WA10rHeelGuy

Okay so still in heels, even if long trousers to most of my local shops now. My next challenge will be an interesting one. I haven't been to church, other than family stuff, for a few years now but I am planning to go back to one of my old churches solo and in heels. I'm not planning to cause trouble just don't like being in flats any more. I have been thinking about this on-and-off for a few months but not got the courage yet.

Okay so it's been a while since I've been on here, so what's new? Still out and about in heels in work and evenings. Bit too nervous for bus to work as so many school kids. Now answering door in knee high boots for deliveries. My ex has finally seen me in heels a few times and has said nothing to me or my kids. Another box ticked there. At that's about it really.

Something is missing from this story. If it happened as you say, I would think the bar manager would have given you a chance to tell your side, or if he believed the girsl at least call the police. Or, you actually spoke to the girls and they took offense at a guy in heels making pleasant talk with them. (How dare you try to be nice to "strange" women!!!!!)

I spoke briefly with them. It's just a shame that they have their say and are allowed to make defamatory allegations and I am denied any chance to try to clear my name.

Society can be cruel.

Okay so in my last post I thought things were good - how wrong I was. I nice, friendly guy - in knee high boots - got accused of pestering and perverted behaviour by 2 gals that, whilst I was at the bar near them, I didn't really speak to. I got barred without explanation and had trouble finding out what had happened. It appears that some in society have a bit of power so use it to stop different people having freedom. Oh well, lesson learned. Gonna be more cautious in future. Confidence doesn't half crash when you get a boost.

It had to happen one day. Yes going to a new singles night in 4" stiletto knee high boots - under long jeans - well I didn't know what I was walking in to. The organiser knew about my heels in advance so she asked to see them - turn up time. Her and the 2 women she was with liked the boots. The organiser has TV friends who are usually in 6" stilettos (no platforms). All was quiet - okay - far too quiet - barely anyone around. 2 guys came in and I saw them looking at my boots - which were now over my jeans. Later on these regulars included me in their banter with the bar staff. They asked about the heels much later and just accepted that I was different. So much for my singles night attempt to find Miss Right. Next group in were 5 young lesbians - one of which tried on my boots as she liked them but hadn't worn heels since she was 17 - i didn't ask how long ago that was but it didn't look that long. So organiser, bar manager, 2 off duty staff, 2 guys, and 5 lesbians plus door staff guy and ye olde DJ it was a very uneventful night.

Patience pays off. I recently said that my daughter didn't want me going out in heels, okay so she didn't want people to think I was gay either. Yesterday a trip to the cinema (was too full to watch anything), around a couple of shops and on a couple of buses I was allowed out. If was a bit busy being the school holidays. I was only in discreet 3" heel cowgirl boots but it was a start.

I meant all the £5million homes of which there are far too many. Shearings+good value=erm not too bad but Alfa are cheaper without much sacrifice if any. They use same hotels in some places and shearings are £10 per day per person more expensive = ouch.

Holiday time - about time too. Was on a coach holiday in Bournemouth (English South Coast, home of rich people). 3" black block heel ankle boots on the coach there. No problems there. Did get a few looks when wearing them in the hotel but nobody said anything. One night I was asked how tall I was as in my 3" heel cowboy boots I was nearly as tall as 6ft4 guy. The woman 60something was impressed when I showed of the boots and more impressed when I later changed into 4" knee high wedge boots. Great confidence boost. The foreign hotel bar staff liked the heels too, although the lithuanian woman had to double take as didn't know men wore heels - but then anything goes in England - was her way to deal with that.

Hi TBG. I was a bit surprised I hadn't seen you on here. I've been impressed with your adventures. I bit braver than my own.

I'm still working on the confidence being out in heels and do go out in heels under long jeans on occasion. I will defo be discreet heeling when I'm with my kids but not sure I've got the confidence for knee high boots in public as that's usually confined to my special pub.

What does it matter if people think you are gay? Your daughter isn't right and by not wearing your heels publically you are setting an example to her that it is ok for society to dictate how you will live your life. I don't believe that this is a good example for her. Whether society is right or wrong, you are giving society that power over your life. What does it matter if ignorant people thing you are gay? In my opinion, it simply highlights their ignorance and makes no difference. What really makes a difference is getting out there and showing society and our children that we will not be dictated and pigeon-holed.

Custody has been a peaceful matter, especially since the divorce was finalised a few years ago. She puts the kids first so wouldn't deny me access. Fingers crossed tho.

Nearly forgot - how could I: Last Monday I met an online girl friend - yes I was the one in heels - 3.5" ankle boots. We spent an hour window shopping. We finally found a shoe shop with some decent boots. Off came the ankle boots and on went the calf boots. In line of sight of counter staff. I've worn them a few times in my local pub and at work but I still prefer my knee high boots. It was nice having company and support trying heels on in shops. It does make it a lot easier.

She's not saying I'm gay just knows how most people think, more out of protection.

