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well at the one stage was following this thread, then lost track of it and just re-read the whole thread!!! hope, I dont loose the points that came to mind while reading!! 1st, to the original ques well sure some will do, however due to stereo types, sure most have not even given it any though, however once faced with a man in heels, most accep,, from my experience so far, once faced with the reality and the situation and the realaty of the mater that it is after all just heels, again a MAN in heels, most accept!!! hence have also not voted, and if pushed to vote would most likely vote no!! many men see the heels as fetish, or part fetish part fashion, or even part statement, woman dont see heels quiet in the same light!! at least most!! now for men in stilettos, is that not also just another type of stereo typing, what one wears should not be the defining point on who we are, should we not have the freedom to wear what we wish???? 1st men get frowned upon for wearing heels, then the issue of pink heels has come up, now from our community we are frowning upon men in stiletto!! a woman/lady in stilettos is a woman in stilettos, again the stereo types that say, she should not be wearing this hell due to what ever reason society has entrenched in us from an early age who are we to criticize, what other wear!! then on a similar note, mens fashion are as mentioned boring, they have not changed much, just another reason/excuse why to hijack the womans wardrobe!! woman after all have been raiding ours for a long time happy heeling happy stiletto heeling!!

well have found a cure!!! yep it all happened this weekend, we did some shoe shopping, and now have two more new pairs!!! so dont stress or get anxiety attacks, there is hope!! feel healed!!!!

well just got a pair very similar to these,they are still a little tight, have started to loosen them a little at home, these are destined to do so heeling outside the house!!

http://www.shoesusa.com/ThumbNail.aspx?file=%7e%2fImages%2fsmall%2fDANA205_2l7x3m9s.jpg

desperately need to take some pics and post my own pics!!

well for various reasons we watch F-tv from time to time and this morning at some party to do with Canes film festival they showed around a dozen men in HH, inc stilettos!! sure it was a party with some 1835 theme!! still we are seeing more and more of men in HH!! may it gather speed at the rate of nots, and become the norm day to day!! just thought would share that here!!

1st things 1st!! just had a quick browse, and thus hope that I did not miss someone else saying the same thing!! the color pink and the famine issue, fall right in the same category as men wearing heel, both are frowned upon!! with all the labels that we all know very well!! where did this whole pick issue come from??? it comes from as far back as the WW2, when Hitler forced all gay people to wear pink, as before this pink was a male color, the sad thing is that it has stuck!! before Hitlers doing blue was a girls color!!! well think to myself, me in pink heels, no way, however it falls in the same type of labeling and narrow mindedness that we are victims of!! would I wear pink heels, well not sure, if I look at it in the same way as I look at heels, it is after all just heels, it does not change what the wearer is!! if one now looks at pink, it is just a color, it does not change what the wearer is!! do I have pink heels, so far not!! would I buy pink heels, possibly!! would I wear them out, again possibly!! not aimed at anyone here, however getting more and more tired of what people have to say or might say, will dress and wear what I want, its me!! after all what I wear on my feet, or what color wear on my feet does not change who I am!! last, have seen some of the most amazing heels in pick, and did not get them due to the ''pink'' issue, and when thinking logically, wish I had!! also fell foul to the pink isssue!!! happy heeling!!

Makes you wonder, doesn't it. That is why they make shoes and boots so that you can change them at will.

Cheers---

Dawn HH

agree 100%

the variety and the choice and ability to change ones mind just before walking out the door!!

agree with the comment, its not a sickness!! besides that!! have tried many times to get heels out of my mind and life, it does not work!! have on more then one occasion, gotten rid of the heels, it did not work!! and thanx to this this place, now have a much better understanding of my self and the heels, and dont think will be attempting that again, now just enjoying it and having fun!!

all great choices!!

great advice,and it has even given me some great ideas!! have again learned something!! however there is still a different approach, that might or might not work!! and not sure if self would do it this way!! jump into the deep end and just go for it, just do/wear what your heard desires!! we are who we are!! think it will make it a lot easier, if the wife/gf goes along and supports the idea!!

have slept while wearing heels, 1st time was a few year ago, enjoyed it, just cant remember any thing else, more recently have done it again, and every time have had great dreams of heeling in public, successfully with no issues!! its great how our minds work!! time to try it again!!

well did not vote as it will change, currently - privacy the whole learning curve of what heels to wear(public and discreet) and thanx to this place have built up the courage!! hopefully soon to change to public heeling soon:smile:

Yea, I've been for a few walks in my wedges however its my stilettos that Ive found it hard, mostly because of that clicking sound that it hard to cover up, totally giving me away a mile before anyone sees me.

yep agree with your concern with the above!!

the solution

Hiline I've been out on few late night walks around here. A while back i didnt get in from work till 3am so i went out for a walk in 4" heels i've been out a few times since but not quite so late. So maybe at night?

until such time as HH become more acceptable!!

good luck!!

Nice shoes. Now, the next step is to get a pair of hose to wear with them. Not only will they enhance the experience of wearing heels, they'll also soften the look of your skin. A pair of nude color sheer kneehighs or stay-ups will do nicely. You'll be surprised at how much pleasure stockings add to the experience.

that is spot on advice there!!

the only thing that I would like to add, is that a black pair of knee highs or stay ups, might also help to hide/disguise/camouflage what type of foot ware is being worn unless someone like us is actually having a look to see if other men are also wearing heels

enjoy your heels!!

welcome!! as for the English dont worry about it!! the main thing is that you share your stories and experiences from here you will get much inspiration and confidence!!

I have tried to put heels away, but after a couple of months I have to wear some, could be for five minutes, but I have to do it, bit like a drug I suppose.

Know one thing I can never give heels up, I think I was born with it.

could not of put it better myself!!

been down that road!!

have now learned that its a part of me, so I now make the best of it and enjoy it!!

hopping to take the next step of public heeling soon!!

often have the same problem, shoe length is right however the straps stop it from fitting properly what does work is walking them at home for a while till they stretch a bit and fit well thats how my favorite pair fits best now

not enough to pay that amount of money!!! In my opinion, one could by many shoes and nicer shoes for that kind of money!! sure one is just paying for the name in that case, surely something very similar could be found for a lot less!!

nope not strange!! very normal in my opinion actually the other way, would find it strange if one did not like to see woman in high heels!!

yes yes yes like them all the 1st two are wow, and would not mind either pair or both! the B&W pic ones are also very nice thanx for the effort:smile:

public heeling - not yet keeps getting put off, however its a mater of time before it happens!! glad the group is growing this side soon it wont be frowned upon rather the the norm

yep lucky man to have such a supporting wife!! many dont!! yep that is a big step, to do it in public!! keep looking for the right place and for that mater shoes for public heeling self need to take the next step!! welcome!!

WOW!!!! very well written could not of put it better myself:clap: true true words!!

voted stockings, just my preference, and think pantyhose might not be so practical JMO!!

yep wear stockings with heels, have a plane color pair below knee length, then have a shiny pair same length, then have a white shine pair full length of leg, and a black pair like that, that is still sealed sorry no pics, we dont keep pics like that, need to take some pics and post them, however it wont be tonight!! the stockings make it easy to get the heels on and feel good, and more comfortable IMO!!

yep would like to also combine both!! agree with Jakes, will just damage the heels on the exhaust, and then depending on shoes(platform), gear leaver could be an issue as well!!