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Wow Jeff!!! I haven't been on for a while, but I still love reading your Jaunts. Makes me want to smile. Keep up the good work and be happy with who you are. Congrats on having the courage to be feel to wear what you want. Latindancer

I offer you, your wife and your son my most sincere apologies. After your long flight to visit the new JC Penny in the heart of Appalachia, my not offering you genuine welcome and hospitality is utterly shameful. I hope you let your son know that all men wearing great boots are not as boorish as I. I promise to do better the next time we see each other. Maybe at the new Target when it opens....

Jeff Good job, my friend. Your outfit looks excellent. About the cold, you'll get use to it. I guess you took my "wear a shorter skirt" literary. Hahaha Wearing a skirt is fun, isn't it. Plus the heels to boot!!!!!! Good job. Latindancer

If you want to wear whatever you want. Then a bookstore will do. You can be a guy in a dress and no one will do and say anything. It's the best place to start the day and get confidence for the rest of the day.

hahahahaha.....LOL

Maybe a shorter skirt!!!! LOL Latindancer

Hey JeffB, Skirt again!!!! heheehe, glad your enjoying yourself. Keep it up. Great outing. LD

Hey Happyfeat, great outing and good for you. I'm glad you are enjoying yourself and being able to be who and what you want to be. Keep it up. Latindancer

While I was in Hampton Roads Virginia. I decided to wear a skirt and heels. This time since it was cold I was wearing white stockings to go with it. I started at a Barnes and Noble cause they seen to be very accepting of anything. I walked the whole store and people would look and that was it. After that I went out and around the city. I stopped at a Sears were the first 2 pictures were taken. Most of the store was shocked but after that no big deal. A lot of the woman that worked there followed me around to see what I was doing. Next it was Rainbows, a store that use to have a lot of nice womens clothes but now are moving over to everyones clothes. It was a fun outing. Target, Walmart, and other places. Overall, no big deal. Latin dancer

Sorry, subway picture to big.

Here's some New York Pictures: First picture: Me in the subway with my heels very noticeable. Second picture: Me having my picture with New Yorks skyline at the statue of liberty island. Third picture: Me prior to going on the ship to go to the statue of liberty. It's a WW2 memorial. Fourth picture: Me at Time Square. Again New York, if your not wearing your heels and you want to, then you are missing out. No reactions and no one cares. Latindancer

Happyfeat, very impressive. I am very impressed. Nice color on you toes. I especially like the cajones you had to wear sandals out with color on toes. All I like to say is "NICE". LD

Got me these at the Off Broadway Warehouse Outlet at the Potomac Mills Mall in Washington, DC. So many good deals and special but only got these. http://www.dsw.com/dsw_shoes/catalog/product.jsp?index=12&category=&prodId=179571&brand=300183

They feel great.

Latindancer

Last Thursday was a great day. I was with my niece in New York City. My niece knows about my CDing and heeling(she's a member of this site). Well, I wanted to be a tourist in the city so, I asked her to show my around. I haven't been in the city since 1992. Well, lets just say that I told her I was going to wear my brown 3.5" thick heel brown knee high boots. Overall, nothing. I was everywhere in the city. We went to time square, where the twin towers where, the statue of liberty, rockefeller center, and other places, and no comments. I did get a ton of double looks, and while I was on the boat to the statue of liberty, everyone in the boat noticed my boots. Many tried to hide the fact that they where trying to take pictures of me in my boots. I just lifted my pants leg and let them do it. I noticed that most where embarrassed when I caught them. Overall, it was a fun day. 12 hours in high heels and boots to boot. If you are in New York City and you don't heel, then there is a problem with you. New York has seen everything and it's no big deal. Trust me when I say it's no big deal

Well, let me keep people up to date of what's going on. Last Monday, I had a hiring conference in Norfolk, Virginia. After, the conference, and interviews. I decided to go out. Just want everyone to know that I decided to CD for the first time in a long while. I was wearing my 3.5" brown knee high boots, skirt and other stuff. Well, I know I'm partial passable, but with the wig, it made it more noticable if you really look at the face. Well, I didn't care. I wanted to go out and enjoy myself. Well, I went JCPenny, saw a movie, and did other shopping(Target and Walmart). Overall, no one cared or said anything. It was a good outing. The day before I did go out in for a least a couple hours in a skirt and heels without no one caring, no makeup or wig. The boots were my 3.5" black Naturalizer boots that I constantly wear. I went to a Barnes and Noble and then later to another JCPenney and no comments and no responses.

