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Hi All,

I was looking for some tips or ideas on what to wear with my shoes?

I have been wearing black ballet flats with black tights and black jeans which hide them very well but I have bought some low wedges and Im not sure what to wear with them I want to try popping in to a shop or something but dont have the guts.... I am also going to go to the cinema and change in to heels once im in there I just like the thrill or wearing them in public but also being secretive!

That all makes sense... I was gradually walking a bit more relaxed and not worrying about walking past people and who knows maybe one day I might try a small heel! Thanks for all the replies 

.... I wore flats, opaque nylons and black jogging bottoms... All black so no one noticed so not really heels!

it felt really good, it was late at night and I was still a bit nervous but the longer I was out the more I didnt care, I had to walk to get my car so thought what the heck lets try it! It was an hour long walk and I'd only ever walked around my estate before but this was through the city centre so I'm happy

Maybe try a supermarket late at night next! 

Hey Everyone,

Thank you for the replies, I have to say I have never experienced such helpful and kind people so thank you.

I did go to the cinema during the day and once I got in and sat down I did change in to some flats (not heels I know, not that confident yet) I had on opaque black tights underneath and it felt great, thought about visiting the loo with them on but I crossed my legs instead! lol

Again thank you for the replies hopefully I will progress from here

Hi,

thank you for the reply, I don't think I'd ever have the confidence to wear heels in public, I know it sounds silly but I care what people think.....

I do wear the heels around the grounds of my house when its quiet, I even thought about going to the cinema and changing in to them when the film started so no one can see! just like the feel of wearing them in public but only of no one can see lol

Hi Everyone,

I am a newbie here, been browsing the forums for a while but only just signed up great forum..

I wanted to ask a question, I like wearing high heels at home sometimes (don't dress up or anything just the heels) I have recently been walking around my estate late at night wearing ballet flats, black tights and dark jeans (so no one can see!) and its feels great!

I would never have the confidence to go in to a shop or a store wearing them so does anyone have any tips on how to overcome this? like maybe a particular shoe I can wear (maybe unisex) or something so it doesn't look obvious?