latindancer

Just wanted to give everyone how great my sister in laws legs and heels look from the New years party. She knows about my heeling!! So, she let me take a picture of her. HOT!!!!! My brother is lucky!!!

Well, I just bought these heels from Shoe Land in Orlando, Fl. It cost me a total of 35 dollars for all of them. I hope you enjoy and I can't wait to go out with them.

Well, I'm back in Chicago and I decided to go heeling today. I went out looking exactly like the pictures shown below. As everyone can see, the heel was very visible. I love these boots though. Well, let me tell you about my outing. First, I went to eat at Taco Bell, then went Walmart, no comments and no responses, some double takes and smiles but nothing. Next, I went to the movie theater. There I got a lot of responses. I had tons of people giving me a double takes and some giggles from a group of 4 teenage girls. I had to wait 40 minutes for the start of the movie so I sat at a bench were everyone had to walk by. Picture what on the picture but the whole boot showing. I counted over 100 people looking but nothing. Tons of kids came out of one theater for Alvin and the Chipmunks and nothing. I did get one woman who had her some. She of course noticed my boots and then gave me an evil stare. She looked pissed. I just looked at her back and smiled. I wanted to go ask her why she felt threaten about a guy in black 3.5" stilletoe boots, but I didn't. While waiting most of the theater cleaner were going to movie theater to theater. They probably looked over 10 times. I counted 6 guys. Well, they were all gather together so I decided to ask them a couple of questions. I asked if anyone noticed anything different about me. Well, all said about the high heels. I asked what there initial thought was. All of them said nothing. Just a guy in heels. Surprisingly I asked if anyone first thought was that I was gay. All of them said no. I also asked them if they thought if it was weird. One said yes, but the rest said no, it's the norm to see different things, and 2 said that if you wanted to do what I wanted them do it. Most of these guys were in the range of 18 to 24, so it was a good group. I later went to Panera Bread, and sat down. No comments. Only response was 2 old lady, probably around the age of 50 couldn't believe and they had a giggle. They kept looking but that was it. I stood in the front of the fireplace, and I'm sure everyone had a look. I looked around and this old man 67 years old(I asked) and his friend 30 years old, was looking and couldn't stop. So, I gauge them on some questions also. First thought? It's different and funny. Gay? No, (young one) I thought that you were first a transvestite or crossdresser, but after a good look I noticed the wedding ring so no, it looked like a man just wanting to wear heels. Did you ask why was a man wearing heels? No, just looked at the look and it the thing happening right now, difference. Will it be accepted? It's starting to be due to everyone doing their own things. I intend to do this more and more therefore I hope this helps out the guys who are deciding to go out heeling. Just do it and you'll see that 99% of the time, no one cares. Latindancer:wave:

Kris, Well, let me tell you that the Old outlet stores are almost 80% complete. Most of the major stores are there. For, the good deals at the Premium outlet stores next to dolly world, well, as you probably know it's all the same from any other outlet stores. As for Shoe Land. I was told it caters to Afro/Latin personnel. If you don't mind trying on shoes around a lot of Latin people who will look at you strange, then the selection is great. I just went there and I noticed that mostly the highest is 11s, with a few 12s, but I do think that the best deals for heels are shoe land. Many selections and choses. It's on route 192 going south to Kissimmee. After you passed Walmart on the right side it will be on the left hand side. Just look for an outback and it's right behind it. Florida Mall is great cause you have a lot of choices. Bakers, Steven Madden, and many other stores which you can shop for heels. Have fun and good luck. Latindancer

