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I agree with JeffB. I spent two of the past five days wandering around Baltimore wearing 6" heels and found that after just a couple of hours I had to take them off and change into shoes with 4" heels, which I wore for the remaining time that we were there.... Sore, tired feet can drain a lot of desire to participate in activities that require a lot of walking or standing. Sitting isn't much more comfortable until the pain diminishes.

I also ordered a pair of the red T-straps and, even though the shoe fit was really comfortable, I had to send them back because the strap was to short.

So, I swapped them for a pair of Pleaser Domina 423 in black patent with 6" heels that are comfortable and easy to walk in.

Black Domina 423 w/6 inch heels

Freak

TBG, some how that combination, in my opinion, just doesn't "do it" for you. It doesn't look as good as some of the outfits that you've worn in the bast.

What more can be said? I believe the guy has gotten the message. If he's in the wrong place, and I believe he is aware that he might be, he's not going to hang around. If the powers here believe his behavior is so egregious, then they can ban him. It wouldn't be the first time. So, no big deal.......

JeffB –

My only concern with either outing was “I enjoyed two chicken salad sammiches”, The mini would look better if you cut that down to one.

Great post Jeff.

I agree that it's a great post. But I think Jeff can handle two "chichen salad sammiches" occasionally because he's already tall and thin.

I have been a lover of heels for as long as I can remember. I stumbled on this site looking for the old jk fashions 5990. I wanted to get them for my gf because I had some myself and loved them. We are both into heels so joining the site was a no brained. Thanks.

Welcome, Heels1947 Glad to have you here with us. When you say that "We are both into heels" does that mean that you also wear them? What is your gf's reaction to seeing you in heels?

I'm new here in this forum and I would like to change many ideas and information about our passion: high heels!

But, I have a doubt. When I try access some tabs (galleries...) I receive this message:

you do not have permission to access this page. This could be due to one of several reasons:

Your user account may not have sufficient privileges to access this page. Are you trying to edit someone else's post, access administrative features or some other privileged system?

If you are trying to post, the administrator may have disabled your account, or it may be awaiting activation.

What's happening?

Thanks!!

Why not take a few minutes to read the "introduction" that is available to all newly registered members. It explains everything and answers the questions that you're asking.

How confusing. One passenger is arrested for wearing his trousers below his hips, exposing his underwear and another passenger is allowed to fly while he is dressed only in woman's underwear and high heels. Read Rest of the Story

HighNHeels, a nice collection. They all look brand new....

How heavy does it need to rain, or how long does it take walking in the rain, for your shoes to become soaked and uncomfortable?

That's a question that should be posed to those on the "Wet and Messy" shoe site.........

You have managed to ask the million dollar question. It's already been asked a couple of thousands times on this forum. Just search back through the archives and see how many times members have answered it. And, the specific advice that has been offered. Most of the answers to your problem that are posted in this tread, are way too complicated. Simple answer. You like to crossdress and wear high heels. Your prospective life mate. even though she is aware of your desire, doesn't/can't accept it. You can't stop and she wouldn't ever be able to change you. So, unless you can convince her to accept you with your shortcomings -- it is time to dissolve this relationship. Especially before you have children and they get caught in the middle of what could be a really messy situation not of their making. If you still insist upon getting married, your marriage is doomed to unravel at some point. Your heel wearing, crossdressing will be a constant source of irritation. So, the most honest answer to your dilemma is find someone else that can accept you with all of your desires to wear women's attire. Save yourself a whole lot of grief before it's way too late.

Just thought that I would drop a line and say hello. Still wearing heels, although I haven't been around here much. I don't know if anyone has wondered what ever happened to Shafted. Alive and kicking thank you.

For what's it worth: I have (wondered what ever happened to you)

The stuffed beaver was great in the movie !

Too bad the beaver didn't have a speaking part

Just saw on TV where Prince William got engaged to a beautiful young woman. It would seem that their is going to be a Royal wedding in the coming year. Now the real question is: Will Dr. Shoe's invitation arrive in the mail addressed to Mr. Dr. Shoe or MS Tara? Anyone have a clue?

