seth_nj111 Posted August 1, 2007 Share Posted August 1, 2007 Hi all, I have not posted in a while and have actually not been out much for a while. I got a good spook when I ran into a co-worker while I was in heels. She did notice and my S/O jumped in and told her it was a dare. She did not to my knowledge leak the 'dare' at work but has made private comments to me like 'doesn't it suck to loose a bet' etc. Anyway, worked up the courage again to go out again on a trip away from my home area. We decided to spend the weekend in Baltimore inner harbor area and my S/O egged me on to go in heels. I couldn't refuse of course. I did wear long pants that covered the heel of my pumps with 4" for the trip down. Once there, I switched to sandles to try and keep cool but of course this was a lot more noticable sporting red nails. My S/O kept up the support and after a few hours I was pretty comfortable. I spent the rest of the weekend without any issues sporting sandles. I did get some double takes and a few stares here and there but that was about it. When I was side by side with my S/O I was very comforatable, but if she and I were seperated for a bit, for example, a trip to the restroom, I did get very nervous and anxious. Hopefully I will rebuild my confidence to continue public outings closer to home. Seth Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
radiodave Posted August 1, 2007 Share Posted August 1, 2007 Congrats! Sounds like your S/O is very supportive of it, and hope things continue to go well for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
thedesigner Posted August 1, 2007 Share Posted August 1, 2007 I just ignore looks when i go for a wizz, eveybody looks at anyone who's different for whatever reason - unusaul coloured suit, pink hair, etc....... A lot of times its envy that the person has the bollox to stand out from the crowd and be themselves !!! Gd luck !! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
new_look Posted August 1, 2007 Share Posted August 1, 2007 a good woman is the best support.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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