Well, everyone. I've been away for awhile and haven't posted anything. I apologize for that. Well, I'm on vacation and am having a good time. I have told my brother and sister about my heeling and they seem to be supportive, my mother really doesn't want to hear but I believe she suspects. I am currently in Orlando, FL, and had to say that I am having a good time. I went the other day, in broad daylight to one of the outlet stores with my Naturalizer boots and no one said anything. I got a couple of looks but nothing. I walked the whole day and nothing. I think the only comment I received was because I was wearing a windbreaker and it was 84 degrees that day. Nothing about the heels. I was clicking along and I think a lot of people said "oh well". While at the premium outlets I went into Brand Name Shoes store and tried on some shoes. No one did nothing until an old hispanic lady couldn't believe her eyes and went next to me to see me trying to walk on size 10s, I'm an 11. Didn't fit but they looked good. She didn't say anything but from her non-expression, I think she was in shocked...... I also went to downtown disney with my son. He doesn't know about this but I put on my heels and went into downtown. It was packed. A lot of people. I think a family noticed and just had a giggle while I was waiting for my son to finish his train ride. All of my heel was showing along with some of the boot. I really didn't care though. I have to say that I recently went to nine west and bought new shoes. I'm a little upset cause I thought it was a certain price but it wasn't. Therefore, I think I will return them. Just look at the picture and it's these put black and a 4" heel. I also went to the Limited and bought myself some pants. I wanted to try them on but it was a woman there. I'm not sure about a guy willing to try on clothes at an all woman store. Has anyone have any experience with this and how did it go? Oh, and one other thing. If any of you come to Orlando, there's a store called the Shoe land. It's cheap shoes with decent quality, nothing over $20, and the store associates are very helpful. Sizes upto 12, and a lot of styles; sandals, pumps, boots, and anything that's modern today. I bought 3 pairs. Take care and until next time. Keep heeling and be seen!!!!! Oh, also for the people who are interested. I went to the Mall of Millenia. I went into Guess, Jimmy Choo's, Louie Vitone, and all these other expensive stores. I asked what was there maximum size shoe that they carried. Most only carried up to 10s, and most up to size 40. As everyone know's a size 40 is only a size 10 in america. It was funny cause the sales lady said that they can normally go to a size woman 12, which 40 is not a twelve. I just laughed and left. Hope this helps out about the expensive brands out there.

