Rick24

I bet you the women where thinking to themselves. why did I not buy a pair of those. if they look good on him. they will look good on me.

you should expect women having smiles. if you are walking into a full office with a pair of red or white stiletto pumps, don't worry. you will be more popular. if you are out in the open about it.

nobody would really care about what you wear in public. because everyone is to preoccupied with their own things. many of these things are in are minds. and many of us let that part of are minds win. so wear what you really like.

what would you want to know about us heel wearing men. heelswearer. where just your normal average guy.

I put my doubts about politics changing peoples attitudes. when bush ruled america. did it get worse or better for men wearing heels, you could wear red stilettos at a republican rally, and I doubt you would get attacked or be humiliated there. the truth is that nobody would really care about it there. there are bigger reasons why people elect who they want as leader. the LGBT groups in the US are whipping up fear and paranoia to the gay population of the country. and saying things to them that 95 percent of the time won't happen.

funny frank-n-furter said the word anticipation. and it worked for him

I would say. the down side of men wearing heels is that you get the sort of catty type woman who would not give you the time of day. if you are wearing boring guy flats, in heels, they are all over you like a rash. and the mixture from them is envy and jealousy. and it gets worse if you walk better in them or you have more louboutins and jimmy choo in your bedroom, than what she has in her bedroom.

there are a number of men who wear heels around this small world. and many have girlfriends. who support them, but a number of heel wearing guys are just uncomfortable in wearing them in front of there girlfriends. because of all the negative thoughts are in are minds. just like when we buy them in a shoe shop or walk out in them, we first think of the negative things first, wearing heels has taught me one lesson in life that you can't live in other people's expectations. life is way to short for that. in the end there just shoes. big deal. its a bit silly that some women seem to make heels as some sort of competition. and get jealous if their boyfriends can wear them better or have a better collection.

I'm sure you where popular with the staff, mtnsofheels.

when I wear heels. I feel more confident. but I can't explain why. maybe that's the secret.

I wish drama soaps would get a guy to wear stiletto heels, and he wears them with his expensive tight jeans, it would get rid of those silly stereotypes that people think, when a man wears something out of the norm, and he can have a girlfriend just like any other guy,

well my friend, their is more good things to come, when you wear them in public, and the next step is that, you should try heels on in a expensive shoe shop like louboutin, there are many heel wearing men hear, who have done just that,

99 percent of the negativity is in are minds, nobody cares if you are wearing stiletto heels in public, you are better wearing in public, rather than wearing them at home, you are in a good position my friend Danvan, because you are single, and that means you will heel more in public, living a double life will not make anything better, and you will get loads of female attention that you would never get when wearing flats, and many women would appreciate the fact that you are very secure about wearing heels in public, so danvan take the opportunity now rather than later, because many heel wearing men took that path far to late, and many regretted it, my regret was not wearing when I was 18, so life is too short to worry what others think, so danvan, just do it.

a number of men, who wear heels secretly like me, have zero confidence to wear them in public, and most of the negativity is in are minds, most people in public, will not care if you are wearing red pumps, I'm only starting to buy more shoes now, but I will take it slowly on the public heeling, when I found this forum back in 2005, it was my answer, my heeling will get bigger when I move out of my parents house,  not one person knows about my heeling, but talking to heel wearing guys who do wear out in public does make me feel more comfortable, I

well my friend, I say 3 or 4 inch heels for public walking, and 5 inch stiletto heels are best for the party scene, or the nightclub life, I'm sure even the women have told the guys who wear heels in public to do this under there advice.

most women secretly like men who do wear heels in public, but what there pet hates is, that if the man has a better high heel collection, than what she has, or they can get frustrated at the fact that this man can wear heels so perfectly, even if he is wearing killer heels, most women have a very snobby and catty attitude to other women who wear an outfit that is better than there's, I read other stories from men who wear heels in public on other forums and they have came across some women who are the catty and sort of snobby type, and those women loved the guys who wore heels, but where very frustrated at the fact that these men would wear higher heels than they could, and could walk better in them,

