stefan

Hi, I read somewhere that sometimes when they do photoshots for ads for hose they actually use male legs. I don't know if that is truu. To me men has just as good looking legs as women do especially with hose on. The one thing you can say about mens legs is the hair. To look good the hair has to go, but with for instance black hose the legs look good even with hair. A female vaitress at a local restaurant told me I had very nice legs one day when I was dressed in a skirt, heels and black hose.

Wouldnt it be nice if people that dont understand or approve of other peoples fashion sense could keep there mouth shut? I dont have a problem with double takes or persons with a genuine interest giving me a question. What I have a problem with is the homophobic people that beleives that everything that dos not comform to standars is automatically gay. For instance, a year ago I went to a nearby gasstation to buy some sodas wearing some heels. I was approaced by a guy that could not say that he had questions as to why I wore heels. He had to blame some others in the gas station, i.e. he told me that they was wondering why I wore heels. Anyway I did not let that worry me, I gave him an answer and got on with my business.

Humans are very adaptable so long as they are open to change.

If you really love someone then anything is possible.

Amanda,

I totally agree with you and we all hope that the future will produce people that are open to change.

If that happens there is no limit to the possibilities to relationships. I really hope that "everything" will be possibel in the near future. There is to much preconceptions and fears for the unknown.

And Amanda thanks for your valuable comments.

Here is a couple of photos of what I was wearing. Sorry if they're not that good.

Thats a good look Jarod. Keep it up.

I like your honesty.

In addition, a lot of male heel wearers may find that walking in extreme heels is easier on their joints, as they tend to be thicker and stronger than a girl's.

Pussyinboots, I think you are on to something. There are days when I have been at the office the whole day in boring mens shoes and sometimes are a little bit aking in the feet. When I put on heels my feet feels better, would you beleive it.

Nice story and a nice pair of boots.

I'm trying to get a hold of a pair of wedge heels from Aldo, but even proxy shipping services like Borderlinx are of any help (due to Aldos' shipping policy), so I'm asking if anyone here in the UK would be prepared to help me out. I'll send you the money to cover the price, shipping costs to Sweden, and some extra compensation for your effort. I'd be forever grateful!

Hi,

You might not know but Aldo opened up a shop in Stockholm the 19th of May 2011. I have not been there but it is supposed to be located at Sergelgatan 11. I don't know if they have the heels you are looking for but maybe.

/Stefan

Just bought these today at Payless. They are my first pair of heels with any type of platform, as I am not a big fan of the platform look. These aren't bad as the platform is realtively thin rather some of those that are and inch or two. It is interesting to walk in, as the heel is still rather high (nearly 5") and the sole doesn't really bend much. I think I would get quite tired in them if I had to walk any distance. But I must admit that I am enjoying the look and feel as it is something different from my usual style.

Ron,

I really like that style. Happy heeling in you new shoes.

Agree with Yozz, some of them might be sold as "womens" shoes, but they all seem to have about the same degree of a dull non-feminine appearance to me, sorry to say it, but well you asked.

From that angle they all looka like boring male shoes to me. :mecry:I was hoping some of them had a nice heel.

Hi, I have not written much here lately but now I am slowly getting back to write here again. I have come to understand that to feel well with myself I really need to express some more parts of my female side. For instance since about 6 months I have been much more bold with my earrings i.e. I don't use the subdued type of earrings mot males uses if they use earrings, and I were them for work. As a matter of fact there is not many reactions at all. I also have nailpolish on both my fingernals and toes every day, and yes I also have it at work. And every day that I come home from work I change into a skirt and some heels. Some days I change into a dress. One of my friends have seen me many times in booth heels and a skirt and he is very supportive of the whole deal with skirts, nailpolish, earrings etc. I go dressed in skirt and heels to some of the local restaurants were I live about 3-4 times a week. Currently my favourite skirts are below the knees and for heels I usually have kneehigh boots. The waiters at the restaurants always treets me with a smile and I have so far not had any comments from the other guests, even if they twisted their heads now and then. I have almost not had any bad comment at all fron anybody.

that last pic is great

how big are those hoops? they look like they are 3.5 or 4 inches

awesome

Scott,

They are actually 3 inch. Glad you like them.

