Foxyheels

If my wife bought me those and 'made' me wear them in public I would be one very willing happy man. I assume you were in fancy dress, strange how suddenly acceptable it is for am man to wear all sorts of sexy feminine things if they are in fancy dress. I have even known women to have a go at men who don't have the guts to participate in a fancy dress where all the men have to cross dress and those that do participate go up in the womens estimation. I was encouraged by a work mate to cross dress for our next work charity day the other day, I joked with her about extreme high heels and she said oh I'd love to see you in high heels and amini skirt, the temptation to say welll actually....... The other strange thing is the Rocky Horror Picture Show, nobody would bat an eyelid if I turned up in a basque, stockings and extreme high heels.

I like the way they say that a similar pair was worn by "Beckham" to a baseball game... I gather they mean Victoria and not David!

Oh I wish, imagine if David Beckham did wear high heels just like Victoria. It would probably turn them into acceptable men's fashion overnight. The power of celebrity is immense these days, come on Vikki get David into heels.

And thanks for the new link Eric, hopefully everyone can see it now.

Apologies to everyone outside UK, don't know why it's blocked as it's on Youtube.

This is not as good as the video but hopefully those outside the UK should be able to follow the link

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-1248118/Kelly-Brook-looks-Posh-pair-killer-heels--confesses-struggles-walk-them.html

An amazingly beautiful woman and her amazing shoes. You don't often get a clear camera shot of shoes but Kelly obliges by placing one of her Louboutins on the desk in front of her at about 1min 45 secs.

There are a lot of women who only wear High Heels on a occasional night out, I imagine when they have consumed too much alcohol these are the ones who fall and cause themselves injury. My wife, who wears them all the time has not had any injuries caused by her heels.

I prefer round toe as I think pointed toes can make the shoes look too long in proportion to the heel and has the effect on the eye of making the heel look shorter in proportion. I do have several pairs of pointed shoes/boots and they are nice but the current fashion for round toes in the high street stores suits me. I also think a round toe blends in better with jeans helping to lessen the effect of being a man in high heels. My wife would give a complete opposite answer to this question she really doesn't like round toes.

My nails grow really quickly and sometimes I don't cut them for a while and they quickly get up to 10mm long. This is not done on purpose I just often forget, last time I did let them grow I got a couple of comments from the ladies at work. They commented how long they were and it was said in an envious manner, no negativity at all and more interest when I told them how quick they grow.

I think you have to take into consideration that we all have unbuilt defense systems that will ensure we do not put ourselves in obviously confrontational situations. For example I wear my replica football shirt with pride but would not enter a match day home pubs in one of my local rivals cities with it on. I am considering wearing my heels in public for the first time soon but it won't be in the area where I was brought up in the evening as I probably would get some comments off groups of youths. So my answer yes of course there are places and situations that would be intolerent, even dangerous but if we use our social awareness we place ourselves in a position where the odds are that most will not care or would not comment at us anyway.

If I am honest then I think in general I don't think women do like it but a lot of that is down to social conditioning rather than having an infomed opinion on it. I belive a lot of women would not like it because that's what society expects them to say. Fortunately their are women who have an open mind and a lot of them are on this forum and I love the comments they make. Personally the only womans opinion that matters if that of my wife. She does not mind at all, I wouldn't say she likes it but she knows it means a lot to me so she is completely ok with me wearing them. She is turned on by the fact I am quite manly so, in respect of that I will wear a nice halter neck dress to expose my muscular shoulders which she adores (bedroom only not public). We both bought a lovely figure hugging dress a few weeks ago and she looks fantastic in hers and I think it's not bad on me either.(taking into account I could never pass as a woman). Going back to the original question I think younger girls are much more tolerent as they often strike up a conversation when I buy womens clothes or shoes on my own, so hope for the future?

I have a few pairs of peep toes an like them because they are very girlie. I think they should either be worn with a different coloured hose say pink shoes black hose or with no hose with the appropriate colour nail varnish on the toes. I don't think I would wear them out as they would be obviously noticable and probably attract too much potential negative attention but who knows when I do get round to wearing heels in public I may do it for the effect once I gain the confidence.

It would appear that the world has moved on and most things are now accepted and even embraced compared to 20 years ago. Several groups of people could easily be insulted and abused openly and became an easy target for all to socially mock and ridicule. Thankfully for most of those groups this no longer happens but men not conforming to the required 'macho' atire remain the group that it is still acceptable to mock. We are 'not normal' or perverts so fair game for those wishing to dish out insults at our expense. Hopefully in 20 years time we will get the equality and freedom we deserve, as for now we must try to gain the confidence to celebrate our choice of footware and act as pioneers for change. Not easy but the more of us there are the more we will be accepted.

