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did you get any compliments when out in them boots Pebblesf.

No wife and no girlfriend. which means more space for my heels and boots. with it no pressure. relationships and marriage is just not my cup of tea so to speak.

Balletboot. i'm sure many women loved the outfit and boots. you can expect many women copying your style very soon.

blueparrot. you may not believe how jealous/envious/insecure women are towards men in heels. a large number of men on the forum will tell you so many stories about that. they have had the same comments from women/ i'm going to take those lovely heels off you and i'm going to wear them/ your co-worker like many other women think when they see men in heels. they believe we will bite back in a very bitchy and catty way to them. it's part of the package in wearing heels. it would be funny if you told her that you have 50 pairs of louboutin heels in you wardrobe. I bet her face would turn red with thunder. lucky you don't have 50 pairs of louboutins. otherwise she would of broke into your property and stole all of them. i'm sure you would agree with me on that.

I understand kneehighs. but a number of women know that you wear heels, and if you told them the decision I made. they would say I'm selfish. its easier said than done. I enjoy wearing my heels. it's apart of me. in the end we can't live on other people's expectations. it's 2018 and if women don't want to start a family and instead have a career. then men now have the right to wear what we want and not marry for the sake of it. if woman can have there cake so can we. and having a big collection of designer heels in your room is the icing on the cake for me and others.

when a guy wears stiletto type heels at 5 inches. females view this as competition, and in there minds its I can't wear up to 6 inches. but there is a huge amount of jealousy and insecurity from young girls. women in there 30s and 40s are very impressed with it but young girls in there late teens and early 20s seem to throw a jealous fit when they see us. its a long road for us and you all agree that the light is at the end of the tunnel.

kneehighs. I think you have done a great service to men who wear heels. and a guy who wears heels in public is more of a man than a guy who hides it in his bedroom. at the age of 24. I made the right choice in not marrying or having a girlfriend, why. because wearing heels is just too much damn fun. a quota from sean connery on his retirement. I'm 30 now and my aim is to wear in public. and to have a huge collection of designer heels and boots to wear in public. and to have a large group of new friends to heel about in. I know that you think I am wrong to ditch relationships over heels. but women say that they have the right to wear what they want. well I want to wear what I want, so if it makes me selfish then so what. life is very short and you have look out for number one yourself. hope you post back.

I am thinking of buying a pair of giohel knee high boots from there ebay site. has anyone here bought from there site and how good where there delivery services to you when you paid for them.

balletboot. your girlfriend might be a little jealous of your outfits. that's why she would not want you going out in them.

happyinheels I'm sure you like many men have went into an expensive shoe store and where wearing boots or shoes. and the female customers see what you are wearing, and they smile,wink,or grin at you, sometimes they walk up to you and say are you finished with them shoes or boots because they want to try them on, and then you get the odd encounter with an over excited girl who has seen your heels in the store,

huhwhat. I'm sure that you have seen alot of women look at your heels and boots and smile alot, I think colours like red or nude would get you alot of respect from women at a new level,

heelguypa. you can expect a lot of excited women in a store like Louboutin. a number of heel wearing men on the forum have bought shoes and boots from expensive stores like Louboutin. jimmy choo, and the response was one of amazement and being admired from staff and customers.

you can expect a number of jealous women out there when you are out and about in them.

Bootlover78. don't worry. the world is not going to stop just because you are wearing stiletto boots. the more you wear out in public. the better it get's for you. not one person will reject you for it. you might get the odd girl being a bit too excited about it. but that's expected in the life of men wearing heels in public. I mean there guys who wear stiletto pumps in public and have never had any problems in there years of wearing them.

some women are very jealous. because they know that a guy would look far better in those heels and tight jeans than they ever could. but most females admire guys who have the boldness to wear what they want out in public. if you talk to some women about the females that threw there jealous fits at you guys. you will be shocked in what they will tell you. because in the woman's world. tight jeans and killer heels is a big competition to females. and now men are wearing them. and to women that means its getting tougher to be as good as this guy. in a girls mind. she's thinking/ how can I compete with this guy. he looks better in those than what I look like in them. women are not against men who wear heels or tight things, but they are very insecure. I am sure you guys have heard women say things in a far distance like. damn I want legs and thighs like this guy. he walks great in those heels. he's got good taste in what he wears.

balletboot. I'm sure you have heard women and and young women say things like./ I hate that the fact he walks better in heels than I ever could./ or his figure and dress code puts me to shame, and women that seen you wear your style. a week later they are wearing the same style that you where wearing last week. many heeling wearing men have said that women who spotted them in public wearing heels have then been seen wearing the same style of shoe or boot that the guy was wearing last time. I don't know why women make everything into a competition.

