Mckailah

I am leaving this site, never to return, all because the "moderator", Tech, decided that professionalism does not belong in Private Messages. Please do not make an assumption about a person from just looking at their profile, or by a simple mistake. I am Sicilian. NOT American. I hold citizenship, but I am not American. I am also not the simpleton that Tech seems to think I am. This site needs help. IF there is a "Girls only" forum, then block it from the guys. There, problem eliminated. Same for the "Guys only" forum; block it from the girls. Again, Problem eliminated. I have sent another private message to Tech, telling him to delete my profile. Thank you very much for all of your kind words over the few years I was here, and for all the support of the wonderful people who occupy this forum on a daily basis, minus Tech. May you all be successful in everything you attempt, and may you all be blessed in everything you do.

So... the other day, I was browsing the forums here at HHPlace. I wandered into the "For Girls Only" forum, and noticed that one post was asking for help about sizing a pair of heels. Pleaser heels to be more accurate. I replied to her post with helpful information, from experience, as I own many many pairs of Pleaser heels.

This is what I posted:

I have purchased pleaser shoes in the past. This is what I have noticed about Pleaser. If you are getting the Seduce Pumps, sizing also depends on the heel height. The 4 inch pumps I got ran about a half size small, where the 6 inch Scream pumps were about a full size too big. Both shoes were ordered in a US 11. The 5 inch heels fit almost perfectly, but they were a little narrow, so if you are going with anything Pleaser, MAKE SURE you figure out the width of your feet. If you go too narrow, you will be hurting after a little bit of time, whereas too wide and you will have more blisters than you could imagine. Also, pay close attention to the price of the shoes wherever you are buying them. Some retailers buy in bulk at a cheap price, but seem to be lacking in the QA department. I have had to return three pair of Pleaser shoes, that I bought from discount stores online (my fault), because of poor construction. You also want to do the stand up test with all pleaser shoes with a narrow heel. If he shoe stands up by itself, the heel is centered correctly and will be much more comfortable than if it falls over. Hope this info helps you out a bit.

This is what I see in my personal inbox today!

You have received an infraction at High Heel Place.

Reason: Guy Posting in the girls forum

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Guy Posting in the girls forum

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This infraction is worth 1 point(s) and may result in restricted access until it expires. Serious infractions will never expire.

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This is my reply:

So you are telling me that JUST because I am a guy that I cannot offer help to a girl who was asking for help? That is retarded. I know that that forum is for girls only. I know that there is a guys only forum. I simply read the post, noticed that the GIRL who posted the post was asking for help on a pair of HIGH HEEL SHOES, which is what this site is all about, right? ARE YOU KIDDING ME? I don't care about getting the infraction. You can give me another one if you want. There was a question asked out there and I had an answer so I answered the question. If this is how you feel about someone helping someone else, please feel free to let me know. If this BS is how you run your site, please feel free to start banning a lot of your users, because I am sure they feel the same way.

Does anyone else feel the same way I do, that just because it is the "for girls only" forum, that guys with experience and answers to questions shouldn't post them in this forum? I feel the same way about the "for guys only" forum. What kind of sexist crap is this anyway, when the site is about HIGH HEELS and we still have to buy into the media's segregation of men / women in heels?

Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated. Hopefully before the admins remove this post and ban my account for life.

Thank you for that inf. I didn't know that something this extreme would have been tolerated in any market back in the 30's. That is really great info. If you happen to run into any place that even has pictures, could you please let me know? I would be greatful.

I just bought two pair of new heels. I bought a pair of Ellie 5" classic pumps with an ankle strap in black patent, and a pair of Devious Scream-12 6" pumps with no platform and a steel heel. Still trying to perfect walking in the Screams, but standing is not anywhere as big an issue as my ballet boots. The Ellie's are very comfy and I have little to no difficulty wearing them.

I have spent the better part of three months searching for someone who can either sell or make a type of fetish shoe that I saw a very very long time ago. They were essentially ballet boots with ah heel that was anywhere from 2 to 6 inches longer than they needed to be. As a better visual, try to imagine a normal ballet boot. Now think of the boot with a heel that touches the ground 2 - 6 inches below the toe, with no platform. Basically it is completely impossible for the toe to touch the ground. You would be standing on nothing be the heel. Obviously these are in no way shape of form going to be used for any type of walking or standing activity heh heh. If there is anyone out there that could help, please, please let me know. Your assistance in this matter would be greatly appreciated.