Any woman who likes ultra high heels wll always get a welcome from me.

Football - follow my team home and away, absolutely fanatical about them as is my lovely wife. Don't think I'd get away with wearing my heels at the match though, some of my fellow supporters are not exactly the modern free living type. Also I jump around too much and would wreck my nice shoes and I couldn't do that. One positive is my wife wears 5'' boots as her standard footwear to matches

I have quite a few pink pairs, it's the fact that they are ultra girlie that makes me like them. I have some that are very strappy and 5'' so are very feminine. I must admit I dought I would wear them out though but there's always fancy dress parties and charity days at work.

Name: Gary Age: 46 Gender: Male Location: East Midlands UK Occupation: Profesional Height: 5'8'' Weight: 85kg Shoe size: uk 8 What's your favourite heel style: stiletto What's your favourite shoe style: varied no particular favorite Do you wear your heels outside: not yet What is: (a) Your favourite heel height: 5'' ( Your highest heel height: 7''- no platform How often do you wear: (a) Your favourite heel height: as often a possible ( Your highest heel height: bedroom only Do you wear socks, hose, stockings or bare feet with your shoes: Anything else you wish to add: bare feet or stockings

I have a nice pair of 5'' white shoes with a nice high arch but my wife has an amazing pair of white knee high boots which she wears in the winter. They look really good, she has had women come up to her and ask her where she got them from a couple of times whilst we have been out.

Just added to my t-strap collection this week at Payless.

They are nice, I have a couple of pairs of T-straps myself, one pair very similar to yours. My opinion on them is they put me in the mind of a very ellegant and refined look. Need to be worn with classy clothes.

Showed her the site last night including the kind words for her from the replies to my introduction. She is quite a shy person and worries about peoples reaction to anything she writes on forums (she often asks my advice before posting entries to her friends on facebook) so it may take a bit of encouragement to get her to get involved on here but I will get her to join up and see if I can get her to give her point of view.I am sure from this you can see she is absolutely fine with me being on this forum, I think the only thing that would bother her is if I didn't tell her and kept it a secret.

Hello, I notice your introduction states you are not gay and you have a goatee beard. Don't worry, wearing heels is no reflection on your sexuality or masculinity. My wife would tell you I am positively 'like a typical bloke' nothing about me is feminine but yes I do love wearing high heels and cross dressing. I believe you can still be manly even with heels on, get yourself a pair, and you will find out the fun you can have with your girlfriend. I am sure she will realise it takes a lot of guts and confidence even to be comfortable in front of her and, in my experience, women find confident men very attractive.

Thank you to everyone for the kind words about my wife, yes she is a very special lady and I won't ever forget that. I will see if she will join the site as a member to give her view on things

I'm very pleased for you, trust me the first time you are actually in a shop and you buy a pair together is a wonderful experience. A true moment of acceptance , she sounds great don't let this one get away, as others have said let her know she means more to you than heels and she will appreciate just how much that's means. Whilst you have her you can have a wonderful partner and your heels, it doesn't get any better than that. Good luck shopping and let us know when you have made your first purchase as a couple.

I would wear them as much as I could. The higher and the more 'girlie' the better but obviously to compliment the clothes I am wearing. Also having short legs wearing heels brings my overall body into more proportion allowing me to wear trousers with flared bottoms which again makes my legs look slimmer. If I were a woman any fashion advisor would tell me to do this to improve my look but as I am a man there is no equivalent option.

Hello everyone I have had a love of high heels since my early teens. I love to see them and I love wearing them. It was a struggle to get them when I was young as there was no internet and shoe shops rarely had my size. My first wife hated me wearng them but begrudgingly allowed me thetwo pairs I managed to find. Things are much different now as my second wife does not mind in the slightest and does not bat an eylid when I wear them at home. I knew she was the one for me as I felt comfortable to tell her about my love of wearing high heels after I had only known her 10 days, she said 'thats ok, you will have to bring them round and show me.' Time has moved on and as I have small feet for a man, uk size 8, I can now buy 5'' + heels from most high street shops for very little money especially in the sales. My wife sometimes comes and buys them with me. She has even bought me some for christmas. I have about 70 pairs all 5'' plus Current women's fashion is wonderful as there are lots of different very high heeled shoes out there. I am jealous that my wife can just stroll out in 5'' inch heels, which she does most of the time as she also loves her heels. They are only shoes, why should we not be allowed to wear them without being ridiculed by narrow minded people? I also enjoy cross dressing and have qute a collection of womens clothes which my wife also has no problem with and when my son is not in the house she has no problems with me dressing fully in sexy womens clothes. I am a very lucky man and realise most are not so lucky as me, love this forum and hope to contribute when I can. Nice to know there are others of like mind.