yozz Posted January 9, 2008 Posted January 9, 2008 Hello After looking around for more than a year, I finally joined. This is my favorite site on the web. It teaches you about confidence in yourself. Just wear what you want to wear. And it is true. I go out shopping regularly with heels, and only a few times I noticed people giving a second look. Never a remark. Just act normal. I belong to the fortunate people who's wife is supportive. We go shopping for shoes and clothes together. This is also much nicer for her. She says she never looked this good. It is nice if you can share things. My buying of women shoes went into second gear when I saw some nice shoes outside a shop in my size -- I have rather small feet (size 39) and most shops don't sell my size in mens shoes; they refer you to the childrens section; now that is demeaning -- and I took them inside to try. The lady told me in conspirational voice: "you know, they are actually womens shoes". I told her, I didn't mind. They looked OK to me. I bought them and I have used them for two years most of the time. They were very comfortable. Since then I have no real problems trying on shoes or boots. When they have very feminine heels, I just try to be a bit discrete. Only once some other shoppers looked again. Just ignore. My most confortable footware is a pair of boots with 6 cm heels (2.5"). I have some problems with my feet and with these my feet feel best in the evening. But I still haven't had the guts to wear them to my work. If I would wear very high heels the story would go around the world rather fast (a rather gossipy academic environment) and I would probably have to explain things many many times. I take my time. I hope I can make some contributions to the discussions here. I enjoy reading them. Y. Raise your voice. Put on some heels.
foxylady Posted January 9, 2008 Posted January 9, 2008 Hello Yozz, welcome to this marvelous HH Community. I'm pretty sure you'll feel comfortable here.... I do... FL FoxyLady
Dawn HH Posted January 18, 2008 Posted January 18, 2008 Welcome, Yozz. That you in your Avatar? Tell us all more about yourself. Cheers--- Dawn HH High Heeled Boots Forever!
yozz Posted January 18, 2008 Author Posted January 18, 2008 Hi Dawn, Thanks for the welcome. I was very sorry to read about your soulmates problems. I wish you much strength. Yes, that is me. I wrote about it in the Chit-Chat avatar thread. The boots were a real find and I like to go shopping in them. Not with the skirt though. That is still skirt-fiction. Y. Raise your voice. Put on some heels.
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