Charlotte

Name: Charlotte

Age: 25

Gender: Girl

Location: Philadelphia

Occupation: Engineer

Height: 5'7"

Weight: 119 pounds 

Shoe size: 6

What's your favourite heel style: Ballet

What's your favourite shoe style: I almost always where heels, but if not in ballet boots I prefer knee high 6 inch stiletto boots.  If your asking not heeled shoes probably rock climbing shoes or hiking boots.  Those are the only reasons not to wear heels.

Do you wear your heels outside: of course

Your favourite heel height: how ever high my ballet boots are

Your highest heel height: same

How often do you wear Your favourite heel height: almost always when home.  6 inch stiletto boots to woRk

 Do you wear socks, hose, stockings or bare feet with your shoes:  mostly bare or tights depending on weather.

Anything else you wish to add: feel free to ask more about me if you wa t to know

My husband waxes all my hair aside from head, eyebrows and eyelashes regularly.  I like being perfectly smooth for him.  It can hurt a bit but the result is great.

In my opinion heels are supposed to help you look better, more elegant and sexy.  Worn out shoes don't do that.  It's not the same as wearing a worn out pair of sneakers.  Heels are supposed to look dressed up and sophisticated.   So no… I haven't worn them after they get worn out. Also some of these problems are caused by the way the woman walks.   I see some woman walking with their ankles turned in and not nice and straight.  This isn't sexy to watch and will make them wear out the same way rollerblade wheels can wear on the inside of the wheel with inexperienced users.   If I see heels that are worn so that they are not straight I know the woman has not been working correctly in them.

I'm an engineer and my co workers (mostly men) always know I wear high heals (6 inch plus daily).  My job doesn't require working in the field but does require some lab work.  Luckily the only requirement in the labs are closed toe shoes although there is a lot of walking in the plant.  Recently I was switching departments and needed an interview with a new boss I hadn't met before for a big promotion.  My husband locked me in my ballet heals instead of my normal heals for the day.  He also put me in my corset under a tight shirt.  Needless to say I got the job.

 Fetish or not, if you're not willing to give it up then it's best to let them know before you get too involved.

2 minutes ago, Shyheels said:

Your assumption is that it is a fetish - for many on this site it is more about fashion and style.

I assumed that because it's a guy wearing heels.  I could be wrong though.  I kinda thought it was stronger the a fashion statement if it such a big deal.

Personally It wouldn't be a turn on for me if my man wore heels.  The question is would you give up that fetish for the right woman? (If she was compatible with most of your other desires). If not, the fact that some woman won't like it is irrelevant.  You would need to find one of the ones ok with it and  you would be unhappy untill you find that person.

So, as I said before, be honest before you invest to much time.  Also try darting sites that cater to your preferences so your odds are better.  This is not a dateing site, but sites like Fetlife might have more girls into guys in heels.

I'm forced to do a lot of stretching daily between heel changes.  I also hike in hiking boots regularly.  At this point I can confirtibly wear 6inch+ almost 24/7 but still be comfortible in flats.  The streaching really helps and keeps my feet flexible.  Since I don't wa t to be forced to wear heals when I'm 80 years old I think keeping my feet flexible is important.  My husband forced my feet to stretch when I get home from work before my ballet boots go on.  

There is no such thing as to high assuming I can get them on 

In normally locked in ballet boots when I get home from work.  (My husband hold keys)  They are on all the time when home.  When going out I'm locked in 6 inch stiletto boots with the keys left home.  If we are doing s hiking/camping trip I'm locked in hiking boots during the day and ballet boots at night.  So yea, I'm forced to wear heels pretty much all the time.

Mainly just work on stretching and balance.  I can walk in mine easily without a wall, but it did take time.  It's easier if you don't keep feet directly next to each other when stopped untill you get good at balenceing. 

On 5/3/2013 at 6:17 AM, Louise28 said:

Much good long distance travel advice from you there Amanda! might take notes myself! I'm naughty and don't switch to flats for driving. Interesting what you said about t-straps or ankle straps for the airport. i tend to go for courts i can slip off easily, without bending down to unstrap if I get asked by the security folks to remove my shoes!

 

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My husband likes me to make a scene so he forces me to wear 6 inch stiletto knee high boots at the airport.  They don't zip and must be laced up.  He likes watching me struggle to re lace them quickly in front of everyone after getting through security.  Do to the shoe bomber my airport always makes us remove shoes.

I wear mine too.  No need to change when you arrive.

If I see a cute girl in heels and then she lights up it ruins it.  IMO smoking makes cute heels look worse.

I'm normally stuck in ballet boots at home.  I love the restriction and the tightness makes me feel vulnerable and comfy. 

My husband makes me where 6 inch to the office daily.  (No platform) I work 3 days a week in the office and 2 from home so on the home days it is ballet boots or even higher with platform.  If the shoes arnt patent leather or something else that screams sexy, very high heals can still be work appropriate.

In my opinion just being honest is the best policy.  One of 2 things will happen.  Either she will like it and you wil be happier or she doesn't and you find out she's not the right person for you.  I've found out the hard way that a guy was not right for me.  It was better to find out then invest more time in it.

In my opinion it looks sexy.  I wouldn't think inappropriate though.   I rairly dangle though since most of mine have ankle straps.