latindancer

I like pantyhose with everything skirts, jeans and pants. I like the feel and also the clean leg shave.

Just wanted to tell everyone about my heeling out experience today. I was wearing my thin straight leg jeans and my 3.5" stilletoe heel boots. I went everywhere. Many people looked but no reaction. Well, there were reactions like a lot of guys stop and stared. I didn't care though. It's amazing that if you don't care then it's no big deal. At the mall, I went all over and I didn't look around wondering if anyone noticed. It was also fun going into Bakers and trying on shoes. The sale person was very helpful, to bad the shoes I wanted was not available in my size. Oh, well. It was so fun that at night, I put on my jean skirt and went out. I went to Donkin Donuts and had a coffee. It was very cold though in order to wear a skirt, but I thinking of doing it more and more. I love my legs though, especially with hose. Have a nice day.

SandalFan - Just to tell you, I go out in stilletoe everyday. No, they are not greater than 4" but I still go out in stilettoes. If you want to read my thread, then go ahead, it's the "My heeling out experience". It's fun, and looks better than block heels. My heels average 3.5". Latindancer

One more thing. I was told that if I dressed in drag then it wouldn't be a big deal. It's funny that I can wear complete drag and nothing, but it's different when just wearing a skirt and heels. Hope you guys use this for what it's worth. If you want to wear everything enfemme, then go right ahead and do it. Most people are won't care. Latindancer

BillyB - All I can say is that I am honored that you got your inspiration from me, but understand that your story give me the inspiration to continue, so thank you for being yourself..... I just want to say that it was this site that gave me the inspiration to do what I want, and to wear the heels. I am also glad that your first time was a positive one. You actually got women to ask you a question, I have not had that happen yet. It's great and congratulation. It's great that we now have another person who can do what he wants. BillyB, pretty soon you will be the one giving inspirations to the next people who want to wear what they want. Fun fun and enjoy yourself. Like you said, if you don't care then it's no big deal. I just want to tell everyone else about my night. I went out in my skirt and knee high boots, plus my black stockings. I went into the Barnes and Noble and no reactions from anyone. I started asking people questions about my dress and most just said to do whatever you want to do. It's funny cause as soon as people heard me talking to others, then that's when most of the reactions comes out. I then went into Walmart. Talk about waiting for a couple of minutes to get the strength to go inside. Well, I walked around the store and a lot of people didn't give me a response. A couple of people looked and continue to look but other than that nothing. If it wasn't for me asking people questions then it would've been no big deal. Everyone just left me alone without any reactions. It was amazing. Once they knew that I was asking questions, that's when the laughs started coming out. From my night, I can that most people will not care about what you wear. They will also not give you a reaction to our face, they will only do it away from you in order to be polite. They do have opinions and most are that it's weird and funny but they will not do it in front of you. Hope this helps out. Just do it and enjoy your heeling and dressing. It's fun. Oh, and a lot of women understand about mens clothes and how they are uncomfortable, plus they understand that they have such huge options. They wouldn't mind guys wearing whatever but they are just not use to it. If us guys start wearing what we want then most people will become desensitized about the whole situation. People, just do it and have fun. If it takes you wearing your heels under your jeans, then do it. Understand women will notice. Put just do it and enjoy. BillyB did it and left with a smile. Have a nice night. Latindancer

loswab- I'm glad that you had a wonderful time with your stilletoes. I have to admit that it's the only heel I enjoy going out in. Keep having fun. Everyone else, thank you for the comments. It's this site and people like you that makes me keep going out like I want too. I hope that one day everyone else reading this will do the same, without having to get dressed in total femme, unless you want too.......

I have a question for everyone. Should I be concern that I have been complimented that I have better looking legs then some women? I enjoy the compliment tremendously, but I'm a guy. What's your take?

Just went out again with a skirt and my 3" high heel boots. I went into a Barnes and Noble, and it had a lot of people. For the first 10 minutes, no one said anything. I went in, walked around and nothing. I saw people looking, did a double take, and nothing. It was great. After a while I decided to ask questions to people. Mostly I got was that if you wanted to go out like that then go ahead. "Do you own thing" was what I got out of a lot of them. I did get nice legs from a lot of women, and a lot of them stated that they loved my boots. Even guys said, if it was for your bald head, then I would've thought female. Loved that!!! Have a nice night. Latindancer

YES!!!!!!! I was just at the Barnes and Noble, with a skirt and stocking, plus my stilletoe boots. I was talking with this guy cause I was asking question when all of sudden a guy looked at me and said "nice boots". I was surprise, and said thank you. Plus, he said he understands about the skirt cause he wears a kilt, therefore, they are more comfortable. GREAT!!!!