I would have to say that being in the military we do 12.6 mile Ruck Marches twice per year. Doing 12.6 miles in combat boots, with a 50 lb. ruck sack is extremely challenging. I could only imagine doing a 26 mile walk in heels. I would absolutely love to attempt it, but I don't see that happening in the near future. I voted for the Dolly 50, but the Betty 1 or Divine 440 should be suitable, a long as you make sure to use gel insoles and give the shoes at least a month of steady wear for breaking in. Also, if you are to do this marathon, be sure to use microfiber walking socks. They are two layered socks that runners use because all of the friction on the heel is absorbed in the two layers rubbing together. You could also try a well fitted pair of microfiber tights with a pair of microfiber knee highs under them, but that would also generate a lot of heat and keeping cool, along with proper hydration, are essential for doing any type of walking over 5 miles.

It seems as if you may have poor circulation in your feet, or either they are just really cold at about 2 o'clock. However, you stated that they hurt when you bend them. This could be caused by a bunch of different things, but I will post here about themost prevalent three. 1. Poor circulation. Standing in the altered position of high heels, you are placing more of your weight on the balls of your feet, thereby causing the larger blood vessels in your feet to become constricted. You can usually help to aleviate this by adding a gell insert into your heels. They give the foot a softer place to lie than the sole of the shoe, and also help to relieve strain placed on the ball of your feet. 2. Cold. Simply put, get a thick pair of hose or something to cover your feet while wearing your heels at 2 o'clock. 3. a tendon issue. You could have a stretched, perforated, torn, microtorn, inflammed, or overcontracted tendon. All of these conditions should be checked out by a doctor. You should try different stretching exercises for your feet if you have been determined to have one or more of these issues. Have a wonderful day. McKailah

I can suggest two things to help compensate for the way you walk when walking flat. Dr Scholls has a heel pad that corrects the alignment of your heel to arch that simply sits in the heel section of your shoe. When you wear flats or any other flat soled shoe, place a pair of these in your shoe. It will correct the alignment of your foot when walking flat. There is also another heel insert that is made for high heel shoes. You could try those out as well. You will probably notice a good bit of pain relief, as these inserts realign your foot, thereby realigning every joint up to your lower back. The other thing I can offer is that before walking around flat, sit in the pike position (on the floor with your legs outstretched and together, flat on the floor), take a towel or belt and place it around the balls of your feet, then grasping both ends of the towel or belt gently pull towards your torso stretching your feet, arches, ankles, and calves. Hold this GENTLE stretch until you feel the tightening of your calf muscles start to subside, the rest for about 30 seconds and repeat two or three times. Over the course of about a month, you should be able to wear flats or heels without a lot of difficulty. This stretch is used by many people in the dance profession so that they can easily transition between heels and flats. Remember though, I am not a doctor, so practice this at your own discresion.

Me and my wife both play Guild Wars. She also plays a lot of other PC games, like Icewind Vale and a lot of the other lower end games. My Guild Wars name is Chief Wannaslapaho. I have a few other characters, and a lot has changed since my return home. Look me up if anyone is ever online with Guild Wars. Also look for www.myspace.xcom/chiefwannaslapaho.

I finally made it home safely from my deployment and almost killed myself the other night trying to walk in my ballet boots. I can stand in them but cannot walk in them yet. I am practicing in them a lot and wear them to bed at night to help with the stretching and aclimatizing myself to them, and will have some pictures soon. Right now, the only pictures I have are of my wife sitting on the bed modeling them for me while I was in Iraq, but soon enough there will be more pic tures and I will post them.

bicycle

No. The shoes were the focal point of my avatar, my wife put them on and took some pictures for me, but sadly, it is not me. I do have a picture of myself on my profile though in 3 inch block heel go go boots.

I drive a 1998 Chrysler Sebring LXi. My wife drives a 1999 Chevrolet Tahoe sitting on 36 inch tires.

The Hammond organ is just a double layer keyboard with foot pedals aranged in the same array as a keyboard. It is a little more challenging, but I can play it. The Theremin is the instrument that was used to create the original Zelda main title Theme. I am a geek, I know. I have only had the opportunity to use one once, but it was definitely a learning experience. I never thought I would be playing an instrument I didn't have to touch, but there i was, making sounds with this thing and then I started to listen to what I was doing and before long I was playing the Zelda theme. All by ear of course.

Sounds great. I have a leather punch at home, but I guess I will need to go shopping to find an eyelet pliar.

I have a few recipes up my sleeve.

Fake Fried Chicken:

Coat whichevre pieces of chicken you would usually fry in beaten egg. Then coat in flour with whichever spices and herbs you choose to add. (You can double batter if you like)

Place on a cookie sheet or casserole dish. Bake in oven on 350 degrees F for about 30 minutes or until cooked all the way through. When Done, Chicken should be moist with a crunchy breaded layer, just like frying, but without the oil or fat.