I just wanted to get a thread going with my experiences of heeling outside. So, if you want to make a comment then go ahead. I hope you enjoy and if you wear heels, just go outside and about. No one cares and if they do it's only to themselves. Latindancer:smile: Here is my first time out thread. I just want to thank everyone on this site. I have always worn heels at home and so frustrated that I couldn't wear them out. It wasn't till this site that I had the courage to go out in them. I currently live outside the Chicago, USA area and it was very hard to even think about going out in heels. Well, I got the courage and started doing it. First, it was to the car, then to the mailbox. After that it was going out at night, driving around. But just like everyone in this site, I went for it. I first went out wearing clunky 3.5in boots. I was so scared because of the sound they make, but I got the courage and went into Blockbusters. I know that the guys there noticed the heels but like everyone says, no one said anything. I even had a conversation with one of the guys about movies(all the time him looking down at my heels). Oh, the heels where square too, so it was hard to tell the difference, and well hidden from the jeans. After that day, I decided to go with them in the afternoon to Kolh's. I walked around. Went around women that were wearing heels, because as a lot of people know they will also look down to see what shoes they someone is wearing. Well, nothing happened, no comments, no looks, it was great!!!!! I just came from going out in 3 inch stilletoe boots, patent black. I just didn't care. Went to a coffee shop, and I heard comments, like wow!! and whispers of he's wearing heals but nothing. I sat down, had coffee and enjoyed a bagel. Again, nothing. I went back this time to the Blockbuster and this time I know that the guys saw my heels. I heard them laugh, but I didn't care. When i went to pay for my new movie, it was professional as always. He was a little flustered though, cause he couldn't think of what to say, at the same time him taking peeks at my boots. There was also another guy who just keep looking at my boots and didn't say a word. Awesome!!! I'm still scared about going to malls, and bookstores cause of the amount of people but I think I will eventually do it. It was the best time. So, again thank you for the motivation, the help and giving me the cojones to do this. Now, I can wear my heels and enjoy myself. Well, this is the second post I had written, so for some of you it's old. I just copied and paste it here. Well, I just want to say that today I went out heeling for at least a couple of hours. I was wearing brown boots that have a square toe and heels at least 2.5". From the side the heels look like stilettoes but from the back they look like square. Well, first I went to taco bell to get some food. I just walked right in, ordered and sat down. I know some of them noticed but they didn't say anything. After that believe it but I went inside JCPenny and just walked around. At first, I tried to stay away from the aisle due to the noise the heels were making, but nothing. I even went up an escalator and nothing. I noticed a couple of guys looking when they heard the sound but nothing. After a while I started to see if anyone will say anything, so I decided to walk the aisle. My heels were clicking loud, but nothing. One women did see and just smile and giggled softly. I was starting to wonder if anyone was going to say anything, so I started clicking louder and still nothing. Wow!!!! I took it to the next level, I left JCPenny and went to another store. I went to TJMax. As everyone know there is no carpets there. I just walked around making my clicking sound. Some peeked but nothing. I even walked next to a women that had a nice heel boot, and clicked along with her. I was getting upset a little that I decided to lift my pants up a little to make the heel more noticeable. Stayed there for a while and still nothing. Some guys looked and just kept going without a look or a thought. Not even a second take. Trust me when I say that the heels makes my feet look small, and they are very noticable as woman's shoe. After that, Starbucks. The girls inside noticed my boots and did the double take. I had to wait for my coffee, but she was still nice about the whole situation. I sat down, and everyone knows that you can see the whole shoe and heel but nothing. Again, wow!!! Talk about not caring. I was going to ask her if she noticed and see what her response were but decided not too. I think next time I am going out in my stilettoe boots that are really noticeable plus a pointed toe, just to see peoples reaction. Trust me people just do it and don't worry about it!!! I'm starting to have fun and thinking about the possiblities of being able to wear what I want. It's going to be a great and exciting life from now on. Cheers!!!!!! Here's my third input into this forum. Again, some of you have seen it already. I just went out today with stilletto heels on. One of my favorite boots. I decided to do this to see what peoples responses will be of the shoes, if any. These boots are shiny black so they really were noticable. I was wearing long straight leg jean, and most of the heel were covered. Well, I heard about everyone saying that the bookstores where easy to do. I went to Barnes and Noble and well