loswabs

First off, thanks to everyone for taking the time and care to reply. I really appreciate you making the effort. Now then, the fishnets suprisingly don't show the hairs on me feet. They seem to camouflage them. The tan ones don't look so good but I'll do a pic and hopefully you'll see what I mean. But I'm open to be convinced. At least no one's said the shoes are a "no-no"! As for the skinny jeans, I know what you're saying but it's the feeling of them being so tight that I like. Yes, I admit I look tarty and slutty, which to me isn't a bad look, I rather like it. But maybe walking down Oxford Street in London would be too much? I get the point. I still wear skinny jeans and will again tomorrow when I go out shopping. Maybe a longer t-shirt would help? Sorry to veer away from high heels which I love with a passion, but this is another fetish I have and all input is valuable. Thanks again to all for reading and replying.

Very sexy heels What make are they please?

I think those jeans would rock with the right pair of boots, but the sandals, I think would go best with regular hose, and a touch looser pants.

Just my $.02

If you mean tan coloured hose the problem is my hairy feet (eew!!) will show through and before anyone says it, no, I can't shave them. I was thinking flat ballet pumps with the jeans? I've got a sparkly silver pair and a red pair. Nearly all my jeans as skintight but a couple of pairs aren't skinny at the ankles. How about black jazz pants with those heels? I'll post a pic and hope for more comments. Thanks to all who replied xx

I love trying on high heels in shops, especially when I get a female assistant to help out. I've never meet with any adverse reaction and all have helped me to the best of their ability, making it a pleasureable experience. I love going into Dune, they have some really sexy shoes, and that's where I bought my first shop pair. Too late in the day to tell you the story now, but I'll be back soon to spill the beans. Have fun:wave:

Hi

I bought these sexy purple strappy sandals just before Xmas, 4" stiletto, satin-look straps. I'm mathcing them with a pair of skintight Miss Sixty jeans and fishnet pop sox. I'll be wearing them out soon, just wanted to get so (hopefully) positive feedback!!

Great to hear about your acheivements Andrew, you'll inspire me yet to wear my 4" Dune strappy sandals out yet lol. Love your boots, keep up the good work and postings!

Jo Enjoy wearing your heels and anything else for that matter. Don't get weighed down by the hang-ups of other people or they'll bring you down. You're not hurting anyone are you? No, you're being true to yourself. So stick to that and I hope you have lots of fun. Take care buddy

Hi Ruby From a personal view, I've hidden my shoe wearing fetish for 25 years or more because I've never had the courage or confidence in myself to tell anyone that I love shopping for and wearing high heels. As someone who is a depressive anyway, this doesn't help my state of mind and can be very stressful. There's no point me trying to give up wearing high heels as I really enjoy the "release" when I do get to wear them. However I live in fear of being caught out, but then lots of times wish I would be. Then at least I'd be half way to knowing my wife's reaction. I'm telling you this because maybe your man feels like me? Maybe he wants to share this with you but is just too damned scared? Every time my wife and I have gone out recently if the opportunity has arisen I've said that women make too big a deal out of wearing high heels and it can't be that difficult. I'm hoping my wife (or someone else for that matter while she with me) dares me to wear a pair. If my wife asked me to wear heels I'd be delighted and would be in a pair like a shot. Maybe you could reverse that scenario and wear heels for him and after a few hours complain a little that your feet hurt and he should try wearing heels. Sorry if I'm not that coherent, but I hope for you both this ends up well.

Hi LE I just read through this thread from the start and have to say you seem a really nice lady and genuinely interested in your man. The scenario you described when you were on the couch together I think will work, if you add that special ingredient called "alcohol"!!! I'm assuming you may drink the occasional glass of something, so have a couple, pretend you're a little more drunk than you really are and in the same set up, play with your shoe, and then slip it on to his foot. I'm sure you'll be able to make it a little less blunt than I have said, but I reckon you may get a result there. Another one is a fancy dress party or a trip to the Rocky Horror Show, and tell him he has to dress up!!!! One thing to consider, as a man who likes to wear high heels, have you considered he may prefer to keep this to himself? Try the shoe on him but if he reacts badly, don't push it. Good luck

Had to work on a custome file this morning with my heeled salesgirl... She was wearing 5" black mules and kept dangling them... It was hard to concentrate on the work, but great working session overall...

