Becky

Matador.

Try these, they are called "Eve" and they are from Leatherworks.

I have a pair in cream and they are very nice

Bye then Paul.............don't slam the door on your way out

Daz, Firstly, nothing in your initial post shows or makes any reference to the admiration of the female posters that wear 5 1/2" heels. Secondly, you must understand that women have smaller feet and as such will find it more difficult to wear higher heeled shoes, i.e. a woman with size 5 feet will find wearing 3" heels comfortable, but guys who have size 10 feet will find wearing 5" heels comfortable - its physics Daz. So, don't go measuring what you wear against what we wear and then saying that it annoys you when we moan - because that in turn that annoys me, as you have seen Finally, I'll agree to stop retaliating as long as you stop posting comments about what I've said and what you're trying to say – don’t forget that hell hath no fury like a woman scorned!

Daz, your obviously an opinionated you lad who knows nothing about long term heel wearing and the problems that it can cause. We can walk quite happily in heels but after many years of heel wearing the feet start to become slightly deformed with the shape of the high heeled shoe and this can cause discomfort. Your analogy of driving is absolutely rubbish. The more experience of driving you have the better the driver you become, surely even you can see that from having past your driving test - or are you old enough? Your initial comments were to belittle women by saying that we should wear "real heels" and you made an arrogant comment to the effect that with your little experience you can wear heels better than we can. There I think we should quit............and P.S. take your snide comments to the guys section.

I think you are the one who is showing ignorance and a little immaturity - "you heel meets last a complete day".....wow!"

Daz, I wear heels for arduous shopping with my friends and we walk and walk and you have to remember that women do this on a regular basis. Nearly everything we do involves wearing heels - unlike you.

You can make your comments about women complaining, which is your prerogative. However it is not insulting for me to say that you have neither the experience, or the knowledge to comment on us women moaning at wearing 3" heels.

This section of the board is for women to post their comments and is not mine – although the men are seem to dominate this area more than the women. I do however find your comment rather offensive because you seem to think that wearing heels as little you do can justify you absurd comments.

Daz, You're right - I don't know you very well and by the sound of it you don't know women very well either, judging by your comments of us allegedly moaning that it is uncomfortable to wear anything over 3". How can you compare these ad-hoc "heel meets" and "your own escapades" as a comparison for our heel wearing - you're living in a fantasy world. I wear heels from 8am - 7pm, five days of the week, if I go out during the evening and all day at the weekend. I'm sure most women would handle wearing 4.5" heels just strutting around their bedroom and the occasional "heel meet" without any problems either. My advice to you is wear them as often as I or any other woman does then come back and say you can wear them comfortably. In all fairness to you, I also find it annoying when men exaggerate about the size of things too.

Banana

You said it Daz - you've only got 10,000th of the experience of us women and conversely 10,000th of the amount of heel wearing.

When you've got the same experience as us then you can proudly state that you can wear 4.5" - 5" without any problems. You're young and have a long way to go yet, especially as you predominantly wear them in your bedroom.

wood

Is it me or is there anybody else that doesn't bother reading long, long posts that seem to drivel on forever? There are a number of members that love to write and write and write - I hope that their efforts aren't totally wasted, because on me they are..............yawn :sleeping: I like to read punchy, short and sharp posts. So, why use half a dozen words when an essay will do - and you know who you are

Sophisticated..............hmmmm :rofl:

Well, what can I say

What lovely outfits you girls wear, I wish I had taste in clothes Becks

Hi Daz, Just wait until you have almost five times the amount you have, then you'll really be in a dilemma As an aside note, it is interesting you refer to the eleven pairs of shoes as "womens shoes". I thought you guys were quick to point out that they were just "shoes" and had no gender attached Becks

I think its quite sad if someone wears heels so frequently that they can't walk flat footed without discomfort. Think of all the things you can't enjoy anymore, for example: walking bare foot across a sandy beach as the sun sets, going out on a nice day for a ramble in the country - its just not the same wearing stilettos I just can't see why anybody would want to be 'stuck' in heels - I suppose its because its a hard-core fetish thing. Becks.

With respect Jamie, Heelwear may not be as fortunate as you are to have such understanding friends and strangers!! My advice heelwearer is to test the water and go subtle, then if things go well and you gain confidence then may be you can wear the bolder colours. Of course its entirely up to you, but bear in mind that not everyone is as open minded as those who post here. Becks.

Hi heelwearer, If you really want to wear nail polish on your toes then I suggest wearing a very light pink or clear as this probably won't attract too much unwanted attention. Wearing any other colour will get you noticed and as its you're first time then there may be looks, sniggering and un-wanted pointing. So, bear that in mind and good luck Becks.

Ohhhhhhh Trolldeg............great shoes and great legs I've got the exact same pair of sandals you have but only in beige. I haven't got the open toed slingbacks but they do look nice Hmmm, I think I'm going to have to consult with the leatherworks catalogue. Bubba, you know me too well - I am a tad jealous Becks

Vicki, Where do you wear these rubber outfits and doesn't it bother you wearing fetish clothing to places where people dress normal? I'd think it was totally strange if I saw you walk into a really nice restaurant wearing pink rubber and lace from head to toe and letting your boobs hang out. I think there should be a time and a place for everything and wearing those clothes to a restaurant is definately not the place. I've worn fetish leather and rubber on a number of occasions, but there are suitable venues for that sort of thing. I’d be too concerned that I’d offend people by what I wore. Becks

I don't think you can get DVT from wearing high heels - but I'm not a Doctor, so don't quote me. From what I've heard, you're at risk from DVT from sitting in one position for a long time and your arteries are constricted. On the news a few weeks ago was a young boy who had DVT from kneeling down and sitting on the lower parts of his legs whilst playing a playstation for up to 4 hours at a time. Becks

Heelfan, you took the words right out of my mouth Becks

Hi Paul, I think this has been explained before but I can't find the thread - sorry I have over 20 pairs of shoes from Leatherworks from sandals to boots. For some reason you have to order a sizes larger in courts and boots, and your normal size when ordering sandals, mules or slingbacks If I was you I send them back and order a half size if those are a little too big - I'm sure Andrew wouldn't mind. Regards Becks.

:rofl: Who's face and body is that anyway? Ok, so 'Belinda' knows how to superimpose and doctor images. That image looks so fake - I can't believe z17z17 said "Hi there, looking great' .............I think you need glasses Sorry to sound so rude, it just I prefer to see people for who and what they are and not some fake image. Becks