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Personally I've always been a fan of pointed toes, they're far more sexy than round or squared toes. Sometimes I have to make consessions to feel comfortable wearing my heels out and about though. Hopefully over time that will change.

While I'm not usually a fan of peep toes on me, I really like the look of your new slingbacks. Nice choice!

In my case it's high arches and the more supportive the boot or shoe the better. It just happens that high heels seem to help the most!

I feel happier, more comfortable and more like myself!

Ok, so i know that I just posted but I can't help it. Today I put of my black Nine West 3 1/2" block heel boots with a longer pair of jeans and a maroon button down shirt and headed out with my wife. First stop was to pick up my mother and my 11 year old sister. We headed of all places to our churches holiday craft fair, where we were sure to see many people that we know. We saw many old friends, bumped into an old girlfriend and her mother, talked to one of our priests and walked around for at least 2 hours. If anyone noticed my heels, I really don't even care. It was a great experience and I'm glad that my wife talked me into it. After dropping my mom and sister of at home, we headed to the oultet mall up north. Spent way too much money in Old Navy(all Christmas gifts), walked all around poking in all of the stores that we wanted and still no issues. When we finally went into the Nine West outlet, I was like a kid in a candy store. We looked around for a while and I was determined to try on at least one pair of boots even if I didn't buy anything. Sadly I was not overly impressed with the selection of boots, but I did try on a pair of stiletto knee boots with a semi squared toe. I really didn't like the look of them enough to justify buying them just for the sake of buying something. I was a little disappointed since I had been looking forward to our trip to Nine West for at least 2 weeks. We did end up stopping at our local Off Broadway Shoe on our way home. This is where I again tried on another pair of boots (3 1/2 block heel, round toe, black knee boot) which I ended up buying. These are definitely another pair of boots that I will feel comfortable wearing out and about, hopefully tomorrow. Over all another successful heeling experience. More to come, NH Heels

Hi and welcome, It's nice to know that other guys have wives that are as supportive as mine. NH Heels

Thanks for the encouragement and support HappyFeat. So many people here have helped to inspire me, yourself included. After reading about others experiences and seeing pics of what others are wearing out in public I always think to myself, "Well if he can be comfortable wearing a skirt and heels out then I should be comfortable enough to wear a pair of my boots under jeans." Thankfully for me, I have a wife who is very supportive and encouraging of my heal wearing. In fact it is something that we have a lot of fun with. As far as my family is concerned, my mother has known for several years and is of the opinion: if I'm happy and not hurting anyone then that's what matters. While I haven't discussed it with my father, I have a feeling that he already knows but hasn't said anything. I can only assume that because the rest of my family is used to seeing me in nothing but cowboy boots, that so far the only time they question my footwear is when I'm wearing sneakers. Trust me it was scary as hell, but I'd like to hope that my family loves me enough to accept me for who I am. More advendtures to come!! Cheers, NH Heels

My wife and I are going to the outlets this weekend and I am determined to not only wear my heels shopping but to try on anything I want in the Nine West store. Full steam ahead. I've only got one go around and I want to make the most of it!

I'm pretty sure this is the wrong forum!

I also voted "yes". I love to see my wife in a sexy pair of pumps or boots. For me the added thrill is that it is something that we both enjoy together.

I would nothing more than to be comfortable enough to wear my pointy toed stiletto boots under jeans without hiding them where ever I choose. With time I will get there. I also agree with Bootking...Stiletto, stiletto, stiletto...

Thanks guys. I need all the encouragement I can get. This place has definately been a great help. I only hope to help others the same way.

I started this weekend off with renewed confidence and an abundance of support from my loving wife...I knew that I would wear heels out (finally!) after too long being on house arrest, but I had NO idea what a ground breaking weekend this would be. It started out on Saturday and dinner out with my wife while wearing my 3 1/2 inch block heel, knee high Nine West black boots (pictures are in my album) with my jeans and a nice dress shirt, then a leisurely walk around Target. Sunday, my wife talked me into wearing the same boots to my Family Birthday Party...my heart was racing, but I did it - the whole day Sunday in my heeled boots! The only time anyone even noticed was when my Mother lifted up my pant leg because she thought she saw something stuck to my heel - and she didn't even say a word (yes, I've already told her about my interest in heels, and yes, she's fine with it). Next, because I had today off, I invited my Mom to go shopping with me at the local mall. Once again, I zipped up my beautiful black boots and toured the mall without even flinching...amazing! We went out to lunch and a couple other stores, but no one even seemed to notice my footwear. It was so liberating and I had such a great time. Best of all was tonight...after dinner, my wife and I went out to the grocery store. I decided to kick it up a notch and put on my brown 4 inch stiletto Nine West pointy toed boots. No panicking, no heart racing, no nervous sweat...I was fine! We were there about an hour and other than the floor being slippery, I maintained my confidence and poise and carried myself as I usually would. My wife was so proud of me...she couldn't stop saying it! As I sat down in my truck on the way back home, I took a deep sigh of satisfaction. I've always wanted to get the guts to wear my stiletto boots out and about, now I finally have and I'm hooked!

