Chaosheels

On 1/29/2019 at 1:25 AM, pebblesf said:

Take care buddy, heel quickly

Hahaha love the pun hey still got a week or two but got my cast off atleast

On 1/22/2019 at 8:08 PM, jeremy1986 said:

Sorry to hear, @Chaosheels - take care and get those floors fixed  

Thank mate appreciate it

On 1/20/2019 at 11:01 PM, jeremy1986 said:

oh no!  Wish you well.... did you slip because of the heels?

Yeah I have like tiled flooring lol slipped landed on a closed fist now in a half cast for 2 more weeks

On 1/21/2019 at 5:54 AM, Cali said:

@Chaosheels it also looks like a fracture on your baby finger as well. Remember to sleep with your hand higher than your heart, it will heal faster.

Thanks I go to a fracture clinic tomorrow probably have another x-ray to see if it's healing ok and they will probably do another cast

Sorry I haven't been on in a little peeps but was wearing my heels last week and slipped and fractured the bone near my wrist the very last bone lol a reminder to always be careful in high heels :D 

15 hours ago, Chorlini said:

 

That's because to her you are also an accessory. How you look beside her reflects on her just as much as her own clothing choices do.

 

 

But once in while won't hurt her I've tried to explain this but I get nowhere

11 hours ago, highheel111 said:

@jeremy1986 I love the heels!!!  never had strappy heels usually go for a classic pump  loving the colour too.

Very nice :) love the color and your toenails just finish the look ;)

Some more pics

On 1/4/2019 at 3:48 PM, HappyinHeels said:

Chaosheels,

This is the part where I don't get women. She may be worried what others may think if you go but are you worried when she wears pants? Has a tattoo? Has very short hair? These are all things women have adopted in my lifetime and the sky didn't fall. As Steve63130 said,  the event is a fundraiser for a women's cause. To hell with the trailer court antics of stares and laughing. The point is to see the world via another perspective and if that isn't good enough for some other spectators then may they all gag on their cigarettes and ignorance. HinH 

Haha I know right she wears my clothes and shoes even my undies all the time but when the gloves on the other hand she makes me feel so bad for even uttering a word she don't care what ppl think of her but with me it's a big shame I don't get it at all

On 1/1/2019 at 1:39 PM, luvmaryjanes said:

Find the closest Walk A Mile In Her Shoes charity walk and join in. Keep some Vaseline with you to put on your toes to avoid blisters. On the first one I signed up but it didn't start for 2 hours so we went to a restaurant. I walked in in my mary janes. The kid that opened the door said:"I wanted to do that but had to work" Our waitress said:"Those are SO cute, where did you get them!" But the best fun was a little girl about 6 who while looking at me said:"Mommy, he is wearing girl shoes." I wanted to say Darn right!

Hell yeah but my wife is worried about what her family and friends would think if I went out so that's the main barrier I face

On 12/22/2018 at 2:21 AM, Barr said:

I like your collection of heels. I have my share of Pleasers and fetish heels. They're fun. My ex bought me killer Pleaser boots. I should post them sometime. Be careful though...i fractured my foot in them. Be responsible with those sexy heels!

Thank you very much I'm getting better at walking in them tiny steps is the way to do it lol fallen over a few times but getting better

Thanks :)

Some more pics from today I love these heels!

22 hours ago, TKHeels said:

Hi chaosheels,

Hopefully, after all this good advice, you are a little less chaotic-feeling.  Kudos for being open and honest from the start.  Back when I was a young newlywed, I was rather pushy at getting my wife to accept me wearing heels, etc.  I even did the occasional cross-dress in going out.  She helped me pick dresses and accesories.  I picked my own shoes.  Only had a couple pairs back then (black stiletto with silver studs, and typical clear lucite stripper heels).  I thought she was cool with it but turns out, after the fact, no, she didn't like it.  She just tolerated it because she loves me.  Things almost ended for us right there, but we stuck through everything, gave all that stuff a rest for a few years. 

Fast forward to early last year, I "discovered" that I still have the desire to express myself occasionally with women's footwear, and have since collected a few pairs (25 or so, presently, after having gotten mad and purging another 20 pairs or so about 9 months ago...also, don't purge your shoes.  You'll regret it and then just have to spend more money to catch up again).  She is still not that keen on me wearing them, but accepts the fact that I have some.  I don't wear them around her, as to keep her peace of mind, but as soon as she goes to bed, the heels come on, or if I'm out and about without her.  One of the key reasons she's not totally comfortable with me wearing heels is due to the fact that she can't wear heels right now, due to an ankle surgery that was botched a couple years ago and needs to be fixed, so she's envious, jealous, and sometimes just plain hurt that the doctor screwed things up for her for now.  That being said, we love each other, we tolerate some of each other's "quirks" and work through issues the best we can.  I'm just thrilled she hasn't made me get rid of all my shoes.  Sometimes, that's the smallest "win" you can have.  We also have a 16 year old son who also knows I have heels, but I don't advertise to him and don't wear them around him.  Fortunately for me, he's a generation-whatever person, where, if something makes you happy, whatever . . .

