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They are here. I am excited, I am wearing them now

here are pics.

 

 

Unfortunately, I have never been more scared in my life... today, my mom heard a country song that is called girl crush, she immediately changed the station because it was a "lesbian song"

 

And the southern relatives are here, imagine the fear I'm going through now.

We went back yesterday (to find the remote of a DVD player) I went to look for them, and they were gone, The sale price is about 10 US Dollars From target

I just bot a pair of litas, they will probably com within the 21st- 27th of may, I am scared but yet, excited, mixed emotions really. I just have to snatch them from the mail before my dad picks it up... unless its a Fedex or ups delivery, then I'll have to get it before they ring the door bell. This will be a hard thing to do, My sister is graduating soon, and I will be having relatives over, so if it happens at the wrong time... I will be definitely be hurting.

Hello all,

I am going to check in with you all. I would like to just say I think I've gone bonkers. I say this because I can not stop having bad dreams, I feel insane. Dreams about the shoes above and all general heels, it is tearing me apart, psychologically. I do not know how to end this madness, even if I told my parents, since they don't even approve of a transgender fly. This will be the death of me eventually if I don't get the help...

Thank you Steve!

You have basically supplied me with help that I feel has "quenched my thirst."

Thank you all others, in trying to help me, as it is greatly appreciated in my eyes.

Best of wishes,

Preston

Cl0setheels, I am 16, my mom is 57.

So today, I was at the Salvation army and I saw a "cool" pair of boots, even my mom agreed. We left since I had to go to work relatively soon. So I copied down the shoe information, and looked online on the way to get home. I found out that they were woman's. My first mistake was telling my mom that they were women. I got home around an hour ago and before my mom went to bed, I asked her if we could go back so I could try them on. Mistake one came back when she said "No, we are not going back. Those are women shoes, and you will not be wearing womans' clothing." This just about broke my heart. She obviously could not see that I really liked them.

 

Honestly by now, My mom has sent me back into my depression cycle. I am going to call a depression call center to talk to someone tomorrow.

 

If anyone wants to help me out, please just comment below.

Thanks,

Preston

 

I need a last opinion asap. I have the money to buy the heels, however, when they arrive, I'm going to need to do some explaining. What do I do?

Thanks,

Preston

I'll say that I am a Boy Scout, and I automatically carry stuff in a bag, but it would be nice to take in a bag to the movies...

I guess you could say white is the new black

My apologies TBG, I actually have a lot on my mind, I'm always thinking due to ADHD. I still have to get the heels, I'm planning on just buying them later on in the day after I snooze a bit, and have little regret when they come, but still pray that I don't get caught.

 

I have a benefit with the Tactical kilt though, since I made a deal with one of my school pals, if I get one for him and myself, we will both wear them. As for the heels, well... I have one of my best friends (male) and can always get a female friend with little ease that we can go out with.
 

Ill also point out I showed my mom the bag, and she said "It's your money, if you want it, you can buy it."

 

The bag                 The kilt             The heels

 

I have wanted to get my ears pierced and either getting snake bites or spider bites. I gave myself a tattoo about a year ago on my ankle and I wonder how many more ill get

I would post my young legs, but they are too beefy. I work at a Kroger store (grocery/produce store) pushing carts about 2 hours a day, and I bike everywhere. I honestly don't have bad legs though. My apologies for my crummy English, I'm only an American teenager!

I don't know how to put this lightly other than to just say it... What do you think about tactical kilts(man skirt)? Honest question. Not only that, but also a tactical messenger bag(man purse). And for the situation, I could add on some heels. I'll take anyone's opinion.

Thanks,

Preston

Really?? Wow, I would have never known. It hasn't really changed much from the past years other than folies to macys, and more outer buildings.

Overall, I do have many options, and I'm grateful for it.

Thanks again,

Preston

I would have to agree with the others that the J.C. Litas would be an awesome choice. The tend to be less feminine which may help your cause at this point. Boots in general may be the way to go initially. Most don't notice.

 

Your profile say's your in Colorado. Are you close to any malls or shopping centers where you may be able to look at shoes? Keep in mind most retailers have a return policy so you could buy something locally, and if they don't fit , you can return them (make sure your fully aware of their policies) Places like DSW, Hot Topic, and Journeys may be possible places to look, and cater to male and female, so your not likely to seem obvious. Even Kohl's, JC Penney and Target are possible outlets for you.

 

Oh - - - What about some womens western designs.