Just wanted to inform you on my day today. I went out in my new skinny jeans in which are short also. I put on my new stilleto square toe heels. I first went into a Kolhs and tried on some Vera Wang boots. Wow, where they nice. I even put the boots on the outside of the jeans and walked around the Kolhs, basically no reaction from anyone. I was a little concern cause I never did that before but it was pretty fun actually. I also have to save that they looked good. If it wasn't for the price, I probably would've bought them, and worn them out. After that, went to DSW. I have to say that it was full of people. I guess that they were having a major sale. Well, I went there and walked the whole store. I even tried on some awesome shoes. This is a DSW that has $600 boots, and $500 pumps. I tried on over 20 pairs of shoes and basically got 3 major looks. One from a 13 years old and mother, and the rest were women who didn't do anything at first but when they thought I wasn't looking they started laughing. Of course, I asked them questions and they just said that it was different and weird seeing a man in heels. Especially, man on the top and female from the waist done. It was weird. It also seems that if I was in drag then it wouldn't of been that bad. It seems like that's more accepting then just a guy wearing whatever he wanted. A lof of the other people that I talked too, basically said that do what you want, if that's what you want to do then go for it, it's no big deal. That was refreshing. It was a fun day today. GO PATS!!!!!!! Everyone have a nice day.

Well, today I went out in my brown boots, womens jean that had a nice flare at the bottom. I have to say that everyone knew that I was wearing women's clothes and from there they saw my heels cause they are point toe, and makes a lot of noise. I went to Starbucks and just stayed there, had coffee and read my book. I then went into Walmart. Walked the whole store. Many people looked, most did a look and just kept going. No, facial expressions, nothing. It was great. I feel really comfortable with what I'm wearing. I hope everyone is having fun.

Name: Alex

Age: 33

Gender: Male

Location: Chicago, IL

Occupation: Management, Engineer

Height: 5'9"

Weight: 195 lbs

Shoe size: US11

What's your favourite heel style: stilleto

What's your favourite shoe style: boots, sandles, pumps

Do you wear your heels outside: yes I wear my "women's shoes" outside

What is:

(a) Your favourite heel height: 4"

( Your highest heel height: 5""

How often do you wear:

(a) Your favourite heel height: daily if not then every other day

( Your highest heel height: rarely but weekly to keep up

Do you wear socks, hose, stockings or bare feet with your shoes: socks, hose, stocking and bare, whatever I feel like

Anything else you wish to add: I'm a crossdresser but am getting into going out in heels, skirts, and hose. Therefore....

I just want to post something that I have noticed. After last night when I went out in a skirt, stocking, and boots, I feel like going out in heels is no big deal. I think we put to much into what we wear and how people think about what we do. We care about people thinking to much that we lose our masculinity. I just want to say that I'm proud to be a man!! I'm also proud to wear what I want. Heels are no big deal. Hopefully after going out in a skirt more I can say the same thing. I just went out in long woman's jean, that makes my legs look skinny. I had my Naturalizer boots on, and I had a nice night. I didn't try to hide anything and people noticed without any comments. I even sat down and had my heels in the air next to chairs, and people sat right next to me. I know that they kept looking at my heels and me but I didn't care. I felt normal and felt great to be out that way. Have fun people are be yourselves, that is all I can say. If your a heeler then wear your heels with pride..... Have a nice night!!!

highheelover- Thanks about the legs and heel comment. I too think I have nice legs, my wife/exwife to be always said I had nice legs. johnieheel- I too will think it will lots of fun, just tell me when your here and we'll see if we can get together. I appreciate the comments everyone, keep them coming. I plan to do this more. I just need the guts to keep doing it. I love the outfits though and they make me fell right.

I believe in some aspect it's true. I wear clothes and heels and I do wonder what it's like to be a woman. Sometimes I wish I was a woman cause I can wear what I want without everyone giving second looks. I'm jealous of them cause of the options that they have. I look at a woman and wonder why most don't dress up. It's an amazing experience when you look at a woman who takes her time to look good, and wearing heels. They produce the sense of confidence, sexuality, and passion, that I will love to feel. Therfore, when I were heels I feel the same way, except I'm in jeans, and they are in skirts, jeans, shorts, etc, etc..... I hate that!!!!!! I wish one day I can do the same without discrimination. Therefore, yes I wear my clothes and heels to fell like a woman, but don't get me wrong, I love being a man! Just once in a while it wouldn't hurt to be a woman.

My wife/ex-wife to be approved of me wearing whatever I wanted, as long as it was at home. She even helped out with helping me buy my clothes and shoes. She even one New years got me dressed up enfemme, nice black dress(complete dress), and she did the same thing. She looked beautiful and I looked great and felt great. It was the best New Years we had as a couple. Now, that we are divorcing, I wish I can find someone just like her. We are still friends though, and I have told her about my heeling out. She even said that if we were still married that she would've supported that as well. Oh well, She was a good woman, but a lousy wife. It's going to be hard to replace her, especially with my heeling/dressing situation.

