Bernheels

OK: So here is the real world. Guys are not supposed to wear high heels. I do not know who set that rule - but I do not live buy it. I have been wearing high heels since I was 12 yrs old. I am now 55 and loving my life. I am married to a great gal that lets me wear heels at home and when we drive long distances. i wear them at home every night and when we make love. She just can't wear high heels - so I took that position in the family. My message is this - If you want to wear high heels - wear them where ever you want. No one will care and if they do too bad. they wouldn't have the guts to wear them and find the pleasure that you find with them. Don't try to figure it out - just do it. Don't wait to move away - I live in Hol;land MI and wear them to the party store and payless in town. The gal at Payless knows what I like and smiles when ever I enter the store wearing my 4 inch stacked heel boots that I bought there. Walk tall and enjoy Bernheels

I guess my question to all would be: Why does it seem like countries in Europe are much more acceptable to men wearing high heels than in the USA? I have been venturing out in my 4 inch stacked boots. Not too much attention - but I am always cautious as to where I wear them. bernheels

Hi there: I love all 3 but really like the ones with the high stacked heels. More of a mix between male and female and more likely to be able to wear outside. I have some that have a 4" stacked heel and they feel great. Bernheels

I agree - there should be more commercials with men in high heels. That way people would accept them more when they see us in heels in public. Loved the video and saved so I can watch some more Thanks Bernheels

You have great legs - keep showing them. I love the boots with the blade heels. Bernheels

Jeff: I can't agree more about discussing shoes with females. Whenever my wife and I are with a group, I always end up talking with the gals about all kinds of stuff and really enjoy it. We talk about all subjects and I love to talk about their shoes. They love it too and love to display them when we talk. Bernheels

Yum - very nice shoes. Is that you in the picture? Very hot! Bernheels

I agree - if they are yours and you love them then so be it. I have over 200 pairs and love them all. I have all styles and heel heights. Some platforms and some stacked heels. I reall enjoy peep toe 5 inch pumps! Bernheels

That is really great that you have such a supportive couple. They sound like great paople. I am wearing a nice burgandy sweater dress and 5inch black suede pumps. My wife and I are hanging out and watching a couple of movies. She is the best. I appreciate all the supportive comments. Bernheels

I would love to be part of a heelmeet but I cannot travel to Europe, just for this. Are there any planned for the USA in the near future? I would love to be part of this at that point. Bernheels

Those are very sexy - your GF has great taste!

Sounds like you are much more open in London than Michigan USA! I will keep you pointers in mind and go for it! Thanks Bernheels

Thanks Richie: I appreciate your comments. What type of heels do you wear with your buds? Bernheels

I love the heels and your wifes legs look great. I can't believe everyone is getting hung up on the shoes beilg a little big? Who cares - she is wearing them. Way to go. Bernheels

Those are some sexy boots - I could buy them all. Bernheels

Nice look with the black pumps - very feminie. Bernheels

Greta link - I love reading about the history of the high heels shoe. Thanks Bernheels

Go online - hit high heels and have fun. there are lots of web sites that cater to men wearing high heels. They have the wider widths in sexy styles - just keep looking. have fun Bernheels

Wasn't sure where to start this thread, but this seems the right place. I have been wearing heels for a while and have never had a bud I could tell that I wear heels. i have a great wife that really puts up with my heels and hose, but doesn't really understand why. It is tough to go through life with a secret that really turns you on that you cannot share with your best bud. Have any other of you guys that wear heel ever told your best male frien? Bernheels

I love the boots that you wear with your GF. I have a pair that were custom made with 4 inch stacked heels in a western style. They feel great. We went to the midnight mass and I had a feast looking at all the gals decked out in spike heels. Some were 5 inch, most were 4 inch. Nice this heels and skirts. Yumm Bernheels

Love the boots. Great heels! I have some custom cowboy boots that I had specially made with 4 inch heels. They are very stylish and comfortable. My wife even lets me wear them whem we go out to a bar. Bernheels

Great job Jeff!! You have more guts than I do! I have an outing planned for this Weds at a local mall. I nned to do some X-Mas shopping and just purchased some seargant boots at Payless. They are calf high with 4" stacked heels and a nice round toe. They are really comfortable. I wore them out for a short shopping event and they felt great! They had plastic soles on the heel - so I took them to a shoe repair and they are putting rubber on the heels. This way they won't make as much noice and won't slip pon tile floors. I can't wait for weds night. Bernheels

Hello to all: I can also relate to the iseue of hiding heels at home. my kids are now gone and it is not a daily issue. But I have over 300 pairs of all style heels. My favorites are in various closets around the house. Others are in stroage boxes. My daughter is 27 and very nosy. She is always looking in areas she doesn't belong when she comes over. So far she has never suspected anything - but there will be a day that she will se them and ask the question. I will just tell her that I enjoy wearing heels and that my wife is fine with it. We will see what happens. I agree with involving the kids at an early age if you have them. Then the shock is over. Things have changed in the past years and people are more open to different ideas. Good Luck Bernheels

heelme: You have a lot of good points. i have been wearing heels at some point for the past 40 yrs. I am 55 and love to shave my legs and wear high heels. nothing feels better. My wife is tolerant, and getting more comfortable with me wearing heels everynight. She also is very hesitant with me going out in heels. She is afraid that someone we know will see them and embarass us. I have a high power job and need to be careful with this. i respect her feelings and will not do anything to ruin our relationship - she is the best. We have gone to a couple of clubs and that was exciting - hope to do more. Always respect what others that you care about may think! They are your support group. have a great day Bernheels

Hope you feel better soon. never want to see a fellow heel wearer down for the count. Heels up and strut on strong Bernheels