Cis - introduction

[Cis]

Hi everyone...wow, this is a great site. I don't know where to begin but it's so exciting to find so many other guys who wear heels. I guess I'll start by saying I'm hetero and I'm not a crossdresser, although I certainly love them. The only thing I love to do is wear heels. Now I wear my heels with regular male attire. I love pumps. I'm a pump man. I love the way they make my legs look and the way they make my butt look...and even though I'm hetero I love to watch a mans legs when he's in heels, it is so sexy. I've been wearing pumps for years but I'm still in the process of gradually starting to go public with them. My goal is to eventually own nothing but women's shoes and never think anything of it. For those of you who haven't yet worked up the courage to go out, here's what I did: First of course I've been wearing them around the house for years so I got real used to wearing them, it's second nature now. I've got high heeled mules for bedroom slippers that I wear at night. So anyway, I've always wanted to start getting used to going out in public with them but kept putting it off so one day I just asked myself, what's the one place I could go where I wouldn't be conspicuous. Well, A gay bar...particularly if it's one where crossdressers go. So that's the first time I ever went public in my pumps. I just carried my pumps to the car barefooted, drove there, put on my pumps, took a deep breath and went inside. It was so easy you wouldn't believe it. Nobody really notices until after you've had a few drinks and then you don't care anymore. In fact when people do notice it's a nice conversation piece or an icebreaker. You figure nobody who goes to a gay bar will have any problem with a guy who wears heels...and once you've done it once you can keep doing it...and once you've gotten used to going in public you can start to go to other little places in them. Like go to the store in another town for a while. The tricks are: not to wobble, get used to them at home first...I mean really immerse yourself in them. Leave them by your door. Let them be the first thing you put on when you get home and don't take them off until you go to bed...everyday. Eventually it'll become second nature. I know most of you probably know this but it's just so exciting to find this site. My pumps are black with three ince heels and I usually wear them with either flared jeans or loose khakis where only about an inch of the heel is exposed in the back and about an inch of the toe in front, very inconspicuous that way but very sexy. Also get a girl to help you pick your wardrobe because they'll know exactly what looks good with them and what doesn't. Like I said eventually I'll own nothing but women's shoes cuz I love em, they are beautiful, works of art...and men's shoes are ugly. My goal is to buy my own business so I'm going to buy something where this kind of thing is acceptable or at least wouldn't be completely unexpected like some kind of salon. Once I can wear them to work then I will wear them all the time and all my ugly men's shoes go straight in the garbage and I will never look back. I hope you guys can tolerate my rambling, it's just that in all these years I never knew that so many men wore heels. I always figured there had to be a few but there're so many...it great. Look forward to chatting with all of you. Cis

[vector]

Cis, Welcome to the board. Great story. I am also a hetero male who loves to wear heels, but I haven't quite worked up the courage to wear them in public like you have. Congrats and keep up the heeling!

[xaphod]

Hi, Cis, Nice to see you have found us. Hopefully your stay will be enjoyable and you will be able to do all you want in heels. I wonder where you are. Best wishes, Xa

[Shafted]

Welcome aboard, Cis! I'm sure that your first outing story will be an inspiration to others. Enjoy the ultimate freedom.

[Cis]

Thanks guys. Wow, five years? I guess I just never thought of doing a search online before. I'm all over but basically Florida.

[Dawn HH]

Cis:-) WOW!!! What a great story you related to us. Got any more? Welcome to the Forum. Enjoy your stay here. Cheers--- Dawn HH