Hey everyone, just wanted to tell you about my new adventure!!!!!! WOW!!!! Talk about freakin out and talk about having my heart come out of my chest. I decided to go one step further tonight. I really wanted to go out as I really felt. We today I went out like the pictures below. I wanted to go out in my new nine west stilletoe black pumps 3.5" heels but it was to cold and I was scared as hell. Therefore I went out in my new skirt, thigh high stockings, and my Naturalizer boots!! Just wanted to tell you that I do shave my legs therefore, it's an added view. I knew I was going to get a lot of reaction from this. First, I went to the gas station. I force myself by doing this cause my car was already getting the low gas alarm, therefore, I had to go out like this out run out of gas and deal with others. Filled my car without any problems, other than being scared. Then I went into Starbucks. I stayed in my car probably for 5 minutes until I just said screw it. I went in, order my coffee, and sat down. Well, I heard laughing, and decided to ask them questions. Understand, I told them it was an experiment and I wanted to see peoples reactions. I talked to a male and female and asked them this: (male/female)age 20/18 thought? curious why. okay!!! never seen that. others in the store (female/male/male/male)ages 17/18/21/18 -basically all didn't react just said if I wanted to do it them okay. -older guy thought I was a crossdresser but couldn't understand why I wasn't in makeup and wig. Here's a great one! (female/female)ages 59/37 Christians!!!!!!!!! -59 year old women said do your own thing, but also said that it's takes a brave man to wear what I wore. Plus, she said that I walked in there very assure of myself and that made my appearance no big deal. -57 year old thought I needed help, due to being a major Christian, but said do your own thing. -Both agreed that as long as you don't violate their space then it's okay. I received excellent comments along the way. I got complimented on my boots. One worker thought they were my wifes, I told her that they were mine, and that I enjoy wearing them.. I love the feeling of my outfit, especially the black shear stocking that I needed batteries for my digital camera, therefore I went into a grocery store. Well, I heard close to 3 people laughing. Therefore, I went to talk to them. Once I went to talk to them I got up to 5 people that I was talking to. All female from 18 to 25, one male 18. Most just said that it was a shock cause I had a female bottom and a male top look. The guy and a female friend, left their car running to chase me to see me walk....... HAHAHAHa!!!!! The great thing was at least 5 females told me that they wish they can walk in the heels I was wearing and complemented me on my walk. I love those comments. I just wish I didn't have to go to them to talk to them, I wish they will just come to me and say something. I did get a lot of looks while I was talking to the five. Comments? How does my outfit look? Legs? Hope you like the pictures and the adventure. I think I will do this again, but I know I have to get that strength back again. Have a nice night.

Well, today I went out in women jeans, skinny jeans today, with one of my new pumps today. I started out at 10 in the morning and basically went everywhere. I went to a thift store, walmart, Kolhs, k-mart, DSW, outlet stores, and Salvation Army store. My jeans didn't cover anything. I was also wearing black nylons and have my toenails painted. At Kohl's I was trying some new pep toes shoes. As I was changing from my heels to the new one, and great looking female saw me and looked at my feet and basically new what I was wearing. I looked at her and she gave me a nice smile. I enjoyed that tremendously. I also got another great smile from another female at the store. To bad each one of them were married. At DSW, I was looking at the clearance aisle, and this female looked at my feet, and she said. "Isn't it hard to find cute and nice heels in big sizes". Also with a smile. I tried on a Stilletoe patent leather red pumps, and she said that she like the look. She even told me were I can find some heels in my size in downtown Chicago. After talking to her, I found out that the place was in the gay part of the city, and I told her I wasn't gay. She apologized and didn't imply that I was. Plus, she gave me a good comment stating that it took guts for a guy to go out in heels. At the outlet store, I was at Nine West, and bought some nice pumps and another black boots that were on sale. No problem with the sale associates and they even gave me a good conversation. Basically they say that they are use to it and that one time a married couple went in and wanted to buy matching boots together.... Therefore, they just enjoyed me trying on the shoes and watching me walking around. I walked the whole outlet and not one person said anything. One guy sitting on the bench, looked at me and then just couldn't take his eyes off my pumps. The funny thing was that I was walking with the Nine West bags. Therefore, a clear indication that they were for me... Overall, it was a good day, but my feet are killing me. I have to admit that going for the good brand shoes will prevent you from having killing feet. Cheap shoes are going to make you pay for it. Therefore, if you guys don't want hurting feet, then buy brand shoes. That's my recommendation. Everyone have a good day.