I will be in Hampton Roads Virginia for a hiring conference Sat to Tuesday next week. If anyone wants to get together just PM me. After that I will on the move on Wednesday to RI. If anyone wants to get together around Washington, DC on Wed afternoon, lets do it. Maybe Potomac Mills. After that I will be in NJ for a day and then RI. Again, anyone interested just say so. latindancer

If he wasn't gay, then his mannerism sure needs to be helped. I also heard him talk and again, if he's not gay then he needs help. Talk, mannerism and style to go with that. GAY!!!!! I was in the military and trust me I got taught how to figure out gays by gay guys. It's not that hard, when the mannerism are there. The hard gay ones are the ones that are macho, talk like a man, acts like a man, even talk about women as a normal guy, but are gay. Those are the hard ones to figure out. Those are the ones you say "What?", but the others are very noticeable and easy to figure out. He wasn't security. I saw security when walking around. Big guy and all he do was look and that was it. Security was mostly close to the electronics section.

Congrats!!!! It only get more exciting after this. Each time it's a heart pounder but it gets better. Like you said you were bummed when she didn't noticed. Well you are going to be dissappointed a lot cause you'll figure out a lot don't care. Congrats again and keep heeling!!! Latindancer

Well, today for at least 4 hours did the same as last time. I went into Sears of Eagle Ridge Mall, with skinny ladies jeans, grey long sleeve knit style shirt, and 4" open toe pumps. I was a little self conscious cause I never worn open toe pumps before, so I went in(carry a bag with a skirt). As I walked in people looked but nothing. Got outfits as normal and went to the fitting room. ONce done trying on the clothes, I decided to wear my skirt. It's the same one as last time. I started walking around Sears. This time a lot of people looked, no reaction, other than bigger eyes. I really didn't care though. I went to get some intimates and a gay guy was there doing price checking. He looked at my outfit and I can tell he was shocked but no facial reaction. Well, while I was moving around the area, he was there. I go to womens section, he was at the checkout area. Telling the cash registers probably. I go to the shoe area, he's there. I go to the mens section(where the fitting room was at), try on clothes, and when I got out, there he was price checking right there. He saw me placing all the womens clothes back. When I was putting the womans clothes back on the racks he was around the area. Everytime I walked by him, he would look down on my feet, and legs. Other than that, no one else gave me any responses that I cared about. Customers, nothing. I was just a guy in skirt and heels. I even left the store like that. Now, picture this. It was pouring out. Raining cats and dogs and I was at the entrance of Sears waiting for it to dy down, but it didn't. People can in, looked and no reaction. Finally, her's the good part. I decide to leave. I tried to run in my heels....hahahah...short steps, very feminine, but I couldn't do it for that long. Finally I started taking quicker short steps to get to my car. I think the best part of the day was the last. Running in heels was a blast. Plus, getting my toes wet due to open toe pumps...hehehe Wow!! Awesome time. Picture later. Latindancer

What's for the future? I don't know. Maybe wear my sandals out. I need the balls to do that, or open toe pumps. I really would like to spend a day wearing the skirt/pumps/hose for the whole day. I am getting know in one store, so I think me wearing a skirt there would've been no big deal. As I walked in I got asked if I found any of the makeup I wanted(I asked about a good foundation for me, told Dermablend). She was referring to me. She looked down as I was wearing my round toe 4" pumps. Right now, I just want to try on clothes. I want to see what will look good on me. Also, maybe wear my boots outside the jeans, but like everyone said that I have to coordinate my outfit for that. The world is my canvass and I have plenty of paints that I can use on it......so to speak.... The adventures will continue.... I am going to a hiring conference in Virginia and after that to Rhode Island to see a lot of my high school friends. So, a lot of time for heeling in other places. So, if anyone is hampton roads wants to get together, or somewhere along the 95, just PM me. Latindancer

Wow, I just looked at the number of people who viewed this thread over 12000. It's amazing. Hopefully, I helped some people to be themselves and do what they always wanted to do. HHDude- You already have experienced going out. I can understand the being young thing. I can't even image being 17 and going out in heels and trying to score a girl. Just understand that if you do, then the girl will know. Unlike you, we are already in our 30/40/50 and it's a lot harder to find someone. You still have the benefit of time. Experience and confidence comes from within. Once you have already done it, then it should be easy. I am not going to lie that there are days I chicken out, cause there are plenty of them. I just get the confidence when I do it and nothing happens, after that it's fun from there. Most of my confidence comes from curiosity. I am curious of why no one is saying nothing or doing nothing(not complaining), but I have an iquisitive mind. I'm curious, and I would like to know why. That's why even to this day, I will ask people why no response. Times are changing and people are being more accepting of letting people be. The ones that are not are just closed off or haven't experience life to what it could be. Keep heeling and eventually that confidence will build and then you will be able to do what ever you want when it comes to wearing what you want. Enjoy, relax, have fun and live life as you seen will make you happy. I know what I am doing is making me happy, therefore, I will continue to do it. Happiness will bring peace, and peace will bring that confidence everyone wants. Latindancer

