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  1. Micce

    Weight Loss & Fashion Freestyling

    Congratulations Jeff. Not only looks better, but must be feeling much better. Not to mention lower risk of health problems. Maintaining lower weight is a problem and it can be easy to slip back to bad diet. I went from around 65kg in my 20s to 100kg in 40s. My 50th birthday approaching something kind of snapped in my head and changed diet and exercise habits literally overnight, from fatness to fitness as my daughters say. Over 20kg lost in half a year and started running 2-3 times weekly. Have gained about 3 kg back over past 4 years, so obviously maintaining good diet is difficult. Reasonable portions, trying to avoid junk food altogether etc. One must really get sort of "never again a couch potato" mindset and have much self-discipline. For my part, trying old size XXL jeans or ugly trainers two sizes larger than my current shoe size helps to motivate.
  2. Competition still going on? Thought I might post couple of photos as well...
  3. Icy sidewalks must be #1 problem here Left my not-so-shiny block heeled boots to my hotel room, waiting for some polishing before business meetings next day, and went for a brief evening walk in downtown Helsinki. 5" stiletto heels., even oxfords with 1" platform, aren't really outdoor shoes in Finnish winter. And to a serious answer to the original question, most problems could probably be summarized as a desire to wear a bit too high heels for extended time, end result being pain in ankles and ball of foot and toes. An inch more or an inch less makes big difference.
  4. Micce

    Why do you love to wear High Heels?

    I am 51 and oxfords are my favorites Must make them old people shoes. Though even as a teen I recall having liked the style. Kind of male shoes with stiletto heels added, so to speak. And one advantage compared with pumps is the superb stability thanks to shoelaces.
  5. Micce

    Hello from the Netherlands

    Welcome to the group and greetings from Finland. You are lucky to have found an understanding partner... It is now year 2017, but many people still think a man wearing heels or boots must be gay. Not that sexual orientation in itself is a positive or negative thing, but people living in the usual male-female relationship would not want others to think their partner is a gay or lesbian. So concerned what "others" and especially older relatives might think. At your age people are usually a bit more ready to explore, so to speak, at lest indoors. Remember my wife having been rather eager with everything new, including heels and boots when we were in 20's and 30's. Now both of us being over 50 years old, there is usually little interest. Maybe getting old and tired with demaning career etc. On the positive side, you will perhaps notice that when people grow older they care less about what others might think. Better self-esteem usually comes with age, as one gets more "established" in the society, be that work, hobbies, friends, family, and one's image of his/her sexuality. So as people grow older, they don't care so much what others do, or what others might think. A lot of acceptance learned sice childhood, especially since teenage years when everyone is supposed to fit into determined roles.
  6. Micce

    Swedeheelers (slow) progress

    First 10kg you can get rid of 1kg per week, slower after that. I was 175 cm and a bit over 100kg, waisline 105cm when I started my lifestyle change. Now 78kg and 80cm. Took about a year and half. No snacks between meals, smaller plates, half filled with vegetables etc. Plus physical exercise every other day. I would guess your shoe size will decrease a bit as you lose weight. Used to have EU43, now EU42 is a safe bet, but have one pair of stiletto pumps female EU41 and they are a bit too large Anyway, good for you to start weight control. Besides obvious health effect, it also helps to boots self-confidence which is good for heeling. And getting a bit smaller shoe size is obviously an advantage.
  7. Micce

    Getting used to not wearing low heels?

    Miroseplant got my point. I wasn't thinking about physical discomforts, let alone any medical problems. What I have in mind for this topic has more to do with feeling of being properly dressed or not. Getting used to being 2-3" taller in public etc. Such low or mid-height shoes are still so low that walking is no problem, especially with conservative looking block heels. And footwear is still so unisex that even my teenage daughter's friends don't pay any attention. Maybe someone will one day ask "Sir, are you stuck in the 1970s with your footwear" but that's about it. So my midset is sort of stuck to wearing (moderate) heels in public, that I could not even consider low-heeled male style oxfords for example. Those are just outright ugly and kind of clumsy, being so low. Have got accustomed to that idea during past couple of years, ever since I started using a bit higher footwear. However, no problem wearing low heels such as trainers for sports or combat boots when doing my occasional weekend in the military. And calf muscles have lot of time to rest anyway, as here in the Nordic countries it is customary not to wear any footwear in private homes.
  8. Micce

    Which boots to keep?

