SwtPam Posted August 9, 2008 Posted August 9, 2008 Maybe this has been covered before--I'm a newbie. Does anyone enjoy feeling "dominant" or "powerful" because you're wearing heels? How so? Confession: I like to show a bit of the "Domm" -- No leather, whips and chains, but subtle. Like standing taller (I'm 5'9" so heels put me over six feet). Heels sculpture my calves--muscular legs. Heels give me an aire of confidence. Anything kinda "kinky"? Well....gotta admit I do get a rush when I feel my heels sink in. Hey--there's lots of pressure under the tip of my stilettos! I've punched my share of "heel holes" and crunched things--that's life! How do you feel in heels?
alicia Posted August 10, 2008 Posted August 10, 2008 I enjoy weairng leather fashion and boots. It helps me to feel more dominant. Being the footwear of choice in a female dominated society, boots were an obvious symbol of power and also a convenient tool for stomping. I feel sexy and powerful when I put on leather. This helps my more aggressive personality to come out. It helps me to get into the right attitude especially I am the office manager. I must confess that a leather outfit helps to fuel my dominant attitude. A Leather on a woman does convey a confident, take charge, sexual imagery. Not to mention, those boots need to be shinned. It's a good idea to get a bootpolish guy in downtown and have your boots shinned before going to work http://www.zappos.com/n/p/p/7349179.html boots that i wear to work. Boot me up, Boot me down
TaraSterling Posted August 10, 2008 Posted August 10, 2008 Absolutely. I'm you're height (5'9") and I love being slightly taller, or at least the same height as the men I am interacting with. The way that they click on the ground, the change in my posture, and with certain styles the harshness in their angles all compliment my natural dominance.
Amanda Posted August 14, 2008 Posted August 14, 2008 Tara, I agree with you wholeheartedly. Absolutely. I'm you're height (5'9") and I love being slightly taller, or at least the same height as the men I am interacting with. The way that they click on the ground, the change in my posture, and with certain styles the harshness in their angles all compliment my natural dominance.
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