nothing. I saw people noticing but nothing. I then went out to Payless which was next door and looked at other boots. The cool things was a mother and a young daugther was trying on stiletto boots and they saw mind. I just smile at them and nothing was said. I wanted to give them my opinion on the boots they were trying on cause the girl just didn't know which ones she wanted. After that, I decided to become braver. I went to a DSW. That place was full with people. So many shoes and boots. I never tried on woman shoes in the store before but this time I said screw it and decided to try on some other boots, sandals, and pumps. No one said anything. I was getting upset. So, a lady walked past me as I took my boots off and I decided to tell her that I like her boots. She said thank you, and we talked about her dog that she was carrying around. Guys, girl, little kids, teens all saw me in my boots and trying things on and nothing!!!! Just like you I felt like a ghost!!! Do anyone care!!!! Oh well. I said I will never walk around the mall in complete daylight but I said screw it and went inside. Mall was full and I just enjoyed myself. I finally saw people looking down at my boots, this time a lot of the stiletto was showing due to me lifting my jeans more, but nothing. I went to Bakers and the show clerk looked down at my boots and smiled and said if I needed any help just to ask her. The funny thing was that there was this guy who couldn't stop looking at my boots. I enjoyed that!!!! He was basically in shock. Oh, I went into Macy's and there was this fine woman. I'm talking hot as hot can be. She also saw my boots and heels and smiled at me. I wanted to go over and tell her how hot she was but chickened out. Maybe next time. I think I will just wear what I want. I have a lot of stilletto boots and now I know that most do care. Everyone just do it and enjoy your heeling. It's not that bad. Next it's walmart, with very loud stillettos..... Still scared, just a little... Well, here's a thread post. I know I have others but I think the last couple were enough. Well, today I had an excellent day. I decided to wear my new Naturalizer boots I got the other day. They are pointy toe and shiny black. About a 3.5 in stilletto heel, therefore, it's was quite exciting. To make it even better, I was wearing woman's jeans, flared cut. I have to admit that the clothes I was wearing, if anyone will actually look at it closely it looked like a woman from behind. I have to say though, that the outfit looked stylish and good. I was proud of the way it looked. Plus, like a lot of people on this forum have said that women's pants are more comfortable then mens. I have to agree. I will be buying women's pants from now on. Now, my day. I went out and decided to go do some shoe shopping, to see if I can get a deal somewhere. I went to DSW again, and walked right in. I tried on some shoes and boots. No one said anything. The great thing was that beautiful women were there trying on shoes also. I loved it. I was enjoying myself and they were also trying new ones also. Great legs, great face, and beautiful heels, what more can a man want..... After that, I went to the mall, cause I didn't find anything I wanted, plus they didn't have my size for the ones I did wanted, size 11s. I went to the mall, it was packed with people. Went into Bakers, and for the second time a girl helped me out with the shoes and trying to find the my size. I tried on a size 10, but it didn't fit. She had no response. The funny thing was that her boyfriend was there and he just looked at me with my boots and trying on heels... Hahaha.... Nothing though from him. Oh, I did get one response from this couple. I went into Debs, as I was leaving the girl looked and immediately told her boyfriend about the shoes. I didn't care though. She tried to prove it to her boyfriend though because she moved in front of me and I had to move differently, I guess for the boyfriend in back of me to see better. No big deal though. After that it was movie, and then a meal. Basically it was nothing about it. I can tell you that probably 100 people saw me with my boots, and nothing. The jeans really didn't hide the heel that much and they were really noticable. It's fun though. I hope you enjoyed this post. Cheers:wavey: Oh, I forgot. I did have one bad experience, but I basically don't care. When I got my new boots Naturalizers, I was at a Outlet store, and outside outlet store. I was walking when all of a sudden a big fat black family heard my heels and looked. They just started laughing. As I was laughing, the kid will point at me and laugh some more. The mother, who was bigger then an NFL lineman, was also laughing. Well, to let them have a good time, I kept walking right next to them and didn't pay much attention to them. I think after a long walk they just decided to go into one of the stores. But, before they went in, they did one last look and laughed some more. I guess I should've laughed at them for being so fat, but I didn't want to shrink to there level. I hope I made their day though, now they have a story to tell people about a man who wore high stilletto heel boots at the outlet stores. It was no big deal though. I will take that as a bad experience, but the attendants at the store was very helpful and polite... Have a great day.. Here's a picture of the boots I bought.

