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Wow Cat you pull those off really well. You look really good.   I'm usually not a fan of the skirts and things like that but you have officially made a fan out of me.

Wow that is an awesome story!!!  Thank you for sharing that!!!

On ‎7‎/‎22‎/‎2016 at 4:07 AM, Black_Boots said:

Hello Sydheel

 

They are synthetic, but it really looks like leather, the best sythetic I have seen so far.

The heel 15 cm measured in the middle, 16cm at the back (sorry metric system!)

The Platform is hidden but it's around 4 to 5 cm.

I paid them 60US$

They were made in 10 days and delivered in a week.

Normally I buy US11, but on their page, they display the ideal measurment in regard of the US sizing numbers, so my foot length told me to order a US12 which I did.

After the order I got an E-Mail from the maker who asked me to do additional foot measurment to confirm the sizing chosen.

After that they confirmed US12 was the right size and started to make the boots.

Then I got a message when they were made and shipped!
What a great Customer care and professioanl approach!

In the end the boots are great as I said! Do not hesitate to buy from them!
I hope this helped!

Yo I just ordered mine I should be getting mine in a couple of days thanks for that description I hope they turn out the same for me because I have bigger feet!!

Age: 36

Gender: Male, married, with kids

Location: Jacksonville, FL

Occupation: Expanded Function Dental Assistant/ Amateur MMA Fighter

Height: 5'11"

Weight: 190lb

Shoe size: US 14 EU 46,

What's your favourite heel style: Stilettos and platforms

What's your favourite shoe style: Pumps, booties and knee boots

Do you wear heels outside: Moderately

What is your favourite heel height: 5-6 in/12.5-15cm

What is your highest heel height: 7.5 inches

How often do you wear: daily:  To the park or somewhere out of town.

Do you wear socks, hose stockings:Socks

Anything else you wish to add:

I love wearing heels.  I don't wear then as much as I like to but when I do them I wear them in a masculine since.  I try to break stereotypes of having to be "feminine" or be of an alternative life style to want to wear heels.  Heels are a matter of having confidence so I'm moderately getting there..

Thank you Jeff B for your statement I definitely applaud you of your fashion choices and disregard everyone else it is truly commended!!!

Thanks guys you are definitely giving me my inspiration!!!!!

Part of it is just the extracurricular activities that I do  from doing MMA (mixed martial arts) to my family like brother, mom and dad.  I'm just in fear that it will jeopardize relationships with friends and family but I know that my love for heels will never go away.  I've tossed them before and months later I bought more.  But it just gets to a point that I'm tired of hiding my shoes.  I have a large amount of shoes that I'm hardly wearing and I'm just ready to let loose.  I just want just want to stop feeling so restrained  ya know?

Mr. Steve thanks that's pretty solid advice.  Thank you and i appreciate the compliments from those that are not platform fans  it really means a lot thank you!  Glad I could make you change your mind about them just a little bit ;D

Thanks man I appreciate it just trying to follow your example!!!!!  In which you do it well!!!  In your escapades  you do it more frequently how do you gather yourself to do what you do.  Also when you have family how do you put that persona on the shelf for the time being because for me I want to keep the momentum going because long breaks away and the courage starts going away and then ya freeze panic and start worrying about what everyone else is thinking and it sucks feeling like that!  What do you do?

So yesterday I had the best day ever.  I had the day off from work and my wife suggested that I have a heel outing in which I did.  I had my 7.5 inch, purple platform boots on with a pair of denim bellbottoms or flares, with a purple shirt  that said "You Only Live Once" with a derby like hat I think the outfit went pretty well the photo is posted in my gallery.  

But at any rate I decided to take my attire out to the mall to pick up a video game.  At first I was reluctant because i kept thinking who was going to see and just assuming any negative thing possible would happen.  But then I took a deep breath and put my head phones and had got to walking looked forward until I got to my destination.  Bought my game and wandered around the store without a care in the world.  I rode up the escalator  back up to the food court and strolled back to my car.  Next I drove to the park downtown to go take some pictures.  I was a little reluctant then because there were a few families out there with kids around.  And i did not want people to assume the worst of me.  Plus there were people out fishing.  So I took another deep breath and kept inching to some areas I thought I could get some pictures.  As time went on I was getting more and more comfortable and took pictures at other areas in the park.  I never felt so much more alive and free.  I mean I'm feeling like on cloud nine but then I'm off that high because my son is here and I have to bottle that feeling all up  I can't share that with anyone.  I just hate feeling alone and feeling like I have to start over after feeling like I just leaped over bounds and there is no telling when I will be able to do that again.  How do you shut those emotions on and off.  I just feel so confined right now.  How do you all deal with it?

Ditto!!!

Love the last three!

Awesome I want some wish they had them in a 14

Oh wow nice.  I have considered wedges.....  Just a little unsure about open toes if I do I want something closed toe...... But those look so cool hope to see photos of you with them on!

I know I want to go I haven't been to a meet in two years.  I hope everyone can come together.  Cuz I am highly interested!