Heelster,

Oh am I ever! I am near the Park Meadows Mall, and close to that is DSW and Nordstrom Rack. Inside the mall is the BIG brand stores like Macys, Dillards, and JC Pennys. Also inside the store, there is Forever 21, Hot topic, Journeys, and more. If none of that can work, I can always go to Plato's Closet or Kohls. As of the western design, I don't like it as much.

 

 

JC does actually manufacture a "Mens version" (exactly the same boot, but in larger sizes) so you can confidently tell them that it is a men's style:

http://www.solestruck.com/first-by-jeffrey-campbell-lita-mens-black-distressed/index.html

Google image search "jeffrey campbell lita man" to see some guys wearing them. And also here:

http://www.jeffreycampbellshoes.com/lookbook/the-damned/

You could point to these pictures to show that there is nothing wrong with a guy wearing these Lita's.

PS: you may need to up your fashion game to pull off the look.

Rob,

Thank you so much for the links! Unfortunatly, I don't have an extra $200 to spend, so im basically going for the cheaper option. And thanks to my mom, I can fit into a 10.5 shoe size, but ill round up to a 11.

Hi all,

I thought this through. I'm looking at a pair of J.C. Litas, would that be a better choice since they are more of a block type heel?

Thanks,

Preston

Hey all,

I really like the feed back, it is as if I'm listen to a counselor. Steve and TBG, thanks the most! The only thing about thing about telling my parents is, how do I go about doing it or tell them?

Thanks always,

Preston

_{Don, TBG, Lvemadomina,I}

_{Thanks for the help! I am BUYING my first pair, but it is not the first pair of heels I have worn. My mom actually has around the same foot size as me, so I already know, I can fit into a 10/11. Her shoes are pumps with a 5 inch heel I inch platform. I have been wearing her heels since about 6th grade (now in 10th grade) How ever I would not call myself an armature yet since I have only had 3-4 pairs of shoes to walk in.}

 

_{I do have a problem with getting a PO box however, since they are expensive in my area. But I will try to go store shopping soon, as soon as I can get a car.}

_{Thanks again,}

_Preston

I have actually found a pair of 6.25 inch heels! (picture down below) And since I have started working and earning money, I can afford things now. The problem is, I cant buy them yet. But only because I have no way of hiding the package. I can cover the money transaction through gift cards, but when they arrive, how can I get it without my parents seeing?

I'll take any possible solutions.

Thanks,

 Preston

These are quite honestly my fav. It appears I cannot post the picture, but I like ballet heels.

Thanks Larry, Bikergoth, and Steve! It took a while for me to tell just that friend, and now I'm thinking of telling my female friend also when school gets back in session. But of course, I will probably wait till I'm on my own to tell my parents about this. Thanks again!

Preston

What did I finally do you may ask. Well, I finally dropped the bomb shell on my BEST FRIENDS!! Yes, he now knows about me and my liking for high heels, and he's totally cool with it! I even found out, if he had the opportunity, that he would also wear heels. Today has been a great day ending at -14 degrees F. signing off,

BTBA

Get a Mad Bomber hat, they are like the bear trapper hat... Fuzzy

Hi again! I'm back and now I'm back a year older too!!

I'm planning on draining my current savings account all of but $50 for a new laptop that costs about $850-900 dollars after tax. I also hav applied to several jobs ex: King Supers (aka Kroger), Ace Hardware Store, Target, and Goodtimes. I am currently waiting for King Supers to get back with me so I can take a drug test, and all the others I am waiting for an interview.

In the past time since the post I had been to Mexico and to the mall with three lady friends, and I had my first trip inside Victoria secret... and it was not fun (they hid my hat in the linger... it was awkward for me) and that sums that part up.

I will find out what courses I will get on Friday during my advising appointment and hopefully I won't have to take english anymore. I am succeeding in math and science and will be advancing in those courses towards computer programing.

As for my friend situation ILK, my friends have cut and are mostly emo, but they care about me in a way that no one has ever before, so they will remain my friends. I can not thank you enough for all the help you have given me ILK, you are also a friend to me despite the age difference. Thank you again,

Logging off,

BTBA

Put on a pair of stockings, get dressed and got out to a restaurant with your wife. A mam wearing heels when in the company of a female tends to modify people's attention. I guess they focus more on the female than the guy. Believe it or not, it does help relax you and ease your mind about what others will think about the what you are wearing.

I agree with what bubba says, do it with you wife and ask her to tell anyone that asks that she is making you for the day/night. I'm glad that she is also slightly reserved instead of not ok with it. So what I can translate that to in my almost sixteen year old brain is that she loves you no matter what happens, and she is uncomfortable but she can also become comfortable with it. You need to accept that people will always judge you and that it doesn't matter what other people think. I hope this will help you!

Regards,

BTBA