ImInHeels

ewell i went for another walk last night might try again tonight

Ok quick update. Its been a long time since i was last out in any heels, many many months. I decided tonight to take a small 5-10 min walk in them. Despite almost chickening out (part of the route took me past a well lit area, crossing a main road, before getting back in the shadows. I do think its something i should do more often, but i think i need to buy a more expensive pair of wedge shoes.

thanks for the replies. As my title says I'm actually from one of the british islands, im sure theres a few of us here where i live. However for now im going to stay in the shadows.

eclextix Thanks for the advice, however the only shoe shops we have here are in women's clothes shops. There are no department stores and no self service due to small retail spaces. Bubba136 Thanks for the advice hh4evr1 I Think i first need to get some lower wedge heels (2" or so) to start with, and maybe something as slow as a 1"stillettos and work my way up. Thighbootguy I have generally been happy walking around the house (flat) in heels, space is limited and i feel it is time to start seeing how i do at walking out and about at night. I would love to be mentally comfortable wearing heels, and its something i need to work on. However if the look/image works well i think this would help. I think your right, its more seeing someone i know, and the feeling/risk of being the butt of all jokes. ect. However i know this is something i would need to overcome. As it as at the moment my brother already takes the micky out of women who wear heels and happen to slip/trip ect. (only if their in heels) Your right i would like to enjoy to wear my heels in public, and i hope its something i can feel happy doing.

I think once you get back you would want nothing more to do with your heels.

I've been out on few late night walks around here. A while back i didnt get in from work till 3am so i went out for a walk in 4" heels i've been out a few times since but not quite so late. So maybe at night?

Yea, I've been for a few walks in my wedges however its my stilettos that Ive found it hard, mostly because of that clicking sound that it hard to cover up, totally giving me away a mile before anyone sees me.

IminHeels:-)

A lot of our members have had the same problem and they solved it by doing their heeling in a near-by town where they are not known.

Cheers---

Dawn HH

I live on a small(ish) island, no nearby towns, unless i get on a plane.

most of mine are stilettos (4" and up) and the click would be a good giveaway. however being a shorter guy at 5"5 its not so bad in 4" heels

my problem is, well i say problem. I work as a consultant just joined a new company and building up my client base. I live on a smallish island. and its hard to go about your daily life (but not impossible ) with out bumping into someone you know. and any negative effect this would have on me. I have a few times been out late at night walking in some wedge heels (normally for about a mile or so). looks like something that may take me a little time. maybe i should start with a bigger shorter heel. and work from there.

I know to some its not a big thing. But what have you done to get the courage to go out in your heels?

There is something about a nice pair of stiletto heels that i feel more comfy in then a pair of trainers. (I will admit this is only around the house for several hours.) But still better then trainers.

Hey, Not sure where to start. Im M/24 & from the uk, and trying to get the courage to ware some nice heels out. Which i still cant bring myself to do, even at night when there is almost no one around. 2 times now i have been out in a wedge style shoe (these were black, all-be it a shiny black you wouldn't see on a guys shoes. Both these walks were about a mile. (these shoes were over 4") however they looked a little like trainers with my jeans on i'll leave it there for now ImInHeels