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Super advice Tech i do agree about making it a bigger issue than it is. It is however a great boost to your confidence if you arent in it alone and you have a supportive person who accepts what you are doing so i fully understand why you are wanting to obtain a cool friend.

haha great story. clearly she didnt say a lot as she needed some shoes but even though the obviously caused her some discomfort she probably didnt want to appear ungrateful for you been kind enough to let her borrow your shoes

heels at the back of the shoe feel higher to walk in as they create more ankle movement in the step and and require more ankle flexibility on the forward leg when setting the foot down especially if the heels are high and it can sometimes make you walk a bit cumbersome and clumpy when the heel tip is more underslung they are easier to walk in but dont feel as high and you seem to be able to walk a lot more smoothly

welcome to the board. there are lots of members here a large majority of them older and wiser and its great to see that there are still young blokes with a fascination with heels joining all the time. Your English is great by the way, better than some who DO speak it as a native language so no worries with us understanding you NL

bootedup you have PM

had exactly the same happen to me and the buyer got benefit of the doubt and i lost my item and my money and he was no doubt laughing sat on my item and his money. very frustrating indeed! seems this is a loophole that a few are exploiting on ebay.

pussyinboots am suprised you say schuh is wide fitting as everything i have tried from there before has been way too narrow

personally i think they are one of the ugliest and cheapest looking shoes that would probably stick to your feet unpleasantly. if you like them however you go ahead

somehow i cant see that more women watch top gear than men. Just about every male i know watches it every week and only the odd woman or two isnt too sick of it to watch it too. It is fantastic though lol and i am a total petrolhead lol

you are indeed lucky. during the 'testing water' phase of starting to tell her, at the point i was ready to be disowned i reverted it into a joke. I had expected this anyway as i know my mum better than anyone and she is very closed minded about most things and very set in her ways unfortunately

if its just in the house, just buy them, your fet will soon stretch to wear them ok. its usually said to go for an in between heel 5 or 5.5 in first, as these higher heels a small difference in height makes a lot of difference in your bodies mobility. This said though is usually thinking of someone who is wearing them as 'shoes' ie to work etc and wouldnt look good if they were stumbling or breaking ankles because the heel jump was too large

marion that was what i was trying to put across in a way. we might decide to be brave and stuff the world to bear white 6in stilettos in public, but our friends may not be so ready to join in with it too

i second that too Tech, also being an IT Chap

came across this old thread by accident cannot hypnosis in the Ericsson method be manipulated though, ie amplifying desires. For example If my own desires were that i wanted to wear heels everywhere all the time but my minds objections, peoples thoughts etc make it uncomfortable. Cannot the hypnosis be used in a way that would make you forget those thoughts or reduce them whilst amplifying the desire to wear heels... for the intended effect. just wondered as ive never understood the hypnosis field very well anyway.

bubba means what do you work as now, and what job are you hoping to get with your new interview

no detailed analysis of the day Heelfan?? Am disappointed in you lol. Still waiting in anticipation

in a chest of drawers, remove the bottom one and the space under it can be valuable

happyfeat i agreee bet noone has seen anywhere that these retail though

yes can confirm bananashoes is a smallish unit on an Industrial Estate on the outskirts of Rotherham. Not too far away from me. It is a building full of racking full of shoe boxes of the stock on their website. They have a section in the corner which is like an office and they will fetch any style you have requested for you to try on. Unfortunately when i went the manufacturer had altered the style a little form the website pictures so i didnt purchase but the lady there and the younger assistant were fairly helpful. Meadowhall is a 2 minute drive from there and there is a fair amount of shoe shops there. NL

an interesting question and i initially read the question a different way to what everyone has answered so far. Everyones reply has been whether we think of our friends as good friends. To the question - are we good friends to our friends. Well i read that as to If i wore heels around some of my friends and say we went somewhere, what does he think of me as a friend. Put it this way, for those of us who are quite concious about what others think or say when we go out and wear heels, what would my friend be thinking if he had to walk somewhere with me in heels. Would he be embarrased because people would assume we are then gay, or be laughed by HIS other friends for knocking around with 'that wierd bloke who wears heels'. How good friends are We to THEM. It might be one thing for them to be fine if thats my choice and be cool with it, but they might be uncomfortable around it in the street feeling the same insecurities as much as some of us might be. Just my thoughts on how I read the question

YES! lol women are all too confident usually that men simply dont have the capability to do things normally associated with women. It gives them a buzz to laugh at even the thought of a man 'having to put up with' high heels or a skirt or long nails so are usually easy game for a bet lol

i actually like some of the low cut type tops they could look quite stylish if you had a decent figure to show off (mine might need a bit of work lol) Wouldnt be anything to worry about people judgin you as much either like the leggings and heels type styles

Most of the closed minded people who Wouldnt approve of a bloke wearing heels would almost certainly all be at least be prepared to laugh with any bloke that had done it for a joke, but when your real desires are revealed they run for miles. Which is exactly what i was saying. As you said she thinks its a laugh and is funny BUT that might be all. You dont know if she would be cool with you wearing them normally or a normal style pair of heels out for example. I then refer you back to my first post

trouble is, she might still think youve done it for a laugh.. not becase you really want to wear them. Now is the good time probably (as i did with my ex on a similar dare style approach with my ex) to say oo actually i like wearing these they feel great with the heel. You girls are lucky you know etc and take it from there and hopefully she will be cool enough to say u can wear what u like

they certainly do in my bank lol.