Southern Style Chicken and Dumplings.

Boil 5-10 large chicken thighs or breasts until cooked or falling off bone.

Hard boil 5-7 eggs.

Make dumplings:

There are three ways to do this:

1. Use Grands Homestyle Buttermilk Biscuits, roll in flour, flatten, cut into strips. (some people prefer small balls of dough instead of strips)

2. Make a bread dough using a dough batter like Bisquick using the directions on the box, then flatten and cut into strips.

3. Make dough from scratch by combining flour, water, salt, egg, and other ingredients used to make generic dough.

Brint the broth from the boiled chicken to a boil. You should use about 1/2 to 3/4 of what is left in the pot after boiling the chicken. (The pot should now be about 1/2 full of broth)

Remove the skin and bones from the chicken, break meat into smaller pieces, add to boiling broth. Remove the shell from the hard boiled eggs, chop eggs into small pieces, add to broth. Drop dumplings one at a time, remembering to stir the pot continuously. (You can drop a little flour at a time into the pot while it is boiling to thinken the broth if you would like.)

After the dumplings have soaked up the water they are going to, reduce heat and add spices and herbs to taste. I usually use salt, garlic powder, onion powder, a pinch of oregano, and a pinch of rosemary for a wonderful scent.

Let cool for a bit, then serve in a bowl with a touch or oregano on top.

I play every instrument known to man. Honestly. This is a list of Everything I own. Guitars: 1. 1973 Martin D12-18 12 String Acoustic 2. 2001 Fender 12 String Electric Acoustic 3. 1999 Countess 6 String Acoustic 4. Rogue Dreadnaught 6 String Acoustic 5. 1981 Epiphone Dual Neck 12 String top 6 String bottom Electric 6. 1977 Hormony Inc. 16 String Steel Guitar 7. 2007 Custom S101 6 String Dobro Brass Instruments: 1. Bach Trumpet 2. Yamaha 4 Valve Euphonium 3. Yamaha 4 Rotary valve French Horn 4. Bach Trombone Woodwind Instruments: 1. Yamaha Professional Grade Flute 2. Bach Oboe 3. 2 Bundy Alto Saxophones Other: 1. Casio 144 Key Electric Piano 2. Mississippi Co. Harmonica with Key Change button 3. Bach Electric Violin I played for 8 years in High School and Middle School bands, as well as sing in the church choir since age 11.

Crocs...I am a member of a group on Facebook that is titled: "Crocs: I don't care how comfy you think they are, you look like a retard wearing them" These shoes are now the standard issue footwear to federal prisoners. That should go to show you exactly what the fasion industry endured when they created these grotesquely rotten monsters. They look like they should have come from a Gremlins movie. And these other forms of "footwear" (in quotes as I would never wear anything like these on MY foot) should be stricken from the sands of time, for all eternity. wearing these shoes should be treated as a crime punishable by "hanging you by your toes" as the old saying goes. There...I feel a little better now.

I was wondering if there were any members who reside around the Aiken, SC or Fayetteville, NC areas who would be interested in meeting up, hanging out, shopping, or just moral support. I am currently out of the country, but should be returning in October and have some vacation time stored up. Let me know if you are interested and we can set up a time. McKailah

An 86 year old man went to his doctor for his quarterly check-up. The doctor asked him how he was feeling, and the man said, "Things are great. I've never felt better. I have a 20 year old bride who is pregnant with my child. What do you think about that, Doc?" The doctor considered his question for a minute and began to tell a story. "I have an older friend, much like yourself, who is an avid hunter and never misses a season. One day he was setting off to go hunting, and in a bit of a hurry, accidentally picked up his walking cane instead of his rifle. As he neared the lake, he came across a very large male beaver sitting at the water's edge. He realized he left his gun at home and so he couldn't shoot the magnificent creature. Out of habit he raised his cane, aimed it at the animal as if it were his favorite gun, and whispered, 'Bang, bang,' as he did with every shot. Miraculously, two shots rang out and the beaver fell over dead. Now what do you think of that?" The old man said, "Logic would strongly suggest that somebody else pumped a couple of rounds into that beaver." The doctor replied, "My point exactly."

I bought a pair of black patent ballet boots with padlock only to find out that the locking strap is sewn on the side that has the lock and Velcros on the other side, thus providing no lock whatsoever. I was wondering if anyone may have any ideas other than the one listed below as to how I could make these shoes lock. My idea: Punch a hole through both the velcro side of the strap and the corresponding spot on the velcro of the boot, then run an eyelet through the shoe and through the hole in the strap and then attach lock. The problem I am running into is actually making the eyelet part of the shoe, in other words sewing it into place. Any help would be appreciated.

