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The problem is after I met her I realize I could not wear heels as I want.. After all the negative stress I lived with I do not figure out myself where to wear them except at commercial centre. I stil llike that but lost the interest and confidence to to that.

I heard enough to get lazy of that. Enough troubles!

But it will stay non fair forever! To have a fetish and to deal with because you have to take care of your behaviour it is a delicate thing!

Do you understand?

I still have trouble to assume the risks that heels could do. Especially when 3 family members you live with know what you like!

I am still afraid of normal mens and even sellers. Sometimes I say myself good do you see that men groups? You made a better choice to not wear heels!

And live with heels with all the stress and troubles you got in the past!

I guess I need to move out of the town for working and living alone! But not yet!

I would like that Quebec city a province of Canada has it`s own event like that!

That would be good for the closed mentality people of my town! Those who do not agree with heels. Especially my family and all the cities around!

Those idiots stay with the old mentality of years 70th`s.

You know what I mean lol! Those ****** I do not respect!

Hell has been gone but I still continue sometimes to get tired of him because of that!

But worst had gone  at least!

I`d like to get a job and left his house but I have not finished yet my Professional training!

Since that day I just wanted heels one day and after it does not come back!

I do not think I would be ready to start again! I do not want because I do not feel it.

I need more more time I had had a hard time!

Time will tell me the answer!

Hello. I have recently consulted a sex-therapist to have a clear mind about it. She told me it is in fact I have never had girlfriends. It is a lack of affection. I had walked in high heels to feel good acording to my feelings. When I was Young I had associated the high heel with the affection of a woman. So before going to walk in heels I feel exited about heels because I saw a woman in heels in a movieor in life or internet or pictures. In a movie I have seen a woman in black patent closed toe going upstairs and I saw a bit the side of the shoe and the heel and I said to myself "Wow I can wear heels too". So I feel good when I walk in heels. She told me I have not to stop that because it is going to stay all my life. I have to integrer it to my life. (it is necessary to contain it to my life) if you prefer. Having a good behaviour and attitude to avoid beeing a threat. It is possible to be recognized during a heel walk by faily or working collegue or others. It is important to stay away from situations we are not comfortable with.

Someone tell ask you why you walk in heels and you tell them: "Because I like that or it make me feel good".

I only like heels and no clothing. The behaviour I can have is : "Excuse me miss you have pretty shoes and they fits you well and where I can find them"?

I cannot eradicate that fetish but I have to live with it. Yes it is normal and weird for many people but I can wear what I want if I do not disturb myself and anyone!

I went to another store today and I had a great experience. I had to deal with 2 great and cool women. They were opened. No prejudices. They have seen many many men. Some of them had 60 years olld and they never worn heels. Many were not enough trusting themselves. One who wears high heels boots and comes when the store is full of people. The woman who was helping me was the best person of the commercial centre. She confirmed me to not take care of others, it is strange for others but some who are not accepting ourselves are lacking education and respect and maturity. I did not had to worry again about my father after I told him many insults this week. He should finish to accept that even if he has 42 years old.

Oh ok I get it! You can say you are not normal if you desire. But I do not have the same perception like you and him. It is just a clothing difference! I thought you were with those slaves and made a plan against me in order to be humiliated in public. I am wrong so I am happy I do not have that heel fetish for nothing! It is those idiots that you call slaves who are not normal! They had so many years to understand what we love and they still do not get it! The are late in their mind. You wanna know the truth? You are most normal and even better than them! Conversations I had with women help me so much. They are angels! Open minded people are the best! So why I would give up? It still impossible to give up you know? You are never satisfied and want more. People think trends and fashion will never change stereotypes. So they are following fashion and trends. Also I am very tired to wear only men shoes. I just need time to update my mind and eleminate my anxiety. I find out I feel better in mind than the weeks I was caught and put in hell in my mind by those stupid slaves! They have not right at 100%. But at 1%.

What does ilikekicks means? He seems to agree my father`s opinion

(Your father is correct, we tend not to be the normal type

Now I am confused!

You say my father is correct so it means he was right?

Most people here have treated me?

I do not think so and I talked with few women sellers and they are in favor with heels for men. Most in here are too. So you cannot say people in here are not normal and bad guys!