The fashion industry does not take men wearing heels seriously, they think that men who wear heels, must fit into the stereotype, too them men who are married or play sports, can not wear heels, sadly they aren't the only ones to think like that, you have celebrities who do nothing but throw materialistic things into the pot, why do celeb women need to wear heels that cost thousands, when they could buy more at a cost of 100-250, their is huge double standards with the current generation of girls and women, because they want to get rid of masculine men and boys, many women want them to wear tight clothing, and many want them to get rid of body hair, and there are many who want their men to wear make up, but where is the mans choice in any of these things, if he wants to do any of them, if most men make a choice to wear heels, but to women its no no, because they make those choices, its like men are nothing but a ken doll to be put into a box and the little girl makes the decisions on what the ken doll wears, you can see sexism in the fashion industry and yes women also throw misogyny at males who wears heels in public, I as a male make that decision to wear heels, and I will not wear flats to appease materialistic people who think I have no right to wear what I want.

your right, there is more advantage for men who wear heels in public than being stuck at home, for the men who wear outside, it makes it easy for the dating scene, for the one's that wear at home only, it can be a huge disadvantage for us, many straight guys wish to wear heels, and many suppress it, and there are the ones that don't wear in public, its easy for women to say that guys should be themselves and be open and wear what you what, but that's just words, you have more too gain wearing in public than wearing in secret, most people won't stare or point or care if you are a guy wearing tight men's jeans, with a pair of thigh boots from top-shop,  people today don't care but if you tell them or they see you wearing heels, there like; oh I did not know he wore heels or he is not the sort who wears them; that is what they would say, women don't understand that a mans world is not an easy life, because they say we have privilege, but that's a myth, this is 2016 but what equal rights do men have now, nothing.

sadly most straight males wish to wear high heels thick or thin in public, and they suppress it, and there are many who still wear at home, many women say that they want men to be themselves, that means if you wear heels then be open about it, and wear them out in public, there are many advantages for men who wear heels out in public, it would make your dating scene more easy,  it will avoid you telling her in words, and she will see what you wear on your feet on the first date, you will gain new friends, and people will get used to it very quickly, and it will break down silly; silly; stereotypes, it will prove that we are just like any other man in the world.

where are you from, dougal.

my dream is to go to a night club, wearing tight jeans with a pair of stiletto boots, and with it, a leather jacket, and then just dance like hell, for the fun, one day it will happen.

unfortunately, there is too much pressure for men to wear heels, females want males to wear what they deem as satisfactory,  so there is no free thinking for men, as a guy who wears heels, I make that decision for myself to wear them, the heel industry are the biggest hypocrites of all, they say there open and creative, but there not, its all for one gender,  and it makes the heel industry sell to very self-centered people, its the same with celebs and TV shows, they don't want an ordinary guy to wear heels because it upsets there bubble, they want a guy who wears heels but is very eccentric, that's what they feed to the viewers, we have an industry that sells to one gender only, there is no equality in it,none want to show that guys who have wives or girlfriends or have children, are like any other man, they want to label us with really silly things.

I think we all have that fear, if we wear are heels in public, where going to be attacked in some way, but the best thing about males wearing heels out in public, is that its the best thing about it, you can go into a shoe store and have fun buying what you want, or go to a night club and get compliments from women and they want to dance with you, it gets rid of this silly view that ordinary men don't wear them, and we are just normal people, where not eccentric or diva like guys, many are married, and many others have girlfriends, so it gets rid of the silly stereotype's that people would think about us heel wearing guys, its 2016, hey if guys here have tried on heels and have bought them from store's like, Louboutin, jimmy Choo, gucci, then that's one hell of a milestone,

most people, won't care if a guy wears heels in public, but if you wear a really nice pair of heels then, you get women smiling at you, or they wink at you, or you get women telling their friends about it, they say to there friend ; oh' that guy is wearing a really nice pair of heels; then their eyes have clocked on you, and they have a really big grin.

thank you Tina your the first female to give me some support, in the outside world I could never tell anyone about what I wear, sadly, I feel more comfortable to wear in secret,