First Real Outing in Heels

[Spikes]

I wanted to relate an incredible experience that I can attribute only the encouragement of this group. I hope this story is not too long for posting, but felt some background before the story is important. I’ve had a fetish for high heels as long as I can remember. There was an episode when I was 7. I was playing hide and seek at my friend’s house and remember hiding in his sister’s dark closet. It was an incredible experience being in there with all of her high heels. The sweet aroma of sweat and leather has been with me ever since. I am now a 50+ married male living in the southwest of USA and have fine-tuned my fetish by admiring, collecting, wearing ladies high heels over the years. I consider myself a crossdresser from the waist down and frequently wear pantyhose and pumps with male clothing. My “public” appearances have been limited to situations where I can control who sees me like post office lobbies and mall parking lots. A man in black 5 inch stiletto pumps and male clothes definitely draws attention. But reading the messages on this board gave me the confidence to venture out into more public venues, if I just toned down the footwear a bit. I found this beautiful pair of Nine West short ankle boots with a 3 ½ inch stacked heel. Although the heel is not a true stiletto, it does have an excellent taper to about 1 inch at the tip. My first try was at the store where I bought the shoes. It is a large major discounter with all kind of merchandise from clothing to bedding. So I just left my “man” shoes on the shelf and walked around the whole store in my new heels. If anyone stopped me, I could easily justify the fact that I was just trying them out. I was tempted to wear them to the register and pay for them, but chickened out at the last minute. I couldn’t wait to get to my car put them back on. Being the holiday season, I needed to by my wife a bottle of her favorite perfume, so I went to Dillard’s, a department store with a large ragrance department, the kind you find with many counters and lots of attractive clerks offering samples. There is an exterior side entrance, so you don’t have to walk through the mall to get to this area. I asked the first clerk where this particular brand was and she walked me halfway across to store to another counter. All along the way, I was acutely aware of the click, click, click my heels were making on the marble floor. It was so arousing being out for the first time in public and not being embarrassed about my footwear. When the woman left me with the new sales clerk at the counter, she turned to walk away, but noticed my shoes under the cuff of my trousers. Standing about 10 feet away from me, I heard her ask another associate to walk over to her. Out of the corner of my eye, I could see both of them huddled and looking at my shoes. It was incredible. I wasn’t embarrassed and at that point, I didn’t care if she invited the whole store to check me out. Well that is almost exactly what she did. By the time I was through with my transaction, she had escorted no less than half a dozen ladies to check out my shoes. As I was leaving, I even heard the phrase “his shoes” being spoken by one of the clerks. What a perfect set-up for my first venture out in public, only women and attractive ones at that. I only hope that future encounters will be is positive and sexually arousing as this one was for me. And to you all, I owe a profound thanks.

[Heelfan]

Spikes - What a wonderful posting! In my opinion everything you did and your report to us is all in the exact spirit of the Guy's Forum. I'm so pleased a) that you've joined in with what some of us have been enjoying for many years, and that you enjoyed it so much - especially including the being-noticed-by-attractive-girls part! By the way, the description of your chosen footwear sounds great! WELL DONE! I'm delighted that these Forums helped to encouraged you to take the plunge. It's ecstatic and very liberating, isn't it? Long may your happy heeling continue! A real inspiration to the shall-I-shan't-I members, shy guys and waverer I hope! Cheerfully yours, Heelfan

[Slim]

Good for you spikes. I too was out today, all over a large department store and then a grocery store all the time wearing boots with a 3 1/2" tapered heel (well under an 1"). The heel was fully exposed under my genes. No problems what ever, but then I didn't notice. The more we guys do these thing the easer it will be for the rest of us. Just remember heels have been a male thing for nearly 400 years, its the women who are the new comers.

[kobo]

Spikes you are just great. Envy You very much. I dream all the time about such experience, about showing my spikes in front of attractive young girl also in spikes. It is so arousing, but wouldn’t be able to do it. I mean I do exactly the same but when x-dressed, whole feminine outfit without drawing any attention.

[Firefox]

Nice experience Spikes, thanks for sharing. I'm afraid even in my many tens of thousands of outings in heels, I can't relate to anything approaching those emotions myself, but it shows how being at peace with your own aspirations is important personally, and how we are all different. I'd encourage anyone to follow your example and discover their own level, whatever that may be.

[loveheel]

Great story, Spikes. I regularly go shopping in heels and understand the thrill you are describing. Wearing myheels in public is sometimes a thrill, but sometimes, it just makes me feel good to be myself and to wear shoes that I really like. The women that came to look at your shoes may have been surprised more than anything. Overall, I have found a lot of supporting females.

[Francis]

thanks for relating your experience to us, I'm sure it will act as inspiration to others who feel they are 'not ready' to go public. It's nice when the women take an interest in your footwear, even if from a distance. Sort of makes the effort worthwhile. Keep it up, Spike, we look forward to your next expedition

[new_look]

excellent account indeed spikes. i can bet the girls make such a fuss about it as they dont expect a man to be able to walk in heels, as about half of the ladies struggle in small heels themselves. Thats when the nice feeling for me steps in, when i can cause a bit of jealousy to the women, as beforehand it was me jealous of women been able to wear what i couldnt. Without this site i wouldnt have ever had the courage to spep out for the first time Daz

[tuckedintoboots]

well now, on MY 1st outing in heels I was a bit nervous, but then I've since relaxed a lot and I too have had nice comments on my heeled boots & platform loafers from time to time!! of ocourse like the rest of you (as far as I know) only care mostly about the POSITIVE comments made and they do make me feel so much better about my self as a rule. yours, Brad PS: wearing my blade heel boots with skinny levis tucked into them right now by the way!