Background: I've started wearing heels when my kids are around = knee high boots over skinny jeans. My daughter (nearly 13) is impressed with my heels and my son (nearly 9) just lets me get on with it. My daughter has said I can wear what I want in the house but I musn't wear heels outside as "people will think I'm gay" - she's so right - damn ignorant society,

I can't believe it's nearly 2 months since I last posted here - my web page hasn't done much better. After "Saturday 3 - post 18" I lost a lot of confidence to heel in public - not really surprising. But after about a month I started wearing boots in my regular pub again and about a week ago they were back on show = 4" heel calf boots over jeans, then a change later that evening (my office is a minutes away) into 4" knee high boots. These boots stayed on as I walked across town on a Monday night 11pm to get a taxi. No problems this time. Heels are also back on getting the bus to work - but this is harder this year as there are many more school kids who can be hard work - safe so far. Going to pick my kids up on Friday night I was in 3" block heels ankle boots with square toe, under very long trousers. St Helens town centre, train and stations and Huyton (past drug smoking school kids) and I had no problems. In kids' street two girls aged about 8 kept shouting "girly shoes" so I did the best thing and just ignored them. I was in trainers when I took my kids home and the same girls were there but they didn't say anything. KIDS UPDATE: I've been wearing chunky heels, or my tan boots when my kids have been visiting for the past couple of months now. FRIDAY: After my son (nearly 9) had gone to bed I pub my calf boots on over skinny jeans to see how my daughter (nearly 13) would behave. She liked the boots so then came out the 4.5" knee high boots and again no problems at all. SATURDAY: Start of a new day with me in knee high boots for the start. Both kids totally fine. My daughter (size 6) then asked if she could try my boots on (size 9) - how cool. I gave her my size 8 calf boots which she liked until I got out 5" platform goth calf boots, which she wanted to go home in - I'm not sure my ex wife knows about my fem side yet. Boots on hold til she's tried them a few more times. SKIRT: I had to show my pics of me in skirt then after she said one of her teachers dressed fem in public. She liked the skirt but did find it funny. HEELS: I can now wear heels at home with them around but I musn't go out in them, as "people might think I'm gay". Protection from my daughter can't be bad.

My main heel preference is Knee High boots which work well with Skirt or Trousers. I do have a pair of Thigh Boots and a couple of pairs of shoes but much prefer the feel of boots on calfs. I thought I might as well start this poll, hopefully not repeating anything done recently.

My local pub + Skirt + High Heels - Me = something wrong there. Just the weekend I leave St Helens and end up in Blackpool another Heeler is seen in my pub and he was even in a skirt (braver than me). Other than the drunken Neanderthal airheads it looks that St Helens, Merseyside is the new non-city home for heelers. Okay so 2 guys doesn't really add up to that but it's definitely a good start.

(version 1) - deleted coz i started arguing with myself (version 2) - hopefully i'll submit this one. Why start with a parade or TV grilling? I've started with the nightmare that is "Social Me" on that "facebook" thing. Jealous of the legs = yep plenty of them Rough guide to ratings: Super Supportive = 5% Cool and other supporters = 30% Funny, Quirky (middle of the road opinion = 30% Not impressed = 30% Super Evil = approx 5% GAY = 1 x 15 year old

http://www.new.facebook.com/album.php?aid=16692&l=48e0e&id=560579010

My latest pictures on facebook. I'll update my webpage when I get back on dreamweaver.

I wish I had asked my verbal abusers if they were scared of gays. May not have been safest thing to do but would have been interesting.

I think I've seen him on a topic or two. I just need to get used to hanging around with guys as it's something I rarely ever do.

There seem to be a few St Helens in England. There is also 1 on the Isle of White.

I've some across the Isle of White one in far too many searches. I'm updated my web page to show Merseyside, hopefully that will help a bi in future.

Still trying to find more local heelers. At least I should have an easier time in Blackpool in a couple of weeks.

St Helens is in Merseyside on the Manchester side of Liverpool, a few too many miles from Jersey - unfortunately

Hello and welcome back. Thanks for telling us more about yourself. St Helens,would that be in Jersey? If so there are some good shoe shops there.

Men+Heels=Gay = Aarrgghh!! Okay so I'm used to that as one of the first questions from friendly peeps and once they know you are straight then the normal heel admiring continues. My first few nights in public were in gay bars as I thought they would be safer. They were. Most of the gay guys kept their distance seeing a guy in heels and the lesbians had no few problems chatting. There are still far too many that think Men+Heels=Gay Drag Queen and I met a couple dozen of them last night outside my local safe pub. I walked on by as wasn't going to take the banter into the pub. Many gay references and some shouting that I should get my skirt and wig on. Very frustrating when I just wanted a quiet night out in heels. Okay so I did go in by the side door after a detour.

:mecry:Saturday night 3

Going into town after a win by the local rugby team was probably not my best idea. Walking to the cash machine I got unwanted attention from a group of drunken peeps, sitting at the door of my safe pub. I just carried on and even walked back past them to the safety of my office which I remembered the key for. I short rest and change from slim 3.5" tan boots to block 3.0" black - I had no flats.

A slight detour and I made it to the pub via the side door - I left the same way a bottle of wine later, unfortunately the verbals continued.

Verbally bruised but I went back to the office for wedge 4.0" black boots for the bus trip home. Had few minutes waiting and a girl saw me but life was back to normal as quiet again.

Glad my next night out will be with company in the easier going Blackpool.