Great outing. I just recently went into a Home Depot myself. It was nice hearing my heels on the cement floor. Everyone saw, no comments. A lot of smiles though. Latindancer

Yes!!!!!!!! Awesome Happyfeet!!!!! I must admit, that outfit was killer. I must give you congratulation on your outing. Amazing!!!! It's always fun to read someone else doing what they feel like doing when it comes with clothing. Isn't it amazing. I bet with the first time out in the car you must've looked around at people to see their reactions. You must've been a little shocked that no one, not no one did anything or say anything. After that, your confidence must of built to a point of ellation. Saying stuff like, "Is this really happening?, People are not saying anything, or doing anything?" Then you probably was asking why? Then nothing. Walking as though you were walking in regular attire. It's fun isn't it. I have to agree with you Happyfeet. You get more reaction when you are trying to hide the heels instead of showing them completely. It's a complete reverse. It looks like people see you completely in heels and they say "ok, cool, or oh well", but when you are hiding them then it's look at that. I'm glad you had an excellent outing. Now you will want to do it more. Outstanding. Latindancer

roniheels, Awesome!!! A compliment from a man and a woman. I would say to the man, if he wish, then he just do it. Awesome. Good job and keep up the good work. Latindancer.

Well, today was an excellent day. Let me explain why. I did my normal. I took my son to school and decided to go to the Eagle Ridge Mall today to try on some outfits. I have to admit that white dresses are just beautiful. Well, while trying on outfit, I had this very nice skirt on. My heels are rooking by the way. 4" stilletoe round toe black pumps. Very nice and the feel was excellent. With the skirt, I decided to go out of the fitting room and try to find another top that will match the skirt. Just like I did in JCPenney. I first did it and no reaction. Scared as heel, and heart pounding but went and did it. Stepped out of the dressing room and slowly went to the womens area. Then did it again and no reaction. Finally I started going farther from the dressing room and no reaction. People saw me and some you can see eyes getting bigger but that was all. Finally when I was done trying on outfits. I decided to wear my jeans skirt and heels out of the dressing room. I put everything else I wore in, in my bag and started walking around Dillards. Heart pounding cause this was my own clothes. No reaction. Went to makeup department and asked a couple question. You can tell that they knew who it was for... great. I looked at the rest of the mall. I was getting scared to walk down the mall(funny huh, especially since I was walking like that in the department store),finally said what the hell and decided to enter the mall. I was conscious of my surrounding. I can hear the heels clicking, clicking, and clacking along. I can feet my shaved legs along the skirt but I Walked the mall. I was a little nervous but after no response from anyone, I walked with confidence. I did hear one guy say, "That's sick" but oh well, your sick. I went in a Lane Bryant, and was asked if there was anything I needed help with and try on. Again, they knew for who it was for..... awesome. I went into JCPenney and nothing. I walked back through the mall and nothing. I took a couple of pictures and videos. Once back at Dillards, I was going to change back into my jeans but decided against it. I left the store as is. To my car, and changed my shoes. I was getting tired of the heels cause they were eating at my heel area. NOw I know that I must wear stocking/hose with these heels. Changed into my boots 3.5" black knee high, and went back into JCPenney to walk around. This time I was looking for response. By some miracle it looked like everyone in the mall decided to go into JCPenney. I walked around and nothing, just a guy in skirt and heels. I finally asked a worker at the store to take a picture of me and she said that someone else wanted to take a picture. A guy came around and I let him take it. 12 people were around and finally was asked why I was wearing what I was wearing. I told them first I like too, and next I wanted to see peoples reaction to what I was wearing. Overall, great day. Got complimented on my legs by 2 old ladies. Got told that a skirt is no big deal by other ladies(asked what was under mines....Hahaha), heels was other thing though. Got told by another lady that I had no butt(true). Oh well, can't win them all. Hope you like the pictures. The first picture is what I looked like when I walked around the mall and Dillards(first time), jeans skirt knee lenght, and VS(not Victoria Secret) 4" stilletoe black round toe pumps. The next picture is me at JCPenney when I change to my knee high boots. The third picture is me from a mirror of what I was wearing the first time out of the dressing room. Black skirt and the round toe heels. Loved every minute of it. I will do this again.