Chicago, IL:thumbsup:

Hey ct03si, I have a question. Are those black slacks men or womens? If they are womens could you tell me where you got them, I'm interested in getting me some. I like the way they look, especially with the heels. Great pictures and you are a lucky man!!!!! Hey Shoeiee, I can understand about the military thing. I use to be in Hampton Roads also, and in the military, and I can tell you that you do have more guts than I do. I don't think I can wear heels there cause of the military aspect. Like, you said, a lot of guys have this macho mentality there and it sucks. A lot of people don't understand that individuality is important but they just don't understand. It's like a guy in the military who once said that he's a member of the democratic party but voted for Bush because republicans take care of the military more, which is completely false. Keep being brave and keep heeling. latindancer.

Hey onyourtoes!! Thanks, that is the best information in which I had. I am going to try that. It's fun how I feel funny about trying on woman's pants in the dressing room, when I'm wearing stilletto boots when I go in. I think I need to get over the embarrassment and just do it. I thank you again for the information it was greatly helpful....... latindancer

Thanks, I will do that.....

Well, I'm trying to pass out as a man but with style. I'm trying to coordinate my heels with better jeans and outfits. I basically want to look great with heels on. I want to be noticed and someone say that it's a good look. Right now a lot of my jeans just don't look good in heels, that's basically it. It's all about the style and wanted to look good....

1.) Men, have you ever worn footwear with an elevated heel? a) Yes. No

a)Yes

2.) Men, have you ever worn footwear with an elevated heel in public? a) Yes. No

a)Yes, First time this week!!!

3.) Men, how often do you wear elevated heeled shoes in public? Please specify X number of times per week, month or year or never.

So, far for this week, daily.

4.) Men, if you wear elevated heeled shoes in public do you also wear other items of clothing that is 'socially determined to be ladies wear'? a) Yes always. Yes sometimes. c) Never only shoes. d) Not applicable.

Yes sometimes.

5.) Men, do your friends, family, work colleagues know of your wearing of elevated heeled footwear? a) Yes, I make no hiding of it. Some yes, but I'm careful who I share it with. c) No, this is not something I share with people outside such similar forums as HHPlace. d) Not applicable

B

6.) Men, if you do not share the knowledge that you wear elevated heeled footwear with friends, family, work colleagues, please can you provide the main reason why?

Some member of family will not understand?

7.) Men, have you ever been to a 'Heelmeet' or similar arranged meeting? a) Yes. No. c) I would do if I could travel to such an event.

b)No

8.) Men, if you have attended a 'Heelmeet' how many other men were present also wearing elevated heeled footwear? (please refer to the last Heelmeet you were present at).

N/A

9.) Men, if you have attended a 'Heelmeet' in elevated heeled footwear what has been the general public response to your attire with respect to your footwear? a) Mainly positive. Mainly Negative. c) Indifferent/no reaction.

N/A

10.) Men, if you have attended a 'Heelmeet' how has the number of men attending wearing elevated heeled footwear changed? a) Generally increased. Generally decreased. c) Increased more recently over the last 2 years. d) other, please specify.

N/A

11.) Men, do you feel vunerable in your public surroundings wearing footwear with elevated heels? a) Yes. No. c) Not applicable.

Not yet, I'm a big guy with a bald head. Been told many of times from my wife that I look intimidating. Therefore, No!

12.) Men, have you ever received any public negativity when or for wearing footwear with elevated heels? a) Yes. No

No

13.) Men, do you feel that an elevated heeled shoe could ever achieve unisex status as a mainstream fashion item? a) Yes. No.

a)yes

14.) Men, if the elevated heeled shoe ever became a unisex fashion item would it still hold the same appeal to you as the wearer? a) Yes. No. c) The same.

a)yes

15.) Sorry forgot, please could I you to specify your age and country of residence?

33, USA

I have a question that needs helping. I was wondering if anyone can help me trying to look better with my heels. I'm into tradition stilletto heels when I go out, basically anything greater than 3" but not 4.5", just stylish. I am asking about pants. I usually wear jeans that are man style straight leg or boot cut, but as must of you know they make you look like a man with heels on. I want something more stylish. So my question is this? Do women jeans/pants/slack make the look more stylish? I've been hearing that a woman slacks are fitted so that it accetuates the butt and then it's strainght leg but not as wide in the thigh region. What is anyones take on this, I am open to any suggestions and if you can demonstrate pictures it will be helpful.

