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"It is so funny, moffies are too conservative and heelers are to scarred." :-D LOL I know exactly what you mean! Reason I asked is I have a mate who reckons theres a couple clubs in JHB and DBN that cater to us (and the gay community - probably more so) and that hes never seen / had any hassles! Thats said he is a screaming queen who doesnt quite fit into any mould! Anyway, like you I'm simply too much of a bangbroek to even contemplate it and now that Im married and knowing her attitude doubt i could contemplate it. Youre v lucky to have an understanding SO - who knows maybe mine will come around when she gets her head aroundthe fact that I'm not going over to the other side and never will. She's not really into HH's herself so that probaly explains a lot but i can live in hope. Take it easy

Hi From one saffer to another .. albeit from the mud island. There is a group called South African heelers if youre interested

Hi, noticed that youre also a member of South African Heelers group so thought id drop you a line and say hi

Yep - a small challenge but something we can aspire to

Thats good to hear - now we just need to get men in heels a little more main stream so we can venture out without being 'bliksemed'. Think girls would be a lot more accepting but its still tough - cultural thing. I believe there are some gr8 clubs that cater to us but have never been, have you?

Hi, Fellow Saffer heeler but not resident so wondering if i can still join the group.

Hello from one saffer to another .. though i was the only one in SA who had a thing for heels