3 women told me things that most of you said to me. They are openminded. Men here are right it is the others who are not enough educated!

The woman today told me to not care about family comments. Live my live as I want. Even it is hard when it is one member of your family is not right!

Do not worry about that. Do not be anxious.

For sure I also went to stores and I was afraid of men sellers. I was affraid for nothing. They did not say anything! Absolutely nothing!

Yes some guys in here are right my fetish heels will never disappear!  I just wanna do it again. I have to find other supportive family member but I do not want to tell to all my family. I may try to talk with the mother-in-law when she will come back she seemed more opened when my father was angry and worried. She said to him you must have to accept that at frist but he did not and still not but there is nothing to do with him so i will find other comprehensive people. Women have not difficulties to understand and at stores they are great and very nice. You talk them and they are already aware of that and you guys here and me and women sellers have an updated and opened mind. Sellers know that is very hard when the family discover that! We know there is no problem but I need to talk with someone conerning that and until now there is noone and it is very hard to keep that in mind and no talk. I may continue ask support at stores with women I find great but I need you also.

I cannot believe in 2014  heels for men is still not enough tolerated!  I have no bad comments when I wear heels in stores when I try them even a mother and her children!  People do not care of what I wear. That`s not fair I do not need my father agreement I will buy new heels one day just too bad for others who disagree I have enough I have now 23 it is my birhtday now on february 24th. 

I am free of wearing anything I want but I still think what he told me:

You could be attacked by someone because you are different and be a fool for some guys but I will defend myself and ignore them at first. So with the comment he made I am afraid of men groups.

You have been brainwashed by the guys in this forum. They manipulate you to do what they want to make you in trouble! They are not normal!

The reason I came here it was by curiosity and the fact I have a common point with everyone here. It is my own choice and I think no one of you are responsible for the fact I worn heels in public. That was my choice! Me and not from you!

Concerning people that will take me in picture or video and will send it to internet to make me in trouble. I do not think of that and I do not believe that.

People start to wear heels to finish to become women!   What is that stupid way of thinking?

It is nonsense prejudices and invented things by poorly educated people who never seen that during their life. They are afraid their family member becomes abnormal or crazy with bad behaviours. My father did not graduated from high school so that could explain his mind.

For him I am a shame for the family and i does hime very shame.

I have so much trouble to live with those things in my mind!  I cannot get out of that **** alone!

You told me good comments but I need extra time and a girlfriend that will love that. I will go shopping in heels with her in heels too.

I noticed You cannot hide all the shoe Under pants but heels are made to be seen! Because your pants will go Under the heel and stop the noise and goes to touch the floor

Hello. I wanna know if many of you are liking that noise like me? I have worn boots in this website: www.brownsshoes.com and type 6136318 in the search.

The square toe heel make a better noise with every step you do in walking it makes a great noise. It is my favorite boots. They cost expensive but for someone who like the sound it is good.

I think square toe is making much noise than a normal heel.

Here I have my favorite pumps that make noise also. The best of court shoes!

www.ninewest.ca

Applaud pumps. Also expensive but each year they come back in store!

I feel very excited to wear those heels! The noise especially!

After that event I stopped to wear boots but I continue to try shoes in stores but not with male clerk or sellers!

I do not like when they laugh!

I remind you and others we are not here to talk about women clothing. Only shoes right? Talk about men clothes who fitting well witth heels please

That`s very good! You have a great girlfriend take care of her!

Concerning the evening of february 20th and the week before I met 2 women that were opened for men in heels. They said I am not the first guy who come there and try female shoes. One at nine west store with 24 years old was very nice. I talked to her a long time and she studied in criminalogy and people behaviours and confirmed me and all of you ARE RIGHT when you say people should not take care when a man wears heels. Many of wrong people are not well enough educated. Many of them like my father have never seen that during their life. Most of people in Canada are not used to also. But that woman told me she sees men doing that while we do not see anything! It is a fetish she told me. Absolutely normal! A subject rather taboo and filled with prejudices. I believe we still are in the beginning of a long and big change. We know that other people are not right! We will continue to educate them.