Well, just want to give everyone my new excursion out. I was wearing these heels during the day. They were in broad daylight. The heels were making their noise for all it's glory. Well, I went to Arby, Walmart, Payless, Target and Starbucks, and not one person said anything. I know a lot of people were looking but nothing. The best one was when I went into Barnes and Noble. I sat down on a chair in plain view, crossed my legs while I was reading a magazine. Therefore, the heels were in plain view. I counted 5 guys looking at me and the heels. Some for awhile, maybe wondering how they looked..... Women just smiled at me. But the guys just looked. Now, I know I can were anything and know one will care or say anything. I actually am hoping someone will say something, so I can at least talk to them. It's fun though, and I enjoyed my time out. 6 hours in high heels, stilletto heel, and pointy toe. AWESOME!!! Now, I must shop to buy more shoes, cause I got to get ready for spring, and summer..... Enjoy yourself people, it's fun and rewarding. Now, you don't to spend money on shoes and just leave them at home. Use them for what they are intended for........WALKING......HAHAHA... Latindancer

Well, just want to give everyone my new excursion out. I was wearing these heels during the day. They were in broad daylight. The heels were making their noise for all it's glory. Well, I went to Arby, Walmart, Payless, Target and Starbucks, and not one person said anything. I know a lot of people were looking but nothing. The best one was when I went into Barnes and Noble. I sat down on a chair in plain view, crossed my legs while I was reading a magazine. Therefore, the heels were in plain view. I counted 5 guys looking at me and the heels. Some for awhile, maybe wondering how they looked..... Women just smiled at me. But the guys just looked. Now, I know I can were anything and know one will care or say anything. I actually am hoping someone will say something, so I can at least talk to them. It's fun though, and I enjoyed my time out. 6 hours in high heels, stilletto heel, and pointy toe. AWESOME!!! Now, I must shop to buy more shoes, cause I got to get ready for spring, and summer..... Enjoy yourself people, it's fun and rewarding. Now, you don't to spend money on shoes and just leave them at home. Use them for what they are intended for........WALKING......HAHAHA... Latindancer

I'm with you on your response. I just went out today with stilletto heels on. One of my favorite boots. I decided to do this to see what peoples response will be of the shoes, if any. These boots are shiny black so they really were noticable. I was wearing long straight leg jean, and most of the heel was covered. Well, I heard about everyone saying that the bookstores where easy to do. I went to Barnes and Noble and well nothing. I saw people noticing but nothing. I then went out to Payless which was next door and looked at other boots. The cool things was a mother and a young daugther was trying on stiletto boots and they saw mind. I just smile at them and nothing was said. I wanted to give them my opinion on the boots they were trying on cause the girl just didn't know which ones she wanted. After that, I decided to become braver. I went to a DSW. That place was full with people. I said screw it and decided to try on some other boots, sandals, and pumps. No one said anything. I was getting upset. So, a lady walked past me as I took my boots off and I decided to tell her that I like her boots. She said thank you, and we talked about her dog that she was carrying around. Guys, girl, little kids, teens all saw me in my boots and trying things on and nothing!!!! Just like you I felt like a ghost!!! Do anyone care!!!! Oh well. I said I will never walk around the mall in complete daylight but I said screw it and went inside. Mall was full and I just enjoyed myself. I finally saw people looking down at my boots, this time a lot of the stiletto was showing due to me lifting my jeans more, but nothing. I went to Bakers and the show clerk looked down at my boots and smiled and said if I needed any help just to ask her. The funny thing was that there was this guy who couldn't stop looking at my boots. I enjoyed that!!!! He was basically in shock. Oh, I went into Macy's and there was this fine woman. I'm talking hot as hot can be. She also saw my boots and heels and smiled at me. I wanted to go over and tell her how hot she was but chickened out. Maybe next time. I think I will just wear what I want. I have a lot of stilletto boots and now I know that most do care. Everyone just do it and enjoy your heeling. It's not that bad. Next it's walmart, with very loud stillettos..... Still scared, just a little...

