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Friday the 18th of December 2009
Today I wen't on a 30 minute walk in my immediate surroundings passing many people and some restaurants with a lot of people in them. Today I was wearing a black knee lenght pencilskirt, slightly on the formal side. With the skirt I had a longs leeve white mens shirt and black hose. Today I used my dress shoes with heels. You can see them in my album.
I really like the feeling of the pencil skirt in that it slightly limits the movement, it is simply not possible to take your normal long male steps. They have to be shorter and more elegant.
Most people did not react at all, but there was a couple I passed where it sounded like the guy was laughing after I passed them. It could have been something else that amused him but I doubt it.
All in all yet another fun adventure.
Have fun guys. You only live once.
/Stefan
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It looks better without the hair on the toes.
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Had your friend joined you at lunch, the problem of letting your friends know of your crossdressing would have been solved.
That is so true. Even if it is a slightly scary thought at this point in time. But I guess since I do streetheeling and skirting in the neighbourhood where I live my subconcious mind really wan't my friends to know while my concious mind is slightly scared what will happen.
I am pretty sure my friend will accept it, atleast when it comes to the heels, maybee not the skirt. My biggest worry, as it feels right know, is to get my 80 year old mother to accept it. But she does accept the fact that I wear earrings in both ears every day and has done so for about 15 years. So she might actually accept me heeling?!?
And then of course we have work. I am not ready for skirts at work that might be considered weird since I have some customer contacts. But maybee I could get away with heeling? I think some of the women at work might actually like it because the compliment me on my earrings and notice when I change between all the earrings I have.
Anyway I have a mission during 2010 to come out of the closet with my friends and family.
Thank you all for your support and morale boost.
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It sounds like a pleasure to have pedicure. I simply have to try it some time.
Last summer I did however apply red nailpolish on my toenails, but having it done with pedicure done by a professional sounds so much better. -
Stefan,
Thanks for posting your adventures. Comments are meant to be constructive and are my own opinion of course. I do like the boots in your first pic not just because I like western styles but they look properly masculine and the heel does not look out of proportion to your build, but not the combination of the skirt and boots. The look would be so much better with bootflair jeans that show most of the heel.
The holiday snap, the skirt look is great and don't change a thing there. When its hot the only comfortable thing to wear is a skirt whatever style it is (Kikoy is my preference).
Keep having fun.
Simon.
Simon,
I am glad for all comments I can get. I guess we all have a long way to walk before we find the optimal combinations together with or without skirts. I don't own any bootflair jeans but I can se your point.
Another thing that I forgot to mention yesterday was that a very good friend of mine that live in another aparment building about 100 meters from me passed the restaurant, were I were sitting down, and saw me sit down and eat when he passed the restaurant sitting on a bus. He gave me a call and was almost on his way to join me at the restaurant. He does not know of my interest in heels and skirts. Talk about a close call. Phuuuu.
I don't have a problem showing myself in heels and skirts or just heels with people I don't know, but I have yet to work up enough courage to do it when I meet my friends or at work. That might be a goal for 2010.
Cheers for now.
/Stefan
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Congrats on your outings stefan. It's always nice to read a positive posts about about an enjoyable outing. Keep it up!
Stefan:-)
I echo NH Heels sentiments on your outings. Your having fun in various outfits and wearing your heels out and about. There is nothing like it and good on you for doing it. Congrarts!
Cheers---
Dawn HH
NH Heels and Dawn HH.
Thank you for the kind words. Kinds words from others as well as people sharing their outings with others is what keeps us all going and hopefully will inspire others. I hope in my small way that I can inspire oters here as well as in the real world. Even if I haven't seen any other men with heels, or heels and skirt, here in Stockholm I will continue my adventures and hope that it will eventually inspire others to also try it out.
Every adventure where you eihter have no comments or a positive comment will boost your own courage. I have so far not gotten any positive or negative comments on my adventures.
/Stefan
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Hi, Now it has been some time since I went out in heels. As you might have seen in earlier postings I quite regularly go to local restaurants mainly because I live alone and don't like to cook for myself. It's a lot more fun to cook when you have friends invited home. On Monday the 14'th of December I wen't to a local chinese restaurant dressed in a long sleeve shirt, trousers and high hell boots. The boots were under my trousers so not very visible. Today we had a lot of snow in Stockholm and for some time is was almost a snowstorm. Today I dressed in a short sleve shirt, a grey knee length skirt and my black kneehigh boots. This time both the boots and heels was clearly visible since I was wearing a skirt. As far as I could tell there was no reactions anywhere. I held my head high and acted like it was totally normal so I suspect a lot of people didnät even notice. It was a rewarding outing where I was walking with heels in snow for the first time. It was actually no problem at all.
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I usually eihter go to different stores or to different cafes of restaurants. Normally I have some type of boots ankle or kneelength or pumps or normal shoes with heels. Theese go together with either jeans or other trousers and either a short or long sleve shirt. Sometimes I wear a denim skirt or a cargo skirt instead of throusers.
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I bought this pair of boots while on an outing yesterday. They are Enzo Angiolini "King" lace-up style boots that come to about mid-calf with a very nice stiletto heel. The best part is that I found them on Marshall's clearance rack for $40! I am planning on taking them out for a spin tonight.
