AJ777

Only worn around the house and driveway platform very high but comfy and easy to walk in. $50 + actual shipping to you.

Message me if interested.

On 11/9/2015 at 5:07 AM, JeffB said:

Very nice pumps, my friend. They look good on you! Bravo!

I have those and found them very uncomfy

Hey everyone, I am thinking about selling some of my heels, I have too many, hard to hide this many from the wife   Would anyone be interested in buying some? They are all size 11 US, I will post some photos this weekend if anyone is interested. I would have them all reasonable in price, $20-$30. Let me know

On 3/25/2017 at 2:37 PM, HappyinHeels said:

AJ777,

You had the courage and confidence to wear what you wanted and where you wanted to wear it. All your future success and confidence builds from this experience and this moment. I'm not sure any "lesson" was lost since you still got a positive interaction. Many noticed and one person took the time to pass on your shoes were noticed. Many have said before if you will be noticed but are either unaware or unaffected by it because there was no meaningful effect on your day's or night's activities. What people notice on your feet, body, or elsewhere is a completely normal result of being out in public. To the extent any of this background effect matters is entirely up to you. You had the confidence of character to dress the way you wanted BEFORE the encounter by the store greeter so what has really changed now? Nothing really important. You have now a piece of useful information which should actually help reinforce your confidence. You did what you wanted and the Earth did not rotate off its axis. I have said whatever one does is best executed, and ultimately admired, when it carried out with confidence. You may have already know that subconsciously and now you know it tangibly. That's a good thing. Keep striding, keep moving, and keep your head held high. And don't hide your heels as your money and patronage are just as good as anyone else's. HappyinHeels

Thank you

I really appreciate all of the feedback on this so far, I love the idea of being me and am so jealous of my friends that are women that they can wear the heels out there and I am afraid to do so. I do have a friend that has going out with me in heels to easy my mind, that was fun. Need to do that more.

Thank you everyone, look forward to posting more!!

On 3/23/2017 at 8:55 PM, pebblesf said:

AJ

First, that is a great combination, very powerful....

Next, I will tell you not to be so hard on yourself, and give yourself some credit for being courageous and confident.  I have been in the same position once or twice I guess, kind of like a "deer in the headlights" after receiving a compliment.  Look at all you have accomplished, and accept the fact that people are actually complimenting you!  I'm sure you will engage more after receiving your next compliment. 

Trust me, the greeter was paying you a compliment.  He would have said nothing if he felt you were strange or customers were poking fun at you. 

Thank you for that and I agree on all. The question I have been asking myself is do I go back to that store again??

On 3/23/2017 at 8:55 PM, pebblesf said:

AJ

First, that is a great combination, very powerful....

Next, I will tell you not to be so hard on yourself, and give yourself some credit for being courageous and confident.  I have been in the same position once or twice I guess, kind of like a "deer in the headlights" after receiving a compliment.  Look at all you have accomplished, and accept the fact that people are actually complimenting you!  I'm sure you will engage more after receiving your next compliment. 

Trust me, the greeter was paying you a compliment.  He would have said nothing if he felt you were strange or customers were poking fun at you. 

Thank you good points, I appreciate them, can't wait to do it again. I have been wondering, do I go to that store again? thoughts?

On 3/23/2017 at 7:13 PM, Steve63130 said:

I think you sense an opportunity lost here. Oh, well, perhaps it was a learning experience and next time you will engage the greeter or the other shoppers a little more. For example, if you had wanted to strike up a conversation with the gal in the shoe department, you could have broken the ice with some line like, "Don't you just hate it when they're out of the size you want!" or try on a pair and say, "Excuse me, but how do you think these look on me." You'll might get a smile and a pleasant reply and take it from there. Or you could get a frown or a deer-in-the-headlights look as she cautiously backs away from and looks around to see if the coast is clear or if somebody is filming Candid Camera. Not everyone is amused. 