I wish you the best in your heeling adventures.

Hey @TKHeels thank you very much for sharing I can relate to alot of this I don't think my wife likes it very much either just tolerates it it makes me sad a little coz heels are so fun lol but thank you again 

13 hours ago, Gudulitooo said:

Flowers also.

Better deal than cleaning the house

 

Good idea mate

19 hours ago, Melbhhboy said:

Nice wedge boots @chaosheels, where did you get them from? 

Um my wife picked them up at salvation army for 5 bucks and never wore them so I asked if I could have them very nice to walk in just need some pants to match lol

12 hours ago, HappyinHeels said:

Chaosheels,

I think your wedge boots are a good start to finding heels you'll actually wear outdoors. Colors like black, brown, gray, tan, cognac and styles like wedge sandals would work well for you. What you have to decide, and what actually gets noticed first, is whether or not you'll paint your toe nails. Open-toe wedges under jeans or other pants could be overlooked but it is often the nail colour which gets the notice. I do think you are heading in the right direction. There is world of difference between wearing inside and outside and a corresponding difference in the enjoyment you'll get HappyinHeels

Painted nails for sure love a bit of colour they r usually painted anyway a nice deep purple atm lol

10 hours ago, Cali said:

Painted toe nails? What about painted fingernails?

I wish lol my wife won't let me go that far maybe once in a blue moon lol

I also got given another pair of ankle boots but haven't got any snaps of yet when I get a chance to wear them I'll post some pics

19 hours ago, jeremy1986 said:

Agreed - these wedges  are cute, @Chaosheels!

Thanks I think they are cute too!!!!!!

On 11/27/2018 at 12:57 PM, jeremy1986 said:

Good move there buddy .... bribery will always smooths things out  

Haha isn't that the truth things go a bit smoother when she is relaxed and in a good mood lol

And the same for others too fair enough trying to normalise it for the SO but calling it a collection is what it is lol and I'd say anymore than 4 or 5 pairs is a collection technically speaking :) but @Melbhhboy nice assortment of heels mates ;) 

8 hours ago, Cali said:

Punctuation, WOW!!!! Good job mate.

I think when you use the word "collection" to describe your heels you set yourself up to having it be called a fetish by other people (wife, SO, etc.).  Do you have a "collection" of shirts or do you just have shirts? I have shoes, over 45 just happen to be high heels.

Yeah I got a collection of shirts my good ones, same as pants my good ones, same as my shoes my good ones. I'm sure most started as a fetish and went on to love wearing them. I'm not gonna lie mine started as a fetish but now I'd just really like to wear them. I love how they look on my feet, I want to be able to go out without fear of being ridiculed and looked at. And would it be a problem if it where a fetish? You make it sound like a bad thing.

And I'm pretty darn sure my wife wouldn't care if they where a collection lmao o.O 

8 hours ago, Cali said:

 

Nice wedge ankle boots gave a test run tonight and can honestly say I like them other than being a bit thight

On 11/19/2018 at 12:29 PM, heelsareme said:

Welcome Chaosheels

We are a small group here in Aus . Where are you living?

A nice start to your collection and your wife is very generous!

Kim

 

I live in Vic near the border and thanks for the welcome

@Melbhhboy you have very nice collection mate wish I can have one so extensive one day very nice!

And thank you everyone for the welcome

Sorry for the late replies just figured out how to follow posts lol

Unfortunately we don't have thanksgiving here but we have fires all the same my best wishes to all those who have been affected fire season is just about to start here hope it's no so bad this year

4 hours ago, HappyinHeels said:

Chaosheels,

Your heels are looking good and your sentences even better! A job well done on both fronts. HinH

Haha thank you :), I am trying with the punctuation. Even if it's only a few symbols

Welcome back mate

15 hours ago, Logjam said:

Hey Chaosheels, off topic, but kudos on the artwork on the calves! I’m a fan. May I ask - is there a story behind the pieces,or did you just like the look?

Regards, Logjam

To be honest lol mostly from when I was late teens getting drunk letting mates do tattoos some turned out good like my leg the other leg is an unfinished mess lol but I keep em coz they remind of good memories and stuff and each does have its own story the smaller one was two friends were fighting over who is the better tattooer so one did the line work the other the shading and that's what came out

1 hour ago, AlexC94 said:

Good on you! I've got two pairs of pleaser boots and being a small footed person I'm lucky to find the right size with the highest heel I can get away with. My pairs are Pleaser Adore 2043 and Domina 2000.

Very nice I have a thigh high part of pleaser boots very high heel lol I'm not sure what they are called would have too look on the box 2 more pairs of pleaser heels one is open toe ankle strap they are very pretty too and these red demonia dolly's

39 minutes ago, pebblesf said:

Sounds great buddy....Sure sounds like you are headed in the right direction....Take it slow with the wife, and keep communicating.....D

I will do I have noticed if I don't push it too much we can work something out I'm gonna try buying a pair of less conspicuous heels though one that are easier to walk but finding something my size proves difficult