Hmm! Does anyone have an answer to the question?

OI can't walk in them without bending my knees which is mo good. What's the key to moving up again?

Practice, practice, practice. Just put them on and set a goal of so many steps -- like 50 steps -- and then take them off for a few hours. The next time you put them on, increase the number of steps by increments of 5 or 10 steps. Eventually, you will reach a point where you will be able to wear them naturally, without pain and with your knees in their normal position. It works for me.

I have tried the ice thing. It seems to work sometimes and requires more than one attempt. I feel we all must simply do the following when buying shoes:

Do they have my size? Yes or No

If no; Can not have the shoes. End of story. More power to those that have gotten to them first. Keep an eye on ebay...

You've forgotten to mention the most important step when purchasing shoes in person from any shoe retailer. If they do have the size that you normally wear in stock,

try them on before you buy them!

Not I noticed it right away but did not say anything then my wife noticed it. That's when all hell broke loose she started bitching and calling me a freak once again. The only problem was she did it in the restaurant with the people sitting there and she wasn't really quite about it. I just kept my cool we left shortly after they did. Are next stop was target. Now I was going to go in there mainly cause I wanted to look at there shoes. Anyway when my wife asked if was coming in I said nope why would I want to go anywhere with u since I am such a freak! And left it at that. Later that night I needed to stop by the St where I work and pick up my charger for my phone. I wore what I had on all day. Before I left she said are u wearing that I said yep and started out the door she then said i wouldn't wear something like that into the place where I work. I turned and looked at her and said that's right you wouldn't wear anything like this period and left. Went I and got my stuff had a good conversation with the crew that was in duty. Now most of the people I work with know I wear heels but this is the first time anyone of them have ever seen me in them. Nothing was said. I came home and went to bed. I am at the point now I. My life to where once my kids are grown up I may start looking for someone of the opposite sex that likes me for me and not what I wear.

Hate to say it fella, but your days with this wife are numbered. She thought she married a man (in her mind) and, instead, got a guy that liked to wear skirts and heels. You are really going to have to take another look at yourself and decide what is more important to you ... A continuing relationship with a woman that you married years ago and who happens to be the mother of your children, or your desire to wear high heels and woman's clothing. Apparently, from your description of her reaction to you in crossdress, even though she has made a valiant effort to try to accept you in your new persona, she can't handle it.

Women want MEN as their mates. You know, knight in shining armor; slay the dragon types and men that can match their ideals to carry on the species -- and, unhappily for some of us, their ideal image doesn't include a man wearing high heels and women's clothing.

it appears it's decision time........

Hello all. First post:smile:

Anyone knows where I can find some not too high wedge boots in 12.5 size?

I looked at all the online retailers I could find in North America but no luck....

Not looking for anything fancy, just something that can blend in:silly:

I know Nine West makes some nice wedge ankle boots. I've three pair in my collection. Heels are 3" to 4½" high. You might try looking at their website or search for them on eBay.

I am in search of a classic black patent leather 6inch pump without any kind of platform. Any suggestions?

Thanks

For a guy living in the USA, shoes like those shouldn't be hard to find....try Skyscraper high heels in Chicago. There are several references to them on this forum.

Hi to all, I'm scotty4fun and im a polish wearer and I also wear hi heels on special occasions. I have five pairs all open toe sandals.

What is a "polish" wearer?

Well, what ever it is, welcome to hhplace? Glad to have another "wearer" joining us.

Mmm, I'm kinda conflicting with the "Oh" part of things.

Like, it seems like you should hold back on the family for now and get more input from your wife. Cause that "Oh" could have been anything. Sure, she IS your wife and she should understand, but only making sure, you know? I mean, I would. But then again, I'll be in the open with my heel-wearing.

Starting early, you know? Haha.

I'm sure that if pj22's wife had any negative thoughts about his shoes, she would have uttered far more than just "oh."

what was your experience with this most recent one? I certainly hope that you and your family members are safe and well. I can't relate to being subjected to two major earthquakes so close together. It's got to be frightening. Is there anything that we can do to help you?