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  1. So, when would wearing heels be a fetish and when not? Depending on whether you get sexual arousal or not? Whether it's obsessive or not? What's obsessive? Like, is it so many hours a day, or so many days a week? I think a lot of times, we're more afraid of what other people might call a fetish than we are of ourselves. And if it is a fetish, is that necessarily bad or just something we enjoy?
  2. "Fetish," is a highly-charged word that simply means something you like, despite the fact that it may be somewhat unusual.
  3. I heartedly agree on rule #2. I've repeatedly found that if a shoe isn't comfortable during the first minute of wearing it, it will never be.
  4. Dangling heels is pretty common. So go ahead and don't worry about it. Dangling heels is sometimes seen as provocative but if the rest of your demeanor isn't sending that signal, I wouldn't worry about that either. I personally don't dangle because most of my shoes have heel straps, and because my right foot is a half size smaller than my left, and so I usually have to wear a footsie on that side.
  5. Thanks for the links! Sizing and returns are both issues when buying from Hong Kong, though. Have to think about that...
  6. Except for the bows I like them a lot, and I imagine you can leave the bows off. Where did you find them? And what would you wear with these if you went out? It seems a shame to cover them with long pants.
  7. Sorry about your injury. Did you wear heels at all before being injured? I, too, occasionally have people say they like, "I like your heels," or, "Where did you get those?" or, "You walk very well in those." And I truly appreciate the acceptance.
  8. What kind of pain do 4+ inch heels relieve for you? At one time I considered telling people that I wore heels because relived a pinched nerve in my back, but I never went through with that. Instead I tell anyone who asks that I always wondered what they were like, or that I just have fun being goofy. And what about the other 4-6 months? Do you still wear heels but with something else, or do you stop wearing heels too?
  9. No, they're up to it. Mostly I wear 3" dress sandals in this weather and one advantage is that they keep my feet further from the pavement.
  10. I don't suppose there are a lot of places where you could work in heels, but I know there are some. The whole transgender-is-OK trend has opened up some opportunity for heel- and skirt-wearing, even if you're not actually transgender. Mostly it's non-customer-facing office jobs, like programmers and engineers, but I'm aware of a vintage-auto car shop manager who works in heels and a skirt, and I've seen photos of it at Home Depot.
  11. That's a great set of looks there, CAT. Do you dress like that most or all of the time? What abut work?
  12. And yet, I know on another board, a professor who teaches in skirts and heels and a health center medical technician who wears skirts to work every day. I guess it just depends on the institution.
  13. Thanks for the warning, blue parrot, but it really surprises me. Areas in and around college campuses are usually pretty laid back. I can't recall going on Mill Avenue in heels or a skirt, though, so I really can't say for sure. But damn, that's a strange dynamic. Now you've got me wanting to try it, just to see. Except that I really have no other reason to go there.
  14. HI, everyone, and thanks for accepting me on this board. My interest in heels stems from an interest in skirts which started when I was a Boy Scout. Occasionally I'd see photos of Scottish scouts wearing kilts and that fascinated me. But alas, in the United States, there was no place to buy one. In the 1960s, when I was in high school and college, I gravitated to "Mod" clothing: frilly shirts, bell-bottom pants, that sort of thing. To go along with that I bought some men's shoes with maybe 1 or 1-1/2 inch heels but they were no big deal. In the early 1970s I was in the army stat
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