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maybe this will help!! one day when we depart from this world we can not take our heels with us!! many of us collect heels that will never be worn through!! so while we are both around, we might as well make the best of them!! self take great pleasure when I see the wife wearing my heels, she has actually helped me stretch a pair of my clogs to fit me better by wearing them to work a few times!! however there are one or two pairs of her heels that she is not too keen on me wearing as my feet are a little wider then hears and that leaves her shoes a little looser then she would like!!

only the one pair!! she has a pair in almost a material type finish!! and due to my feet being a bit wider although similar length, the comment was made that I would stretch them, so got my own, in a leather look finish!! its a stiletto hell, peep toe with a 1/4'' platform, very nice looking shoes, need to get some pics!!

yep!! where is the link!!

great!! congrats!!

Bubba136, makes a lot of sense, maybe just use a softer approach next time!! take your time in easing into the heels, maybe not drop the bomb!! that has worked for me every time, and was accepted every time!! if you need more on how I did it am wiling to help with my personal experiences!!

good for you!! her questions show the narrow mindedness!! good luck for future relationships and encounters!! you took a decisions based on logic and not emotions!! well done!! happy heeling!!

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still the same!!

no change!!

yes its me!! one of my favorites!!

Due to all that, we thought that as the market is so big we will find women who want to share their experiences and their way of dealing with pain/reducing it, not only with us, but also with the rest of forum community.

what about the men who wear heels!! that is a reality!!

more then what some would like to admit!!

or because society frowns upon us, the study will not include us???

thats a great story!! nothing wrong!! yep he deserves a good tip!! and the link to this place!! looks like he appreciates heels and a lady in heels!!

understand the relieved feeling!! if she now pulls away, then its her loss, and shows her narrow mindedness!! if your friends have issues with you as a result and after explaining that its only shoes, then its the same applies, their loss!! you have done nothing wrong, and after all as has been discussed many times here its just shoes!! and if people cant see past that, then they do not deserve the friendship either!! keep your head up!!

well got these on again today, and took some pics and uploaded my avatar, at long last!!

the whole album

http://www.hhplace.org/album.php?albumid=131

well uploaded an avatar, however tried to make it a little bigger, and it kept displaying the same size!! even though kept uploading bigger and bigger pics!! any case been meaning to do it for long time and now I did, and even uploaded the whole bunch of other pics from the batch onto the gallery!!

If you can't wear them it doesn't count!

agree 100%

if you cant wear them, then its just a ornament!!! not a shoe!!

OOPS!!! see that am too late, with what I advice I have!! my suggestion, is to tell her slowly, and NOT just drop a bomb and tell her straight out!! suggest a softer landing approach!! and that has worked for me!! understand you situation, and the fear that now she will tell the friends as well!! at least that way, ''if'' (have no doubts that they will find out now) you will now see who is your true friends and who accepts you for who you are!! self have done it a little different, although agree in principle, of being totally up front, the other side of the coin is to let someone get to know you really well, and have a good understanding of you, and then ease the story of heels slowly, dont believe in shock/drop the bomb tactics!! couz peoples(most) first reaction, men and woman is a negative one!! believe the issue needs to be explained with lots of sensitivity, before dropping the bomb!! besides the above, have never told someone outright, have allowed the relationship to grow and had a good look to see how things are going and then very slowly eased the topic over a period of months eased into the full topic of wearing heels!! worked every time for me!! there are lots of tools to help, there is the history of men in heels over centuries, there is this site to help explain and show the lady that we are quiet normal, and then there is the issue of being open minded, we are the person that they met, and after all what is heels, just a clothing accessory!! yes to many and most of us it goes to the level of a fetish, however believe nothing wrong with that..........................we all know the rest of this point!! good luck!! hope this helps!!

After reading through all of these posts by the various members of high heel place, please someone answer me this to clear my confussion: when I first started wearing women's high heels both privately and publicly, it did get my adrenoline going and I was excited inside, but not to the point of orgasm. Now, when I wear stiletto high heels both privately and publicly, i don't feel the arousal but I feel a sense of happiness, I feel myself being pretty, and I want to show everyone else how I feel by displaying my high heels.

Was it previously a fetish and now it isn't?

very well put and very close to where am at!!

self not very good at putting thoughts to paper!!

believe its still a fetish, at least from my perspective!!

just the fetish is now better understood!!

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Originally Posted by Dr. Shoe

Wearing heels out of choice is one thing but being made to wear them is quite another. I'm with the unions on this as long as they don't advocate an outright ban.

fair enough.... but still, i wish i had a job that required me to be wearing high heels.... then i can just justify it to everyone that work makes me wear it!!

would that not be great!!

would even waver certain injury claims rights, if I could wear heels to work!!

well my 1st pair was a little different!! 1st pair was at around the age of 25, yep that late, cant even remember what color, quiet possible black,(remember that later had a white pair) and trying to giggle the memory would say somewhere between 4-4.5 inch heel and they were normal plain pumps with stiletto heels due to life circumstances they are long gone!! however now have many more!! thanx to the help of the wife!!

voted No!! have done many things and made many choices, just couz I dont want to be considered ''normal'' and by whos judgment would that be ''normal'' nope would not change who I am!!

great story, and congrats on your 1st outing!! have though of the casino story als, however here they have the gambling area separated, however all around are entertainment areas for the kids!! so those places are normally full of kids!! very glad for you!!

I only wear boots in public, but for sandals around the house, I much prefer the most classically feminine looking (my wife likes to call them "cutesy") shoes I can find. A week ago, I began looking for a new pair of ankle-strap sandals with a bow on an open toe (I love bows!). As luck would have it, I found these, and my heart skipped a beat. I have never seen a more beautifully sexy looking pair of sandals in my life! Even better, Amazon.com had them in my size (10m) for just $35! I ordered a pair in Black last night, using their Super Saver shipping option, and should have them in a couple of weeks.

WOOT!!!

those are very nice!!! congrats!!

A UK mens 9 is the same as a US womens 12 and a Woman's 9 is equivalent to a US 11. This is only because of the width.

To answer the original question it does vary according to manufacturer and where the factory was. Italian shoes tend to be narrower whilst shoes made in the UK tend to be wider. I hope this helps.

sadly that has left me very disappointed!!

lucky no order was placed!!

was about to order, when we went past a place that stocks pleaser shoes, just not the style that was looking for, the wife tried out a pair in here size, (we very close in size) and it was way too tight, now I need a slightly wider shoe ten she does, and it did not fit her!! gess what it wont fit me, and will not be ordering over the net, as not sure what will fit or not fit when it arives!!

yep different manufactures will vary in sizes !!:mecry:making life difficult!!

my wish may yet come true!!!

well 1st things 1st, have a look at my location and see my interest in this one!!

lets start of with this one

Bubba136

As I understand the situation, there is a long history, especially in the former "Eastern block" countries, of female athletes taking male hormones to enhance their athletic powers

that is part of the problem, where the one coach from the previous eastern block's name has come up!!

although denials have also come up!!

then, this being a local runner was very supportive, irrespective of all the hype!!

TILL, the mother said, and I saw it on the local news '' its couz she is black...........bla bla bla!!!

and that just pi$$ed me off!!!

the race card must always be played in SA!!

then the politicians jumped on that race boat as well, witch made me even more mad!!

at the moment hope they find something wrong and strip her of the medals!!

might sound harsh, however sick and tired of with every thing the race card being played!!!

enough is enough!!

saw her/him as a South African, till the race card got played!!

So my point is, don't always judge a book by its cover. Give a girl a chance and test the water a little before writing someone off. What's the worst that can happen?

top notch advice!!