I'm sure every woman was smiling at you when they saw them. you can expect a number of jealous girls out there but that is what its like in there club.

I'm sure you will get many admirers when  you walk out in them.

cgllc. your just one in the many. who have made the same mistakes as many on this forum. the majority of women are not against men wearing heels. but there are a number of females who are jealous of it. they have zero respect for men who wear there fashion choice in a dark corner. for many reasons. 1, they feel upset that you could not share it with them. 2, you could not trust them with this, 3, women will never respect guys who  feel ashamed and embarrassed for wearing them. many guys here hide it and lived in two worlds. but in the end. that will never work. the big mistake was many here to this day pushed for relationships and where not open with there heel wearing. in the end there is more advantage to being more open to your heel wearing if its on the street. a shopping area. a party. and with your friends. know one is going too reject you for it. much of the negative stuff is in are minds. and from the sounds of things. your wife feels left out and highly jealous of it. I mean I won't marry or have a relationship because it does not appeal to me. and I won't have anyone force me into one. your wife might think I am sad but living in a two world life just does not suit me.

AJ777. I can point out that women are very jealous creatures. and men wearing heels is fierce competition too them. and many guys on this forum have came across women who have said there jealousy with nice words. or with a long stare. like what you got in the shoe shop. but what will really bug you is that most women will have huge misconceptions about men who wear heels. they think that we are very diva-like. a little bit feminine like. and highly eccentric. yes its really annoying but at least we are not harassed in public when we are in heels. there's a give or take when wearing stilettos in public.

I would say that a large number of men who wear heels. do it in secret. the reason is that. there are just so many silly,silly labels and stereotypes that we have to face when wearing heels. and there is a lot of paranoia in are minds. it can stop most men from wearing heels in public. and TV shows don't help with it. they seem more like to make a mockery of men who wear heels. unfortunately are society is dumb or naive.

when you break the ice with her. tell her too have a very good look at this site. and she will be shocked to see that we are just normal people. and many are married and have children. and other's have girlfriends who support them. its 2017. and these things no longer matter in today's world. make her understand that telling such a personal thing. is outside of your comfort zone. and if she threw it back at you. then she has betrayed your trust in her. and that means you will have to end it with her. its not easy to tell such a personal thing like this but in the end. you need to know that if you two are made for each other.

when you tell her the truth. you have to give her an ultimatum. accept you for who you are. or call it a day. its not healthy being in a relationship when your partner is trying to change there partner's personality. this has caused a lot of break up's in relationships and marriage. I suspect that she might be the jealous type. if a man has a bigger collection of heels and can walk so perfect in them. it make's her insecure. and a insecure woman makes the worse type of girlfriend ever.

the more in public. the better.

tell the true yes. but. if she is against it. then don't marry someone that has very little in personality wise. tell her that you and other heel wearing men are just ordinary people who wear heels. out of personal choice. its a choice of are style in what we wear on are feet. and your heels are a part of who you are. take that away. then you are not the same person that she met. BamBam. I will never marry or have a relationship because my heels make me happy and they are a part of me. the reason why I do this is because we live in a very selfish world. and there is nothing wrong in looking out for number one me. because that's how tough are world is. what would your girlfriend think of me for saying that. would she say that I am selfish and I should appease other people's ways. you should only feel bad about not telling her when you first met her. but you have nothing else to be ashamed about it. a fashion choice is a fashion choice. tell her that men who wear heels are just normal people who work in places like construction sites or a factory. and many are married and we do not want to be women or dress like them.