Well thank you all for your great advice.  In the process, one day my wife peeped out the computer and I left this up and I got in a little bit of trouble.  Because I posted up my issues about our situation and never talked to her about it. We had a long talk and she mentioned that I didn't give the full story of what I had done wrong which does put a lot in perspective.  From the beginning my parents are old fashioned seen everything in black and white right and wrong and so forth.  At age 12  I was indulged in heels, my father found out about it as you know it did not go so well.  Through the years I had to withhold that obsession for  a long time.  From they day I started working and moved out I was buying shoes left and right, displayed them all around the house because I hardly invited my parents over.  While I had these heels I never knew how to dress in them I could never put anything together.  Though out most of my life I was curious about a lot of things from the crossdressing, shemales, bisexuality, all that stuff.  During that stage in my life it was intriguing but I could never go through with the act because how I was brought up and just religious beliefs.  I applaud anyone that is confident to do what they do but there are boundaries that I personally am in fear of crossing.  But I did take lewd pictures over the internet (which I deeply regret) to people I thought were friends because I had no way of expressing myself out of my own doors. I did watch not so pleasant videos at the time because my curiousity was peaked.  Then I met my wife and she is great, we could talk about anything and everything it felt like.  After some time I told her that I had a love for shoes and that I wore them, but of course I failed to mention all the other things that caught my interest.  She said that if I would have mentioned everything else before then us getting married probably would not have happened so much which I understand.  But as time went on my wife found out about my other unpleasant things.  As a result I tossed all my shoes in the trash, which in my mind thought it would make my wife happy (that was not the case).  She wanted me to stop with the not so nice photos and figure out different methods to show off my shoes like finding out what outfits would work.  She always helped me shop for things and showed me what would work and what would not.  She recommended that I wear my shoes to places not so close to my neighborhood vicinity to protect my reputation and our family which made sense.  My point that I am getting at is that we talked about it and through out all my issues and discrepancies she has supported me.  Heels yes, the other extra stuff not so much.  The point she was getting at was that she wanted our time together separate because we don't go out that often and when  we do she wants things to be about just us and that's not asking for a lot.  She said that if someone was to ask who I was in heels she would acknowledge me as her husband regardless so that means a lot.  So I guess it goes with saying communication is key and that there is a time and place for everything.  Just want to say thank you all for the words of advice and for being a listening ear.  Feel free to hit me up whenever!

Well that's the part I have to disagree with you I bought my wife a lot of heels at first a little outrageous but then I wife is plus size so I try to adhere more to a style that was more appealing to her.  But what are they doing right now sitting in the closet, because my wife says we doing go anywhere of importance for her to wear heels.  Not even in intimacy.  I don't know about you all but sometimes just the T-shirt does not do it for me if you all know what I mean.  So she wants me to bend over backwards but I get squat for her to compromise.  I just feel like I'm expected to be a cookie cutter average husband.  I know I'm sound like I'm whining but this is right now the only outlet that I have to vent!!!

Well have not received that yet.  But I just don't think I will be sharing anymore.  I have to enclose it like how I play video games she doesn't care for video games but that is my past time so I guess it just falls in that category.  I don't know just now I'm in shut down mode just isolate from everyone.

Well the fact of the matter is this I'm not a crossdresser I just like shoes.  I told her about what I was into before we were involved in depth with each other either she would accept or leave me alone. I guess maybe it is best to keep that part of my life separate from my marital life.  I just know it is a cold and lonely path to walk but I guess her "tolerating" the shoes and preserving our marriage is better than nothing.

To answer your question I told her long before we got married.  We had been together for nine years before we got married, and I told her long before we got deep into our relationship because I knew that she would find out so I figured better to tell her now or never.  Either we would severe ties or we would continue on.  And we are still here.  I know at times that I let the obsession over consume me at one time but I had changed for the better.  I just hate that it is now classified as "my moment" and not "ours", because when it is classified as my time I just still feel more alone if that makes any sense.

I hear what you all are saying but, I don't think my wife is going to budge on this matter.  I just feel like I've lost motivation to share portions of my life. I know I can't expect my wife to like everything that I like but I just wish  there were people out there that feel the way that I feel would like to hang out with people like myself

I just have a question for you all as far as your significant others' knowing about your shoe obsession or fetish.  When you all have a moment together going out in your attires, is it classified as going out as friends or in a relationship.  The reason I ask is because I ran into this issue Sunday.  We go out to eat I'm wearing heels and so is she, I try to hold the door for her but she doesn't want me to do that.  Could not take any pictures with her of her.  Basically the whole day was classified as my day and not us spending it together.  She says that when I'm wearing the outfits and shoes and stuff then we are not to be considered In a relationship.  It just kind of bugs me that I have to separate the too.  Just kind of makes me question if my wife supports my love for shoes or just tolerates it.  I just know that I think I'm going to stop sharing that side of me to her  and find some other outlet (not cheating) but i just wish I had other friends that would be as supportive.  How are things considered in your relationships.

Well I got hooked at 12 about to turn 36  in 3 more months ummmmmmmmm..........NOPE don't think it will go away for me

Too bad we didn't make contact I live in Jacksonville.  I wish you well.  Hope that you will return again!

Hot indeed!!!