Max, Amazing looks!!! I wish I have to guts to go out in a skirt. Maybe one day I will do the same thing as you, just a skirt and no heels. Congrats on having the guts to tell your family and doing what you really want to wear. Enjoy and hope to hear other comments you get from wearing a skirt and heels. Latindancer

shoeiee, Thanks for the comments. I'm truly enjoying myself, and I know that I can wear what I want. I just have to have the guts to do it. I'm getting stonger and stronger everyday I do this. The confidence just have to start when I get out of the car. tallguyinheels, I actually think that the comments you put was a good comments. Yes, the face showed disapproval, but she did say that you can wear whatever you wanted. Let her be upset that you are wearing something that she uses as a tool for height. I have to say that I hope this thread is helping those guys that are scared of going out, it takes a big step and the first time is the hardest. Once you do it, you won't stop. Everyone have a nice weekend. I'm back at work therefore, I will not have a lot of time heeling but when I do, I will post other comments and results. Latindancer

Hello and welcome from Chicago!!

radiodave-no I haven't worn my sandals out. It's currently 0 degrees here in Chicago and I have just started wearing my high stilletoe heels out in the last couple of months. I want to though, especially to a dance club. I'm sure to get a lot of comments and looks there..... Well, I basically was in my high heel boots the whole day. I just went to another mall. Wanted to go the New York & Comp store to try on some new pants, put there wasn't a good sale good enough for me to try that. As I was walking by making a lot of noise. I saw a kid totally freak out at me wearing heels. He told his mother and father. The cool things was that once he started laughing, his mother said that he needed to be more accepting. Plus, there were looking for shoes and I heard the mother say "Maybe we should buy you some to see if you like it". Another black family totally freak out while walking in the mall. The kids just couldn't believe it. I heard them laugh out loud and they actually followed me probably 300 feet. I turned around to go talk to them, but 3 kids probably 10 to 15 years old ran away. The only one that stayed answered a couple of questions. Why are you laughing? -Never saw a man in heels before? Why were you chasing me? -To get a picture. What was your first thought? -Wow, thats funny. Do you see difference as funny or strange? -I see it as funny. Basically the conversation went this way. I think I offended the person cause it could've been a women but it looked like a guy. In there late teens. I'm still not sure on that one. I did get one good comment from this person though. Will, I asked why they chase me. This person said, "I couldn't believe that you walk better in heels then some women". Wow!!!! I love that one. Overall, it was fun. I thinking of going to a Salsa club to go dancing and thinking of wearing pumps for the first time. I will inform you of what happens, maybe I will get as lucky as highheels!!!! later

Well, today I went out with my new boots from the previous post. I believe they are 4", well and I also went out in my new khaki demi fit "Limited" pants on. I went to a DSW, and walked around. No comments and no looks. Therefore, my curiousity came out. I asked a DSW employee 37 year old male, middle eastern who did noticed my boots some questions. Did you noticed? Yes First thought? Nothing, just interested in seeing a man in high heels, never saw that before. Anything wrong with that? No, people are allow to do what they want to do. Did you think "gay". No, maybe crossdresser. Next, DSW employee, girl 23, white, cute also. Did you noticed? -No (that was a shocker) First thought? -Cool, and interested new experience. Did you think gay. -No, just crossdresser. Supposedly a lot of transgender or crossdresser frequesnt this DSW. Will you date a guy in heels? -No, I'm close-minded about that. A guy can wear what he wants but I wouldn't like to introduce a friend to him if he's wearing heels better than me. Next a mother and daugther. Mother around 40, daughter 20, white, and I did this after trying on some $300 black leather 4" pumps and walking around in them. I have to admit, that if I had the money I would've bought them right there, boy were they comfortable. Did you noticed? (Mother then daughter for answers) -Yes, No I was concentrating on my own buy. (Both did say that the boots looked made for a man, therefore if I wanted to be looked at and noticed that I should wear sandels, pink, white or something with lace.) I added the boots again to the bottom. First thought? -None, None Did you think gay after that? -No, No Why no thought or comment? -A man should wear what he wants, if he's happy with that then go ahead and enjoy. Daughter basically the same. Did you think it was weird of a guy trying on the shoes here? -Yes, mostly I thought you would buy them and they later wear them, for the sake of being scared. Didn't care I was concentrating on buying my new shoes. Overall and interesting experience. Went to the mall and a few looks but overall nothing. I even went to the Limited there and the manager noticed and all she asked was if I needed any help. I said no, just looking for a good deal and buy. I'm sure she new my pants and shoes were women. I'm planning to go out more

Hey everyone, just wanted to ask how everyone likes my avatar. I finally decided to get one and I think it looks good. So hers the question. Is it me? Yes, it's me!!! I personally think it looks good. I think maybe red nail polish would of made it better though. What do you guys think? Bootking - The boots are shiny leather. They feel great and look great. The only problem is Chicago, and all the salt build up so I have to clean them as much as I can. Oh, and yes my favorite heel is stilletoe. I think nothing is better then a stilleto heel.

Yes, it's me.