I like the fact that you had the courage to go to the store and wear what you wanted, but I think you might have come across as a bit shy or embarrassed. You don't want to give the impression that you think what you're doing is wrong or could be construed as wrong. You just want to be outgoing and confident, engage in conversation, and include some humor or joking in your conversation: "A guy can't have too many shoes, right?"

Good luck in your future jaunts, and thanks for sharing your story. It gets easier each time, it's legal, and it's fun. And some women are impressed with a guy who has that kind of confidence!

Steve

 

Thanks alot Steve, I agree, I am so worried people will think I am weird, gotta get over that I guess. I am left wondering what they thought of me. Wow that dude had some high heels wow how does he walk in those?? Or that dude is Gay.  Did they think it was a negative that I had those on or was it wow that guy can pull that off? 

I appreciate everyones support, this is a great place to share, and the only place to share!!

Thank you everyone

On 12/31/2016 at 2:33 PM, XtremeHeels said:

Fantastic pair of classic black pumps!!!

At home, not first time, probably wore them out very discreetly, got gas in them. I am working on that public thing!!

On 1/29/2017 at 11:41 AM, curiousheels said:

What do you think?

These http://www.shoefreaks.ca/pleaser-kiss-209-sandals

or

these? http://www.shoefreaks.ca/devious-domina-108-sandals

108!!!

On 1/1/2017 at 10:55 AM, cgllc1860 said:

Hello,

i am a new guy to this forum, I have filled out my profile in depth if anyone is interested. As I get older and my responsibilities in life increase (46 now) I feel the need to expand my fetish from the bedroom to my day to day life. My wife is worried that she is loosing me and that I will eventually want to become a women. I say i don' think so that I like women's shoes and some cloths because of how they feel on and how they look on me. But, that I have no desire to change careers or lifestyles to satisfy a different gender. There is quite a bit of tension between us has anyone else resolved this type of problem successfully ?

 

My wife HATES my shoe fetish, she has no idea that I love to wear them either. I am straight but this has been the progression of my heel fetish and I love the feel of them and I can not associate what women feel when in them. The heel fetish is going to be the end of our marriage sooner than later sadly. She does not get it at all

Some small heels today!

On 1/12/2016 at 10:51 PM, hernaezjames said:

My new favorite pair. 

Those are so perfect

On 10/4/2016 at 9:43 PM, Rockpup said:

Fun wear: Birthday dinner with husband

Mundane wear: grocery shopping

 

 

Love the heels and jeans, I love to wear that!! just worried that too much skin shows and gives my heel fetish away.

@Spareheels, you are asking what do you think people will notice when you are wearing heels? The toe or heel?  I am in that same boat, I keep thinking that I need to get more of a rounded toe shoe so it looks more like a mens shoe and doesnt alert everyone that I am wearing heels. I too like wearing a stiletto heel and I dont think that a lot of people see it as it is mostly covered by my long pants. Its the patent leather pointed toe that I think is a give away that I am wearing a womens shoe. Do you agree. I think the skin that you show on your shoe is a dead give away also i think wearing something black to hide that is a big help but it just is not the same feeling for me. I have to wear heels barefoot, I love that feeling.

So I guess my answer is the toe design and the skin that shows with the low cut shoes and toe cleveage.

Glad to hear you prefer stilettos!!! It is such a great feeling!!

Thank you everyone!!  Felt great to share that!!  Can't really do that anywhere else!!

Straight guy here that loves heels on women and just recently found that I love to wear them. WOW what a feeling, now I know what all of the women have been feeling. I have seen and agree that I wish it was acceptable to wear what you want out but know that it isnt. I have been brave and bought pants that go all the way to the ground and have worn pumps into stores  a long way from home that are lower end kind of stores. I don't want to run into someone I might know. I avoid as many people as I can. I love the feeling. I wear pumps and platforms, with a thin heel if I can find. 

I hope this can be a place to talk and share. thank you for listening