DawnHH, I could not have put it better my self! I am very fortunate in that I have a wife for my best friend and she is totally accepting and supportive of who I am. When I allow myself to be myself, we have a lot more fun and our relationship is so much more rewarding. Unfortunately, I still struggle with this everyday. I certainly agree that it never goes away and trying to bury it just doesn't work. It always comes back, sometimes stronger than ever. If we could all just accept ourselves for who we are, we'd all be much happier. Thankfully, I have never had to purge my collection because I have an awesome support system in my wife. To all of you who don't have a s/o who you can count on, please don't discount the life experiences of people like DawnHH and others on this forum, we all found this place for a reason. Cheers, NH Heels (Jim)

My wife and I went out to supper and shopping tonight. I was wearing a purple dress shirt, long mens jeans and a new pair of Nine West 3" chunky healed knee boots that i found on Ebay. As my jeans were long enough to cover all of the heel, probably no one even noticed. I am still trying to expand my comfort zone, so these seem to be a good way to go.

Thanks DawnHH. I lucked out in getting the last pair. We had seen them a few weeks ago and passed them up at the time. They are very sexy and very comfortable. Now to find the self confidence to wear them out!

Thanks, TBG. I was only wearing them around the house since I had just brought them home. I wasn't really going for a look at that time, but certainly appreciate the suggestions. I actually have a pair of black leather pants that they would look better with. Thanks also to Bootking.

After a long day that ended with me dropping my cell in the toilet, my wife took me shopping. We started at Verizon Wireless where I replaced well loved EN V2 with the EN V3. Then on to Burlington Coat where she bought me a pair of boots that I guess you could say I have been lusting over. Black over the knee boots with a 4 1/2" stiletto heel and pointed toes (need I say more?). My wife really does love me and knows how to make me feel better!

Last night I was in the kitchen cooking supper. I was wearing a brown t-shirt, long mens darker jeans and my favorite brown 4" stilleto knee boots under my jeans. The kitchen door was opened and out of nowhere a female neighbor was at the door calling for me or my wife. She didn't see me right away, but I came around the corner and greeted her and opened the door to let her in. She stayed and talked for about 15 minutes, the toes of my boots clearly showing the whole time. I don't believe that she ever looked down, but she certainly never seemed to notice, not that she could have seen the heel under my jeans. It never seemed to cross my mind that leaving the kitchen door opened would take the choice of running and hiding away from me. All in all it was a good experience. We even left the kitchen door opened again tonight!

While I do prefer a heel of at least 3 inches, it is the style of the shoe or boot that I find most important. I love a pointy toe, especially with a stilleto heel.

Very funny! Thanks for the laugh, it was much needed.

I voted yes. I usually fit in either a 9 1/2 or a 10 womans. They're pretty easy to find.

Just as a quick update. We did go to the Nine West outlets on Saturday. I did try on a pair of boots in the store(that I did not end up buying). My wife did "make" me buy a pair of brown 4" stiletto knee boots that I absolutely loved but did not try on (they fit and are very comfortable and easy to walk in). I will post pics in my album later on. The salesgirl made a good attempt at trying to help me, but I was still very nervous and probably came off as a total goof.

Mae, thanks for the encouragement. I know that most of my problem is in my own head. I am getting awful tired of giving advice that I don't take myself. It is very hard to walk into a shoe store full of incredible boots and not have the guts to try anything on nevermind buy anything without playing it off that they are for my wife. I am working on it though.

You forgot to add "Freak out all together and make the wife answer the door, while I change my shoes!" Sorry, I can be a little gun shy.