thehighheelsgirl

When I was with my ex I was ALWAYS locked in heels and he always left the key at home.

Wow 33? Damn that is tiny! I'm a 35 or 36 and I thought mine were small!

hahaha ........ If you really want to tease him, wear those boots with pantyhose and see his reaction, especially when he really really wants something

Did you wear those boots again on future dates? I'll bet he will NEVER forget that night with you either!

Alexa, you wild thing!!! You really have lots of adventures don't you? You have the inflatable bouncy castle adventures, the drinking wine out of your heel adventures and now this adventure where you get your date's pulse rate up to 150 for the entire night. Perhaps I should purposely keep my boots on with my date after hearing about your adventures and see how they react

Did you wear socks on under those boots? I know with a lot of knee high boots, if the zipper is halfway down, if one tugs and gently prods, my boots can be slid off over slippery nylons. If you have socks, the socks might come off with the boots. Perhaps the guy didn't want to try that hard to take them off as he preferred you with them on. Perhaps he liked the image of you wearing them with your nightie when you two had your fun?

Yup! He was quite fond of those boots, and asked me to wear them often.

Yup. A while ago, when I was between boyfriends, I wore my lace up thigh boots on a date, later at his place, he wanted to take them off, and took a look at the laces and lack of zippers and was like "eff that" LOL. He didn't seem to mind that I kept them on the rest of the night either

I pretty much only wear ankle boots with jeans, but some girls can pull it off with a skirt. Def NO with capris!

I used to have a pair of the stiletto sneakers years ago before I got into wearing really high heels, and I remember they were like wearing sneakers.. soooo comfortable!!!

Strappy heels can take a bit, but I have a few pair of lace up boots, and they take forever, especially the thigh high ones.

I totally get the high heel fetish bit, but what I absolutely do not understand are the guys who want to smell your feet or heels. I don't know about the rest of you, but I HATE when any part of me smells and do my absolute best to maintain personal cleanliness so I don't smell, but of all things, why would you want to smell someone else's feet or shoes?

I def get the OMG how can you wear those questions and WOW look at those heels and the guys who you can tell have fetishes checking me out. My boyfriend gets way more looks than I do wearing heels, so when we're together, we're just used to it.

I definitely want my heels tighter than looser so they help support my feet and limit how much my toes get squished from my feet slipping forward. I can't imagine wearing heels that are too big.

I've found the Pleaser stuff I've tried to run pretty true to size, but I think the quality of their heels is horrible. If you're looking to actually wear the heels I think you can do much better than Pleaser.

I was talking with a very metrosexual boy I know over the weekend, who pretty much only wears heels about the boys in heels and how society sees it bit, and he had some interesting points. Since someone will ask, no, he is not gay. Anyway, he said that as a boy, you can get away with wearing boyish looking chunky heel boots. This one make sense. Then he said that he can't really get away with wearing "normal" girl's heels, like 3 or 4 inch pumps say, as they're "plain" shoes and a guy just looks weird wearing them. I can kinda see this, since I've kinda always thought that the fashion world could make fashionable boy's heels, but they're certainly not going to be bright pink strappy sandals. But, and I had to think a bit on this after, he pointed out that he can wear "statement" heels and totally get away with it. He makes pretty good money, and his whole closet is made up of designer heels. Mostly he wears Louboutins, and he does have a pair of the over the knee corset boots and wears them pretty often over tight skinny jeans. He does not have any sandals, has a few pair of pumps, but mostly all his are boots. He says it's totally different than just wearing normal heels that he can get at the mall, because he's making a statement wearing heels like that and I actually think he's right. It's actually impressive how many girls he meets because of the attention he gets LOL (he is a very good looking guy too). Curious to see what the rest of you think on this

I havent done that in ballet boots but I have had problems getting through the gates due to the fact that all of my shoes have 6 in plus heels and are all stillettos . They tell my that my shoes could be used as a weapon...

I got told the same thing!!! I don't think they'd ever let you through without taking off ur heels, so thas prolly a no go.

Going along with the story....why would you need an implant? If you wanted to be permanently stuck in ballets all you'd have to do would be to have surgery to make your achilles tendons super short. From there, you wouldn't be able to move your ankle anywhere near out of en pointe, and your feet would get used to that pretty quickly.

Wow.... Even I can't imagine doing that. I know I'm def permanent right now, but I think if I really wanted and spent probably as much time going back down as I did going up I could re-stretch my feet and ankles to wear normal shoes again. I wonder how you'd convince a dr to do that to you?

Wow those are wild! Could be fun to wear!

Think you just need to get used to it. I've only worn pointy heels for years, and my feet have kind of taken on the shape. If the heels are really pointy or kind of tight in the toes, my toes will hurt by the end of the day a little bit.

I've been dealing with this while I'm home in NY for the holidays. Haven't had to do it in a couple of years, but it's not THAT big a deal. Of course, my mom thinks I'm crazy LOL

Was thinking about this last night while out with a few friends, since everyone seems to be traveling somewhere for the holidays. Where is everyone from? I'll go first, I live in Miami.

I wear them out once in a while, but mostly just at home. If you have the ankle flexibility and strength you can walk in them, but they do hurt after a while no matter what.

LOL I don't really run but I can walk fast! Wouldn't 12 MPH be like a 5 min mile? Even when I used to run I don't think I ever got faster than like 7 min? 5 min mile is fast!

two things to remember, if you decide to buy/wear any.

1. Like any super high heels, get a size larger than your normal size.

2. Before trying them on, work-out your calves by forcing your feet into EXTREME point and then extreme "unpoint". Do this over & over for several days to stretch your Aquiles tendon. This is to prevent the calves from cramping while the shoes/boots are on. Once you get a cramp whilst wearing them, it's not easy to get them off quickly! Especially if you chose the lace-up kind.

3. There are many brands of ballet boots/shoes. There are many Places online like http://www.odgirl.com/item--Lace-up-ankle-boot--Ballet-1020-PL.html sell Devious brand which I bought for my wife & which fit perfectly right out of the box! Cost $100US. I believe the UK cost is 100UKP. 100EUR elsewhere in Europe.

4. Have fun!

Um no. You do not want ballet boots a size bigger, if anything, you want them a size smaller (which is how I fit mine) or maybe your normal size if you want to use more toe padding. If they are too big, all the weight of your body winds up on your toes. This hurts. You want your ballet boots to fit just like a pointe shoe, which is snug, so that your foot being squeezed takes up a good bit of the pressure, which takes it off your toes.

By the way, "Achilles" is not spelled with a Q

I've tried wearing heels a size small, and you def pay the price for it and I don't do it anymore. We all know stilettos aren't the most comfortable shoes to wear, so why make it worse?

Ya that's how it is with my LSB and Hot Peppers heels.... I can't get new ones and I absolutely love them, so I think I'm going to have them for a very long time. Plus they're all perfectly broken in so they fit PERFECT!

My nicer heels (Hot Peppers, Little Shoe Box, Italian Heels) last a good long time, as long as you get the heels re-tipped, and almost all of mine have metal tips so they last a while. The cheap heels I have (like Pleaser) I just seem to wear for a few months and they're trash. Isn't eBay great to get rid of our worn heels though?!