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No I wore the black flats in my picture above  hopefully ill get another opportunity to do it again soon

Hi All,

Well I managed it and it was fantastic, I really tried to not think about what other people were thinking/seeing and it really made it so much easier

Thanks all for your comments, here's to more outings hopefully!

I used to do it years ago and really enjoyed it but I need my confidence back.... Attached a picture of what I'm wearing... Yes I know not very daring at all but it is for me

Hi All again, 

I've finally been out! Went to a couple of shops in my flats wearing black tights considering a supermarket with a trolley tonight so I can film myself....

I hope no one thinks this is strange but I'm quite interested in the shoeplay side of things and I enjoy slipping the flats on and off which is why I try and film only my bottom half (hate seeing myself on camera!) so the camera in the trolley is ideal as it also hides it from other people 

Thank you all,

No I'd prefer not to show my whole body so I think just having the phone in the trolley would be discreet enough although I will look at the Go Pro option too.

I do want to get back into this as I have come out of a relationship and I really rather enjoyed this

Hi All,

I am a relative newbie here (I have posted a while ago) and I wondered if I may ask for some advice/tips....

I want to get back in to trying to wear flats in public (and eventually hopefully heels) I used to do this a while ago when I used to go late night food shopping when I was much more relaxed.

I would like to try and film myself, does anyone have any tips on how to do this discreetly? I have tried putting the phone in the trolley which works well but it is still a bit obvious!

Thank you all in advance!

aw wow thanks for the comments everyone

Same as these but a bit lower and not Kurt geiger of course! 

they were just plain black casual type heels (2 inch) will find a picture later and post

Well they were probably ankle length, you could definitely see the top of my foot and the nude nylons just made them even more noticeable!

Hi All,

I have a place I like to go to (generally in the evenings) where I can walk about in my heels (very quiet area).

I was sitting on a bench just enjoying the coast and then in the distance I could hear talking and it was getting louder! by now i'm starting to panic slightly and they walked right past me.... I froze  OMG it the first time I I had been caught! so I had to just keep my head down and sat there.... was a horrible experience but after it was over and I thought about it, it wasn't too bad and I have been back since.

I was wearing black jeans with black heels and nude nylons (so I did stand out a bit with the nude nylons)

I have always worried what other people think (easier said than done not to worry about it) so maybe now it's happened, I wont feel so embarrassed if it happens again  

Will do

Because I'm using the rear camera on the phone, its hard to know whether I'm in shot or not lol would be good to walk about without worrying if I'm walking in the right place! I tend to put the phone on the trolley, leave the trolley then walk up and down the aisle! Must be an easier way 

Hey Everyone,

I have just started wearing flats out when I go shopping (albeit late at night but it felt great!) This might sound weird but I like to film myself to see what I look like to other people, does anyone else do this? if so does anyone have any tips?

I tend to put the phone on the trolley so it doesn't look too obvious

Am I weird? lol

Thanks for all the suggestions, I went shopping in my flats the other night and it was great, just want to find a pair that are a bit of both then I'll be more confident to wear them during the day...... 

Thanks for the replies

the clarks one certainly look good, i currently have these, pair of black tights and black jeans they are ideal really but fancy a change!

will search ebay for clarks I think

Hi All, 

Hope everyone is well.. 

I am looking for some new flats (ideally ladies) but are quite discreet. I've worn my other flats in public but I want something a bit more daring now (starting from off small!) anyone know any good brands? Not up to wearing heels in public yet 

Happy in heels, yes I did it was great! I have since been to get fuel while wearing them so it will be shopping next!

I got them from eBay, bargain!

They do look very inconspicuous and I know that really no one will notice but there's always that small niggling doubt in my head

Hi All,

As I'm only just starting to try public outings Im starting small. I went to the cinema last night, parked up and changed in to some flats with opaque black tights and jeans and walked to the cinema. It felt great to be in public even if it's only in flats (not ready for heels!) I'm going to try getting some fuel tonight while wearing them and hopefully it won't be too obvious! I have the ones in the attached picture except in black 

Hi All,

After my heels at work experience, I'm going to try heels in the cinema. Once it goes dark I'm going to try the switch to heels, it's ideal for me as I am only a beginner and no one can see me. Not sure what I can try after this other than going out in public properly 

Well I'm at the stage of I love wearing heels at home, I drive with heels or flats sometimes and late at night I do go for a walk around the neighbourhood in flats (not up to the heels stage as yet) I'm trying to find some masculine looking women's moccasins that I can wear for my first public outing before I build up to heels!

Well I did struggle to work too, was slightly distracted haha

There was no one there hardly plus it was under the desk (I didn't walk around or anything) plus I wouldn't do it anyway if I thought it would cause issues, plus I'm not brave enough yet!) 

Hi All,

hope you all had a good Xmas and new year! Between Xmas and new year, I was working but it was very quiet in the office and my desk is at the very back and no one sitting beside me or behind so I was brave and changed in to some heels under the desk and OMG what a rush! think it was knowing I was wearing them and no one else knowing (did have to change pretty quickly once or twice as someone came behind me to grab their coat!) but all in all it was very enjoyable!