For me it would be the face, the legs and mot importantly the attitude. Even if the face might be the first thing that cathed the eye the attitude it what really makes me interested in a girl. If the girl does not have a nice attitude not even the sweetest face could make it up in my book.

Of course they do. But you never see them called cross dressers do you? I totally welcome women to buy what ever they like, I dont put a label on anyone. Everybody should be entitled to dress they way they feel most comfortable or fashionable. For instance a woman in trousers, shirt and a tie can be very sexy and female. For all I care women are allowed to walk the streets in both heels and real manly boots if they like to.

looking good Stefan. I have lots of earrings like that as well. But I rarely wear then out of the house. I would like to though.

I think you should.

Even if you might get some initial questions or bad comments, and then again you might not, that should not stop you to do what you want to do. For the most part people will accept it and even give you positive comments. With very few exeptions I think people are more tolerant than you might think. I only know of a couple of friends that does not really like it, but even my 82 year old mother accepts it.

And I have gotten very positive feedback from my brothers 18 year old daughter. She really likes my earrings and also some necklaces I sometimes use.

Give it a go. You only live once.

Hi, Since about 6 months I have started to wear large hoops and lately even rather large dangling earrings. I have even added a hole to each ear. Attached you will find some of the earrings I use on a daily basis. I waer them all to work. Number 1 I wore today and number 2 yesterday. The only type of comments I get is from some of the women at work that are a littel bit jealous that I have more earrings and a bigger variation than them.

Society is so set on keeping its stereotyped classifications, that it hampers people in really living a life they would choose if given the possibilities. It has been said, we only have this life to live, so let me make it as full as I can according to who I am.

Very well spoken. I totally agree. But I suspect that all the mentioned preconceptions will make it hard for all us men that like to do something that society thinks is different. It has ben mentioned before, but why do ,especially men, think that any man that does not dress like everybody else automatically is gay? Gay people does not normally use high heels or dress in skirts.

I suppose it will take time before society will accept men in heels and skirts etc. It took time before it was accepted for women to dress in pants.

My wife know about my heeling and she approves of it, she even goes out with me heeling in 3" heels under my jean. We go out and byu together she evn suggests what I should wear. The beauty of it is we wear the same size shoe and she tries it on and tell me if it is comfortale or not.

It sounds like you are a lucky man. Keep it up and have as much fun as you can.

I have also painted my toenails since about 1 year back. The same goes for my fingernails that are painted most of the time. There is hardly any comments at work. Besides my painted nails I also wear earrings every day to work. Since a couple of months I have started to wear eihter large hoops or dangling earrings. Some days I wear quite big dangling earrings you normally would only see women wear. Not many comments about this at work.

Not my style at all. I think they are quite ugly.

Whenever i have abit of free time i always browse around the internet looking for my next purchases i came across this outfit and love it!

http://www.swishclothing.com.au/store/components/com_virtuemart/shop_image/product/Shilla_trekker_r_4c6a5003e8148.jpg

what do you guys think? from what you've all seen of me, do you guys think i could pull it off? i love both the shoes and the dress, but don't want it to look terrible on me. I think it'd suit me well as the neck line isn't too low, so my flat chest wouldn't be so obvious

I think the outfit could suit you, but I don't like the colour. Maybee something dark blue or black instead?

I would be interested. It all comes down to timing since I have a lot to do at work. But the December January timeframe should work.

Hi, I think I might have seen in once othewise I am the only one even if i know there are others in Sweden.

Mal, I sure am looking forward to the continuation of this outing.

The stickers definately has to go. No stickers for me.

Hi there

I've looking for a Caparros retailer in Western Europe, without success

Can anyone help ?

Thanks in advance

Have you tried shopping online. It looks like yo u can do that on the website. But then again maybee they don't ship outside of the US, in that case I guess you have to continue looking.