thedesigner

in a way u gotta decide, which u will giv up if u have to. dont presume u hav to give up either, the rite lady will love u for being honest, and if she cant handle it but offers a wkd alternative, then go there - she may be turned on by something nice too... better than bein lonely...

Totally agree, as an interior designer, i have my own personal style, and i create ideas individually for people. To follow fashion as per magazines is weak, as it is often out of date anyway, and wots hot in london gets to manchester a year later.... and i do know both.... Listen to ure interior designer, ask him or her questions, and suss the response....

hooray... they r shit... nuff sed....

flat oxfords, lilac is pale purple

thanks folks for your qualified support Guy.N Heels, without you, there's be no hecklers and life would be boring.... mate of mine, great heels fan but a great train fan.... It was his birthday last week. Bought him a platform ticket... Went to the ticket office, asked for a return ticket. Clerk, thick as shit, said, "where to?" "Well, back here, you tw*t," i replied. Obvoius, innit... Personaly, i love mobile phones on the train.. they are so much fun !! I love pretending to dial someone, and when they "answer", i say, "Im on the train."....why?... "You know, going to Manchester /Birmngham etc., for the court case.".... what court case?.... "You know, the psychopathic killer case." Does wonders for the legroom.... Sorry must go, the train just crashed and the computer drivers gone... or is it the other way round....

everything except yellow... actually, i did see some lemon laceup flats that would have done well for work, but the old can i afford them bollox came in (a quiet week).. of course, later, c'etait pas possible...

queen...

angel

I am uk 29/30" waist with v thin legs, so its easier to buy womens anyway.... and much more choice....

Nowadays, always toes and fingers painted. I do black, navy, or dark blue, and have them admired at least once a day... My firm know about it and are cool, as i give them enough sales business. It may be because i am what i am, not a cardboard cutout...

i buy flats for work, i see clients at home and heels on the first meeting can be intimidating, but womens flats and always interesting, viz lilac laceups, which always get favourable comments, and some white leather shoes with interwoven strips going crosswise, from topshop...

there are so many fashion styles for women, theres something there for everyone to build on. I agree that following a trend without building on it to make it yours is a sheep style fashion, like being in a gang, and only those of us with a creative mind can put outfits together that are original and nice. Like, sometimes i do mega smart when we go out for a meal, but tonite it was frayed shirt, old jeans, unpressed black cotton waistcoat, old peeptoe black suede heels... like a crawled out of bed look... we were taken as actors last week...

the whole thing is ridiculous. If they ban women wearing heels, then lets us all wear heels instead !!!

same as....

as i think i said before, heels on their own is a bit hmm... i feel uncomfortably mentally wearing heels without earrings, foundation, and nailpolish. Its just more integrated as a style.I do earrings and nailpolish every day and frequently ie daily get complimented on my nails...

of course i would, i do every day.... even for work, earrings, nails, womens flats... heels to visit clients for the first time is a bit scary for them i fear....

This i really wierd. THe other day, i went down to my cars in the park under the flats, and i thought "whats that?" Someone had left a pair of suede effect knee high black stiletto boots next to my reserve car (cos it doesnt work !). Size 7,wkd, my size, used but still wearable. Dont know if they've seen me wearing heels, cos i do a fair bit out, but whoever... thanks !!!

Rite, tell u the truth, i dont come on here much nowadays as there seems to be so much backbiting its gettin boring. I cant see much wrong with the post in itself. If people want to answer the questions asked, its their call. The only issue is the originator not personally wearing heels, to which, fair play, why peep at us... People get a different buzz from wearing heels, wherever and whatever for. I like wet heels but dont get a buzz from crushing, but whatever etc.... And where does a fetish start ?? Cuban heels are mainstream enough to my way of thinking; ballet boots are no more fetish than tv /cd... To paraphrase the Cheap Trick song : The Heel Police, they're driving me insane... Keep 'em high !!

Youtube: white punks on dope... Worth a watch....

recently my heels were admired by ladies who said ' i couldnt wear heels like that' (5" plat stilettos) - and they were not grannies either. Young ladies and gents have preconceived ideas often and are shy to speak out of turn or perhaps have not discovered their true selves, whereas we have. Their turn will come....

it's simply down to the individual fit. We've both got 5" heels we can walk all day in, others just for goin out or show. Wear them about at home a bit first.

sounds pretty nifty to me... heels more comfortable anyway for me....

right, got that sorted then, i wont wear heels on the beach.... otherwise, just becos i live in a flat, doesnt mean i'm gonna wear them... 6" purple zebra prints tonite for meal out together...

i like my heels to fit tight, its a part of wearing womens shoes as my feet are so narrow, mens shoes slip off. Shoes stretch so whats tight will stretch, with the exception of patent, which i always buy one size up.

can be done, i got some from ebay, noname brand.