Marc

Hi Marc

I think I would have to had said something in the end!!! The strain would have been to much. Something along the lines of "I really like your mules, you make them look very sexy dangling them like that..."

Not a great show to be kind, and only a few decent shots of heels. I loved the woman who got in the pool fully clothed and wearing her heels. Quite a few underwater shots of her struggling to walk in stilettos. I'll watch it again for more!

Thinking about getting these for my wife for Christmas from Fredericks of Hollywood:

They're a good price ($39) however the shipping costs to the UK are really expensive ($21). Has anyone seen anything similar either in the UK or from somewhere abroad where the shipping costs are a bit less?

Hi Smudgeur,

Did you get your wife these shoes then?

Rob

Hi, I only joined a week or so ago, but I'm glad I did. People are very friendly and the boards are very active. Where have you been all of my life?!!! Rob

Off track a little, but I've had a lycra and tight jeans fetish for years and always wore skintight jeans when I was younger. That phase ended when the 90's came about and I could no longer buy what I wanted. Then a few years back "jazz pants" came in fashion and to make a long story short, I have about 6 pairs of differing colours. I finally came "out" by "accidently" putting my girlfriend's pants on and wore them for a short while she was around. Thankfully she likes me in them so now I have managed to build it up so I wear them nearly all the time in the house. They're very revealing so I don't wear them out. What would the neighbours say?!!

I've only bought my high heels from either the net or mail order. I have bought ballet shoes in person, though that took some nerve. I admire you guys who can go into a shop and try on shoes. I just don't have the courage. Out of interest, do you wear tights / stockings in readiness of trying on the shoes? There are times I really wish I had the nerve to try!!

My girlfriend isn't really into any fashion, either shoes or clothes. Shame for me! We went out to buy her an outfit for a speacial occasion recently and she tried on some 4" purple suede stiletto pumps which had me so excited it was obvious. So she knows the effect heels have on me, but she isn't that motivated to wear them. I wonder whether I should buy her some from the net and see how we get on from there.

Name: Rob

Age: 40 something

Gender: male

Location: South East England

Height: 5' 7"

Weight: 154lbs

Shoe size: 7 (or 8/9 if its high heels lol)

What's your favourite heel style: stiletto

What's your favourite shoe style: all except platforms whihc don't do much for me. That said if a lady like to wear them, I'll be more than happy

Do you wear your heels outside: No

What is:

(a) Your favourite heel height: 4-4.5"

( Your highest heel height: Dead flat or minimum 3.5"

How often do you wear:

(a) Your favourite heel height: less than once a month

( Your highest heel height: as above

Do you wear socks, hose, stockings or bare feet with your shoes: all

Anything else you wish to add: I'd love to chat about this with other people who enjoy high heels and shoe fetishes. My MSN is loswabs@hotmail.com. Please get in touch!!

Hi I too love to wear ladies high heels. At the moment I only have 1 pair. They are red satin mules, 4" high, with a stiletto pointed heel. I used to have 2 other pairs. One, patent leather red pumps, 4.5" high, made by Bally. They were so sexy. The other I can't remember the make but they were also 4.5" high, those there were black strappy sandals. Not the type that tie up the leg though. I also have a fetish for wearing ballets shoes. I used 2 have 2 pairs again, 1 pink leather the other white satin. The only pair I ever wore outside were the pink leather ballet shoes which I painted bright red. I used to wear these when it was raining and so I knew I'd get my feet very wet and then muddy. I never got any trouble from anyone but I'm not sure if people look at your footwear as you wander through a mudy field. That's another fetish for another time I guess lol It's so good you can wear your shoes in front of your wife. I can't bring myself to confess this fetish as mine doesn't like to wear high heels herself so I can't see her liking me in them either. Shame, but she does indulge 1 or 2 other fetishes so I can't complain. Good luck and enjoy it while you can!!

Hi I just joined and thought I tell you about a girl I saw yesterday. I was waiting for a train and this cute young lady was sat near me. She wore a white furry type coat, blue jeans and very flat pink ballet shoes. Now I know this is a high heels site and I love them but I also love seeing dead flat ballet shoes, especially when they're worn in the street. Anyway, when the train came she got up and walked to it. Not only were her jeans totally skintight (I don't know how she could sit down in them!) she had a great figure and the ballet shoes were awesome as she walked. I nearly asked if I could have a shoe job but thought better of it. Rob