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  1. I think all you should do is let her decide when it's time to wear them. Since she agreed on you buying them for her chances are that she'll be happy to wear them for you for time to time but let it be up to her to decide. There's no doubt that she's very aware about how much you'll like them on her so there's really no need for you to ask her again and again. I can only speak for myself and even though I love when my hubbie gets all excited over something that I wear I would feel very objectified if he kept on bugging me and asking me to put it on for him. I'm absolutely not saying that this is what you're doing! It seems like you're on the other hand very inclined not to make her feel uneasy about this and that's a really good thing :-) So, my advice to you is to maybe ask her once in a very non-demanding kind of way and then let it be up to her. Maybe she'll surprise you when you least expect it? :-D

  2. Do we really need to make this a competition between the genders..? :) I'm absolutely not trying to reduce the things you have to deal with, all I wanted to do was shed some light on the fact that this is a problem for women as well. (It might not be as big of a problem for us but it's still a problem and we have a right to feel that it's a real problem despite the fact that you guys probably go through a lot worse) I believe that we all have the right to express ourselves and dress the way we want to (regardless of gender) but we might not get the same response from the general public. I totally agree on the fact that a man in high heels will have to put up with more nasty comments than a woman in short hair and masculine clothes but does that mean that it's not as important to discuss and work against the fact that women have to put up with similiar things? Imo you can't fight for one persons right to express himself the way he wants while you don't care about the girl standing next to him. I would like to see a world where EVERYONE could dress the way they wanted to. I don't care if you're a girl in a uniform or a man in stilettos, as a person you've got the right to be yourself. Period. Btw, sorry for the bad grammar, I just got home from work (where I dress up in a very manly uniform :smile: ) and I'm just so tired right now...

  3. You also have to keep in mind that this isn't just a problem for men. Unfortunetly there's a lot of guys and girls out there (and frankly I think there's a couple of them in here as well..) that has a very narrow minded view on how a woman should look and dress like. Guys praise the long-legged woman with high heels, short skirt and a very feminine, sexy look but at the same moment you choose to cut your hair and dress in loose fitted jeans and a t-shirt you're (according to some people) automatically not a "real" woman any more.

  4. What exactly is the difference between a female and a male sneaker? I love Nike and I've got a couple of sneakers and a pair of running shoes but I really can't say what differce them from the male verision (other than the color) And then we have the Converse sneaker which in my opinion is nothing but unisex.. And if they're unisex why isn't other sneakers? Frankly I'm a bit confused..

  5. I really don't get why we have two separate sections.. I mean, I understand that girls could get vulgar remarks before but isn't the easiest way to handle things like that just to take action against the person that's got bad manners? I sometimes read in the guy-section and wish I could be a part of your discussions 'cause they seem very interesting from time to time :-)

  6. I think we should use body rather than sex to determine what is acceptable. If you have the body to look good in it, go fo it. I actaully, catch myself during the day asking myself "would I like to see that in stillettos?" It's a rather fun little diversion.

    Thoughts like that scare me a bit..

    Isn't saying "you can only wear this and that if you have the correct body type" just as bad as saying "you can only wear this and that if you have the correct gender"?

    There's probably a decent amount of people out there that doesn't think I should wear stilettos either if they were to decide. Should I take that into concideration every time I go out in public?

    Instead of saying "if you have the body for it" I would like to say "if you want to"

    There's already way to many people out there worrying about what other people think about them instead of just doing what they want to feel good. If that means wearing stilettos even though you're not the kind of person people would find attractive in heels then so be it.

  7. Those are very beautiful sandals. What brand are they? My wife wants a pair now haha

    I'm not sure about the brand and I can't check right now since I'm about 150 km away from them at the moment. But I'll check in a couple of days if you like :smile: What I can tell you right away though is that they only cost about $30!

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