    Thank you all for your comments. Good point that uncomfortable ones would just became dust collectors. Having about a dozen pairs of stilettos, ankle boots and boots, I have got more critical what to keep over the years. Some favorite shoes are used on a daily basis while some are just collecting dust. It would also be a good idea to return what one would rather not wear in public, as such pairs would also just collect dust. Now what one wants to or dares to wear of course varies. I for myself have got a bit more courage over the years, while also learning that higher the better does not apply for shoes that need to be used all day. Add to that starting to appreciate more age-appropriate classic styles. Better ditch wild faux leather platforms and stilettos etc, maybe bar a few pairs saved for heeling at home.
  9. I was wondering if other forum members have had similar feelings.... For past couple of years I have always had 5-7 cm shoes, be that oxfords, boots or ankle boots. Except for gardening, sports, etc... Some time ago I got thighboots with low heels, only 2-3 cm or an inch or so. Not playing Pirates of the Caribbean here (sea being frozen for winter) but those boots go nice with a long overcoat. Anyway, to my mild amuzement I realized I felt strange going out with such low footwear. Not properly dressed, sort of half naked with low heels. Or like going without tie to a formal party.
  10. Micce

    New conservative oxfords

    Stiletto oxfords with 13cm heels & 3cm platform I have had for quite a long time and just recently found rather conservative oxfords with 7cm heels. Unlike the stilettos, those shoes are real leather. Not for "heeling" but for everyday wear at work. No negative comments so far and I guess people barely notice or care these days.
  11. Micce

    Which boots to keep?

    Just recently received new boot for winter. Almost unisex type, at least if pants are not tucked in... conservative 8-10cm heels, so quite easy to walk with either pair. However, which pair to keep? One with wide block heels or the other, bit narrower heeled boots? Cannot really make up my mind. Of course love to keep both, but better return one pair as storage space is limited... So I would really appreciate your comments
  12. Micce

    Swedeheelers (slow) progress

    Glad that you got the courage. One milestone passed and self confidence up.
  13. Micce

    Swedeheelers (slow) progress

    Liberal and tolerant Scandinavia wasn't _that_ tolerant just a generation ago. But things are changing real fast for the better, especially in big cities. Guess your parents' generation was quick to label people because of the way they dress or behave. Maybe keep the stilettos in the closet for a while and start gradually, not giving any shock therapy. Your parents may turn out to be more tolerant than you think, just give them a little time to get used to the idea of you wearing heeled shoes, little by little. BTW what sort of cowboy boots you are talking about? Block heeled cowboy boots are quite unisex, even if heels are 5-10cm.
  14. Micce

    Heeling level?

    Don't know how to classify on 1 to 5 scale, but for couple of years I have for 99% of time used 5-6 cm oxfords or ankle boots. Conservative looking with block heels, real leather, great with a dark suit. Maybe cannot call that "heeling" because people just don't notice. Or are already used to my footwear as last time a had male oxfords was in 2013. Out of office, prefer leggings and wedge heeled trainers. Maybe 6-7cm. Don't use them for running, but returning to car change shoes right after doing stretching. Again, nobody seems to notice. Could be the wetlook leggings that draw the attention
  15. Micce

    Who has bought some new shoes

    Just recently received new Steve Madden Delirious platform shoes with 16cm stiletto heels. Not new to high heels, but cannot stop admiring what heels do to your posture.... Unfortunately I guess need to return the shoes because 16cm heels, even with nearly 5cm platform, are a bit too high for me. Would love to master those great heels, but immediate pain on top of the foot is a serious warning sign for one who has had a fractured foot years ago...

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