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shyguy

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  1. I have to speak up here, firstly I commend 5inchlover on his courage to get up and be seen by everyone on the plinth in his preferred style of dress. That takes a lot more guts than I have. But I feel the same as Tech on the issue of what was worn with regards to opening peoples minds to men in heels. Yes people have got to see a man wearing heels, but once again it is co-ordinated with fetish wear. From my point of view this isn't a good thing, I've had problems convincing my wife that men can wear heels and be men, and shown her this site for proof. Then she has a look and sees either lots of skirts, or fetish wear on display with the heels. Her defences go back up, and she "knows" that I want to dress as a woman or in fetish gear as well as heels. I don't, good for you if you do and enjoy it, there's nothing wrong with it. It just makes it harder for men to get taken seriously as just shoe lovers with this association going on. I think that's all Tech was trying to say too? Because he runs the site on our behalf please don't jump on Tech every time he expresses an opinion, just offer your own opinion in a mature way to promote the discussion of the topic. We can all agree to disagree, there is no right or wrong just opinions really.

  2. OK so I wore these

    http://www.hhplace.org/discuss/attachments/guys/2266d1211629480-do_these_qualify_streetheeling-pict0073resize.jpg to the cinema last week with my wife.

    And then when we got home we had to attend to a friends pets, so I wore these http://www.hhplace.org/discuss/attachments/guys/2427d1213421408-do_these_qualify_streetheeling-boot2.jpg across the road and round the local area with my wife to the friends house. Bumped into a neighbour but my jeans were long and it was dark so nothing said, but they are a little noisy at the heel when walking. Good fun though.

    Hope to wear them again soon if the wife is willing. :w00t2:

  3. I love hearing from the girls in the guys forums, it's welcome feedback from a different perspective. As for guys in the girls section, what's the big deal with copying the relevant bits of thread across to "for everybody"? Why do some people have such a problem with giving the few females that we do get join here their own space? Girls I welcome you here anytime and value your input all over the forums.

  4. Just a few questions you may need to consider. How are you planning to add the videos? Do you have the backend scripting for the uploading of vids, and how about a rating system too? What about copyrights, you need to be aware that many people will upload copyrighted material and this will be your problem to deal with. What about bandwidth, and storage space requirements, video is a notorious bandwidth hog, and takes up a lot pf space. PM me if you do need a script as I may be able to find one around on my hard drive.

  5. You pulled off a great look, and without losing your masculinity in spite of the boots heels being on display. Red isn't my colour, but it also is not a female only colour and, as has been said already, a lot of men wear red. Looking good obviously or your co-worker would probably have said nothing (to you anyway, it would have been said to someone else) keep it up.

  6. While it is a good idea, and possible I don't think it's possible without modifying the background script running the site to check if the username is claiming to be male or female. Which leads to the whole are the users really the gender they say argument. In a perfect world the guys could practice self control and none of it would be neccessary.... This has already been gone over so many times, so I'm gonna leave it at that.

  7. Great idea Designer about letting the girls have the opt in or out choice. I think this would work well and sastify qualms about the (discriminatory?) thing

    Also nice to see your comments Jissue see your comments Johnie heel. I may be wrong but aren't you a member?

    To see why the opt-in thing just wouldn't work, take a look at the poll in for the girls

    http://www.hhplace.org/discuss/girls/11952-girls_only_how_many_shoes_do_you_own.html

    The title clearly states for the girls only, and it's in the girls only forum. Guess what, a male has voted despite the rules, despite the title so do you really think an opt-in opt-out is the answer?

    This is why the mods do their best to keep it a girls only forum, even though we take such criticism, and this issue keeps getting raised.

    To those who accept and support the rules thank you. :smile:

  8. You needn't have cut it short on our behalf, you tell a positive and engaging tale of your day in heels. As that's what we're all here for, whether it be to gain courage from your experiences or just to enjoy a good read, you provided it HF. Thanks for the story. More soon please

  9. Thanks for relating your experiences for us all to read Roniheels. It's always encouraging to read about the positive experiences others have, and yours sounds like a very positive outing. As HappyFeat said a true ambassador for all of us male heel wearers, and an inspiration for those of us still not out in public.

  10. Thanks for the link Puffer, I caught the last few seconds of the item the other night. I realised it must be about high heels, but had missed all the good stuff, and just heard the doctors opinion on damage caused by wearing heels. Now I've seen the whole item thanks to your link.

  11. What a great way to get out there in your heels, you wouldn't attract any attention by being self concious when you just forgot you had them on. Just forget a few more times, and you never know your next girl friend may notice you and strike up a conversation about your heels.

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