atleast where i grew up.. so that is one thing that makes me even more scared to do this...We could start emailing, and u could tell me a little bit more about your experience of heeling in sweden(for starter, meeting up is a little bit much for me ) Btw im from Falun.

I wear my heesl out on and off. Not every day. In a way it is better to wear them out among many people in a big city. Living in a smaller city there is a higher risk that you meet somebody you know.

Yesterday I wore heels and a skirt to a local restaurant where I had a beer. Today I wore another skirt and heels out to the local grocery store in the area where I live.

/Stefan

I can't rly say that this site has helped me YET! i know it will in the future. Everytime i read a new thread about someone that have weared their heels outside for the first time ( or any other time for that matter) i get pretty jealous on that person an thinks, Someday that will be me, it sounds rly nice to wear them outside, especially for the first time. that day will come for me! the question is just when? But when it does i sure will let u know that ive done it, and once ive done it i probably won't stop

aDDe,

I safely say that the first time out is a little scary. You don't want anybody seing it, but another side of you want people to se it. It is rewarding when you finally do it. I have not yet had any comments good or bad.

Were in Sweden are you? I am in Stockholm. If you like we could meet and share some experiences.

/Stefan

Yes, Stefan, there is nothing except problems with your heeling from now on. Sorry for your difficulty, However, this aspect of your personality will follow you for the rest of your life. You are going to constantly be seeking opportunities to be alone so that you can wear your heels. And, from time to time, even though your wife says otherwise, she will give you rations of grief that you can hardly handle -- especially since you thought you had the issue already ironed out.

Bubba,

I don't se it as a problem but rather an oppurtunity. I went out to a restaurant today wearing both heels and a skirt.

/Stefan

I want to thank everyone who replied for helping me to see that I am not alone, and that I am a heeler and always will be. I feel like I owe an eternal debt of gratitude to y'all.

You are not alone. I think for the most of us it almost becomes an obsession. In a way we do like many women do buy many shoes. And for myself the very same obsession goes for skirts.

It seems I never ge enough of skirts and shoes. I have been our many times in skirt and regular male shoes and sometimes in heels with regular trousers and sometimes in both heels and skirts. Not as much as Jeff!!

/Stefan

Wow, A great collection. What was the comments from the coworkers? /Stefan

As I've said many times before, if you're going to go out in public, whether you're just wearing heels, or the sort of full blown outfit I sported yesterday, it's I-M-P-O-R-T-A-N-T that you look nothing short of your very best since you're going to be seen and critiqued by everyone around you. Besides, when you look good and know it, you feel good, and I felt damn great on Sunday.

And Jeff you looked sensational in that afernoon outfit. Keep up the good work. You are an inspiration to us all!!!!

/Stefan

Jeff, Yet another very nice outfit and story. I really love reading them. That is an inspiration to us all. Keep up the good work man. /Stefan

I have had no sighting in Stockholm, Sweden.

I will check it out. I normally don't read thoose parts of the forum. Maybee I should.

Skirts is really nice together with high heels. And we have all seen how sensational that can look for instance on JeffB or HappyFeat. I think your subconscious mind is ready for skirts and heels. /Stefan

The overall result is awful but the shoes looks nice. But if I understand it he was going to get £10,000 if he dressed like that for the rest of te show. What woudn't you do for money? The people in thoose shows probably would do even more than most for money.

And I would say that Big Brother is probably the worst of the reality shows. Nice shoes though.

Nine West "Thyme" pumps with a fantastic modern heel and almond toe. These came from a Nine West retail store. I gout these in synthetic patent because they were the ones on sale.

I think they look fantastic. I hope you get some nice outings with thoose pumps.

/Stefan

8/16/2009:

At this point, I guess I'm no longer perplexed when people ignore me, despite my eclectic choice of clothing. I simply dress the way I like and enjoy the experience. Wearing heels is great, wearing heels and a skirt is fantastic! I simply can't get enough because of how such a combo makes me feel, free, empowered, emboldened. In a way, I'm saying to the world: This is me! This is who I am and how I choose to dress! If you can't handle that, tough! I can't wait to go on another outing!

Jeff,

Thoose outfits look great and it feels good that more and more men dresses in skirts and heels. And when they look as hot as you do people should only have a positive reaction.

Good for you Jeff, You look really good in that skirt. I totally agree that a skirt is a really confortable garment. And I also beleive, as others, that as long as you look at ease yourself in a skirt not many people will notice. And for some reason a denim skirt seems to go more unnoticed than others. It's almost as its invisible´.

You should try it out and about. Wearing a skirt is so nice. As a matter of fact I tend to wear skirts more often than heels when I am out and about. Recently I shaved my legs and feeling the skirt touching my shaved legs is soo nice.

You are still flagged as a new member. Hmm. That must be something more to it then. I wonder if you must be thanked by somebody also?

Okay, that explains a great deal. Thanks.

Hi,

I think you are close to being a bronze member. I have 7 posts and are a bronze member. Maybee you only need one more post or possibly 2.

Not that I watch the tube too much, but is this program international? I don't even remember seeing it being advertised in my area.

That must be in the UK since the poster is from UK and I seem t remember they have a channel 4 in UK. I have not seen this program broadcasted in Sweden either.

/Stefan

I can only concur. Number 3 look sensational.

I've noticed a lot of guys here are into skirts, hose, etc.

My question is do you want to be just a MAN IN HEELS or Enjoy dressing more like a girl with all the fem? Skirts, hose etc.

Myself, I just want to be a guy in heels with my blue jeans and t-shirt or (guy clothes).

I like to be a man in whatever feel right for me. Some das it is just heels others it is skirts, heels and pantys. Ohters just normal male clothes. I just like to have the same choises women has.

/Stefan

Hi, Why is it that every time a man goes outside of the box he is considerred to be gay. Most people beleive you are gay if you wear skirts, dresses, earrings, nail polish, heels etc. I wouldn't mind if they called us different but the attidude that we are automatically gay makes me angry. And some info about me. I am a 51 year old male that likes to wear both earrings, skirts and heels. Some days I wear normal male clothes and shoes other days a skirt and the rest male attire and other days the whole shebang. I am however not a cross dresser, I still wan't to be a man wearing female clothing, or male versiosn of female clothers and shoes. /Stefan

Cause I want to!!!! Is there a better reason??? I think not!

I agree with you 100%. If a man want to wear heels, skirts, earrings or anything else I don't care. Let every man do what makes him feel the best. Why limit the ways we wear shoes, clothes or anything else for that matter.

Then of course it is fun to make people look twice sometimes. I have no problems wearing what ever I like when I don't know people, it's another story of course with friends, family and work. With friends, family and work I have only done earrings so far. But on the other hand I have been doing that on and off for about 30 years.

I've noticed a lot of guys here are into skirts, hose, etc.

My question is do you want to be just a MAN IN HEELS or Enjoy dressing more like a girl with all the fem? Skirts, hose etc.

Myself, I just want to be a guy in heels with my blue jeans and t-shirt or (guy clothes).

I myself wan't to be a man in heels and skirt. I don't pretend to be a woman that is not what I want. I happen to thinks that heels and skirt kind of goes hand in hand with each other.

/Stefan