It is ok if we continue to wear heels in public but not satisfactory! We are not enough numberous to create a new fashion. If we want that heels become popular and remove prejudices and others fashion companies and designers should help us making good clothes to fit with high heels. I do not talk high heels for men. Clothes to help us to have a good looking.

Women sellers continue to tell me my black pants fits very good with black patent pumps. One woman on february 20th said she love that patent heels! She said she does not care to see a man in heels, You can tell her any prejudices of other people and she will say: ( What can it make?) and (why). And also yes I understand it is very hard when you family knows about it.

Also I have one place to go but i am not in a hurry. It is verona shoe store.

I went to payless women sellers know me just by seeing. One Young was wearing karmen black  patent heels. I repeated her few times until she thanked me. She was looking good. And also the week before in another store (Le château) black pumps but not in leather black. She was very happy.

I continue also when I go there to compliment women I like their shoes but I will tell also to anyother people not only sellers. Because I let go a woman with pretty round black boots and could not know what they were and where to find them. Just too bad for me !

I still do not trust men sellers! They seem confusing when they talk to me. Are you there for the men section? Is it for you? --> HEHHEEHEHE

It is a pleasure to inform you with my adventures. I do not continue wearing high heel boots but continue to try them in stores!

I keep giving other news!

How would you talk about heels with narrow-minded parents? The father who does not want you to be a crazy guy?

How to not make war to them? They are the worst persons on earth that could make you problems!

So if they do not change their mind themselves we ge tired of wearing heels everywhere.

Of course you do not need their approbation but if you live with them you get hard times with a father that does not accept that and does not sleep at nights, he has a big fear anxiety. It makes giving up your fun! Your opinion change and you lose all pleasure you had to wear heels in public or not again. You realize it is better to let heels to women! At least when you have a girlfriend she makes you have great times.

I cannnot explain that otherwise you get enough! 

Sexual pleasure--> wearing heels sound giving you the desire to --> sexual desire---> When everyone knows everything from you and the pleasure was when the the fun stayed hidden but now showed up you lose interests like I did

It is pretty hard to explain!

I like the sound to especially when it is me that can make it. So much exciting

You will no longer standing up!

I know it will probably come back  that feeling but I have done the ultimate goal I was expected. i do not have a girlfriend. Heels was for me just an experience. The truth I have confidence in myself. But know as I went to many places I do not need to go commercial centre in heels I got what I wanted and I am very satisfied even if it did not work like i would. That was the principal for me. Wearing heels in public without beeing too much worried!

What could I tell you more? It is not my fault if my small town are narrow-minded. I enjoyed it for a sexual thing and otherwise just for trying in public.

It was a pleasure to share my experiences with you guys!

My pleasure was a hidden secret to family but  with everyone who knows it no longer stays an interesting desire.  How would you continue? Fun is missing!

I do not understand D.r Shoe

Girlfriend problem is not related to that

With days passed and pass again I realized he was right He wanted my own good. I was destroying my life my image since then I do not want to start again the same experience I have enough. I enjoyed and feel tired of that!

People would continue to laugh of me and I would scare women and have a bad reputation

I will take a girlfriend instead of wearing heels excitation is better for seeing a woman in heels

I had a really good short time but I regret it was in winter instead of autumn. I wanted to wear black court shoes it is better for walking! More easy

I do not accept him beacause he does not accept my desire.  He disagree and I agree.

He still use the same ways to talk. Narrow-minded Beauce he strongly disagree and He did not use an appropriate way to talk with me. He was and still narrow-minded evreything you say he reports that to you. He is not open minded it is like you talk with a Mirror. He thinks he is better than me and what I say he says I am useless to myself.  He assumes nothing all is my fault and him the perfect one! He believes that no one can attack him. That`s parents! You tell them they are perfect and they say no. Impossible to have peace with them they underestimate me.

After they say they tried to help the result they make much and more trouble they repair!

Now I do not care about heels I have enough of all

They make the same sound like flat sandals so NO! Closed shoes

Demons are your family. They say you overestimate yourself

Parents espcially the father is narrow-minded. Parents are the worst thing you can have! No negociation or no deal can be applied. Noone can understand better than yourself. I love court shoes and will never dislike that and like to walk with that!

My favorites. Made people scary concerning girlfriends I say it works or not. Do not care to stay alone