HF,
The look really nice. Good luck with your new boots tonight.
/Stefan
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NH Heels, Nice boots. I have a pair of calf boots that look very simlar. Good luck to you on taking the step to try them on in the shops and together with your wife. Keep it up. /Stefan
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Well said HappyinHeels. I totally agree.
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kingfishj8 Nice boots indeed. Good luck with the new boots and your outings. /Stefan
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Ok So here is one of a few diffrent outfit's im thinking about! I think the skirt hose and heel's look good but I think the shirt make's me look fat! I have worn this shirt with pant's too witch I don't think it look's too bad! Please let me know what you guy's think asap! Like I said in my latest post! It's cold and snowing out now as I am typing this! So i may not even wear a skirt! i know one of my shorter one's are out of the picture! that's for sure! I may do my running around in this skirt just too see if it's going to be too cold for a skirt today! I also thought about wearing these pant's with this shirt and shoe's! Here is a link to the other way i was thinking about! Im going to do the skirt thing this am since I really don't need to get out of the car! I will hope to here some thought's when I get back!
www.hhplace.org/attachments/guys/7641d1255702435-out_about_heels-pa164643.jpg
Hi. Even if you opted not to use the skirts outfit I think that was looking good. If you own a pair of high heel boots it would feel warmer even when it is cold outside. Anyway good luck with your appointment.
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And as an answer to your last question, yes I've met one other guy from this forum in Stockholm. Actually I've met him twice...
I'm not too sure where the other Swedes are from, or I've forgotten, haven't been here for almost a year now...
It is nice knowing that there are ohters with similar interest in the same town. Keep it up.
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Do you know of anu other heel lovers in Stockholm? Maybee we should have a heel meet.
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Well you must have missed me...
Ok, not been out so much lately but a year ago I wore my knee high black leather boots with 8cm stilletto heels everyday.
Thighhighs
Where in Stockholm do you live? I myself live in Hammarby Sjöstad.
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Hi, Here is a couple of boots I bought recently. I love them all very much. They are very comfortable to walk in. /Stefan
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No, Of course not!
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2009-11-29
Today it was time for another adventure. This time to a chineese restarant that is about 1 kilometer from home. I was dressed in a white short sleeve shirt with blue stripes and a grey skirt going below the knee. On my feet I had a pair of new black boots with a 3,5" heel. They are really nice to walk in and on my way to and from the restaurant I had some double takes but no comments at all. The staff at the restaurant has now seen me many times in different combinations of normal menswear, normal menswear and heels, skirts and normal shoes and of course like now with both skirt and heels.
Even if I am sligtly nervous some days other days it does not bother me at all to be dressed in skirt and heels.
I hardly ever get eny comment out and about. This summer I did get a comment at anothter local restaurant when I was wearing a denim skirt. I turned out that the guy was homophobic. It is a strange thing that some people autoamtically beleive that you are gay if you step outside of the norme with clothes. Anyway I did not care.
Attached you will see todays outfit.
Until next time take care all of you.
/Stefan
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HF, I must complement you in the skirt outfit. It looks very nice! I think it fits you very well and I wish you get many more outings in skirts. /Stefan
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The same or me. When I as about 16 years old I tried on some of my mums clothes and heels that I found in the attic of out house. No one really know, or atleast I think no one did notice. /Stefan
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And here is one picture of me from the summer vacation, without heels at the time. /Stefan
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Hi,
I have been around here for some time but not really contributed with any pictures of my boots.
My interest actually started with skirts and I have been a member on some other sites that is all about skirts on men and not heels at all. As a matter of fact some of thoose site actively discourage heels since they think it does not promote men wearing skirts.
Anyway, I have an interest in both and for years I have had a couple of heels and skirts. I have not really worn my heels outside of my home and the same goes for skirts. Lately I have changed that and during this summer I started to use some of my skirts and I even was dressed in skirts during a vacation this summer. No heels then.
Since then I have bought some new heels, both boots and pumps etc. I have been using some of them with my regular trousers on and off for very short time outside. Sometimes I have been at one of the local restaurants in heels and trousers and sometimes doing other things.
I have been rather daring I think in that I am doing this where I live and the risk of meeting someone I know is high. I have found a lot of courage and inpiration in posts etc from people like JeffB, Happyfeet etc.
Monday 2009-11-16
I went to a local restaurant dressed in short sleeve shirt, boots and a denim skirt. The restarant was not very crowded since it was about 45 minutes to closing time on a Monday but I had a beer and sat down reading a book. I have been to this restaurant many time and only once in skirts and not in heels. There was no comment at all from anybody. Could not se if anybody really looked at me since I was sitting reading my book.
Tuesday 2009-11-17
I had to go to a local grocery store. I did this using the same outfit as last night but I put on a t-shirt instead of a shirt. I did this in broad daylight around lunchtime. There were a lot of people around! In the grocery store I met a former neighbor and we said hi. He did not comment on my attire but he must have noticed becuase he was not very talkative at all. But i didn't bother about that. Below is the outfit in the grocery store.
Have a nice day
/Stefan
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For me it is any heels that feels comfortable and looks nice. Even if stilettos are nice they are not always practical. /Stefan
Who has bought some new shoes
in For Everybody
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Happyfeet,
The look really stylish and nice. Good luck with your new buy.
/Stefan