Well, I just want to say that today I went out heeling for at least a couple of hours. I was wearing brown boots that have a square toe and heels at least 2.5". From the side the heels look like stilettoes but from the back they look like square. Well, first I went to taco bell to get some food. I just walked right in, ordered and sat down. I know some of them noticed but they didn't say anything. After that believe it but I went inside JCPenny and just walked around. At first, I tried to stay away from the aisle due to the noise the heels were making, but nothing. I even went up an escalator and nothing. I noticed a couple of guys looking when they heard the sound but nothing. After a while I started to see if anyone will say anything, so I decided to walk the aisle. My heels were clicking loud, but nothing. One women did see and just smile and giggled softly. I was starting to wonder if anyone was going to say anything, so I started clicking louder and still nothing. Wow!!!! I took it to the next level, I left JCPenny and went to another store. I went to TJMax. As everyone know there is no carpets there. I just walked around making my clicking sound. Some peeked but nothing. I even walked next to a women that had a nice heel boot, and clicked along with her. I was getting upset a little that I decided to lift my pants up a little to make the heel more noticeable. Stayed there for a while and still nothing. Some guys looked and just kept going without a look or a thought. Not even a second take. Trust me when I say that the heels make my feet look small, and very noticable a woman's shoe. After that, Starbucks. The girls inside noticed my boots and did the double take. I had to wait for my coffee, but she was still nice about the whole situation. I sat down, and everyone knows that you can see the whole shoe and heel but nothing. Again, wow!!! Talk about not caring. I was going to ask her if she noticed and see what her response were but decided not too. I think next time I am going out in my stilettoe boots that are real noticeable plus a pointed toe, just to see peoples reaction. Trust me people just do it and don't worry about it!!! I'm starting to have fun and thinking about the possiblities of being able to wear what I want. It's going to be a great and exciting life from now on. Cheers!!!!!!

No, I'm new to the area so I haven't been to Louie's. I'm just trying to learn this area though.

I'm from the Naperville/Aurora area. I hope I will be able to see you shopping therefore, I can ask a whole lot of questions.

I know a lot of you guys are from outside of the USA, but I was wondering about peoples experience going out in heels in America. What locations, places, towns? Reactions? What you were wearing? I just don't see myself going out in slingback or sandles with stilletoe heels, that will be very obvious. If you had though, tell me your experience and what happened. Maybe I will have the courage to do it then.

I just want to thank everyone on this site. I have always worn heels at home and so frustrated that I couldn't wear them out. It wasn't till this site that I had the courage to go out in them. I currently live outside the Chicago, USA area and it was very hard to even think about going out in heels. Well, I got the courage and started doing it. First, it was to the car, then to the mailbox. After that it was going out at night, driving around. But just like everyone in this site, I went for it. I first went out wearing clunky 3.5in boots. I was so scared because of the sound they make, but I got the courage and went into Blockbusters. I know that the guys there noticed the heels but like everyone says, no one said anything. I even had a conversation with one of the guys about movies(all the time him looking down at my heels). Oh, the heels where square too, so it was hard to tell the difference, and well hidden from the jeans. After that day, I decided to go with them in the afternoon to Kolh's. I walked around. Went around women that were wearing heels, because as a lot of people know they will also look down to see what shoes they someone is wearing. Well, nothing happened, no comments, no looks, it was great!!!!! I just came from going out in 3 inch stilletoe boots, patent black. I just didn't care. Went to a coffee shop, and I heard comments, like wow!! and whispers of he's wearing heals but nothing. I sat down, had coffee and enjoyed a bagel. Again, nothing. I went back this time to the Blockbuster and this time I know that the guys saw my heels. I heard them laugh, but I didn't care. When i went to pay for my new movie, it was professional as always. He was a little flustered though, cause he couldn't think of what to say, at the same time him taking peeks at my boots. There was also another guy who just keep looking at my boots and didn't say a word. Awesome!!! I'm still scared about going to malls, and bookstores cause of the amount of people but I think I will eventually do it. It was the best time. So, again thank you for the motivation, the help and giving me the cojones to do this. Now, I can wear my heels and enjoy myself.