If you start to notice that the guys are all raiding the Women's departments, please let me know cause I will move to Australia. Nice to see there is the beginnings of a movement towards equality in fasion.

As far as the numbness goes, That was mainly because of a few things. 1, you weren't trained and used to wearing heels that high. 2, your feet have blood vessels that run directly under the ball of your foot, so if you are in heels for a long time and aren't used to it, then the circulation could get cut off temporarily causeing numbness and a tingling sensation afterwards for a few days. it is the same principle as your leg going to sleep, but it is from the ball of your foot to the toes. When you train yourself into heels, you actually cause your body to build a thicker wall around the blood vessels in your feet and those thicker walls keep you from losing circulation. 3, if you were wearing a strappy sandal or open toed shoe, you could have accidentally cut off circulation from them being a little too tight. 4, make sure that if you wear any other heels that you stay away from pointed toe and extreme heels for a while. Those pointed toe shoes cause people to jam their toe in thinking that the size they have is correct and that forces your toes to bend towards the center putting extra strain on the tendons and muscles in your toes. I can tell you some exercises that will help you to get the feeling back quicker. Stand up straight with a wall in front of you for support. Tighten your buttocks and raise yourself as high on to your toes as possible, hold it for about 30 seconds or a minute and go back down. Repeat this about ten times. With bare feet, sit on the ground, take the opposite ends of a rolled up towel in each hand, hook it around the ball of your foot and pull it back towards your stomach as far as you can without pain and hold it until the stretching feeling starts to go away. Repeat this about ten time, then move the towel to the arch of your foot and repeat the process about ten times. Place your heels together and move the toes of your feet apart as far as you can, like a ballerina doing a pirouette, then bend your knees as far as you can, then straighten your legs. Repeat this about ten times. These exercises will help you to develop the muscles in your feet and legs and also stretch the tendons that will allow you to wear higher heels without pain.

I am not familiar with UK sizes, but you pretty much have to try it on. If you buy a lot from the internet, check sizing charts, which are usually posted on the sites. If you try on a boot and it is too tight in the calf or thigh, you will start to feel your heartbeat in your calf or foot after about 5 minutes. You should be able to tell if it will fit you well or not if you put the shoe on and it feels too tight or too loose, try a different shoe. A shoe should be comfortable as soon as you put it on. That is the key to finding the correct size. You can find some websites like www.snaz75.com that will show you the size conversion charts and you should also keep in mind that a wide foot and wide calf are usually going to be a little more snug in women's thgh boots.

Try www.queenfashions.com www.janetscloset.com www.allheels4men.com or www.crossdressers-windsor.co.uk www.doreenfashions.co.uk

These sites should have some helpful information on selecting the right size or at least a size conversion chart or something

Here is part one of my first story. Part 2 to come later. Crash Course in Ballet Heels Part 1 Breeeep....Breeeep....Breeep....SMACK! John awakens with a start, slapping the snooze button on his alarm clock. He opens his eyes, looks at the time. 5:30 am. Time to go back to sleep, he thinks to himself as he turns off the alarm. He rolls over, looks at his adorable wife laying beside him, and wanders what she is dreaming about as he falls asleep. Sandy waits for about 30 mintues. Just enough time for John to hit that stage of sleep that she knows oh so well. She could jump up and down on the bed without ever waking him up. A smile forms across her face as devious thoughts start to race through her mind. She slowly gets out of bed, leaving the lights in the bedrrom, and walks towards her closet. She has wanted to do this for a long time, and hopes her husband won't object. She slides the closet door open, revealing her varied wardrobe, looking for the perfect outfit. She looks through her collection of nightgowns, dresses, blouses, lingerie, and other items, but knows she had the perfect outfit set aside already. She just can't seem to find it. She keeps looking, but to no avail. She covers hre side over and over, but then decides to look in the other side of the closet, as some of her outfits have mysteriously appeared in his side before. There it is, right on the end. She pulls it from the closet bar, and lays it on the nightstand. It is a beautiful cotton black dress with an open back, choker collar, and three strips of black fabric attaching the dress to the collar in front. She slides it over her body, then attaches the collar around her neck. She lets her long brown hair fall over her back and shoulders. She looks back in the bottom of her closet and sees a pair of black patent pumps with a 6 inch heel, triple ankle strap, and no platform. "I haven't worn these in a very long time," she thinks to herself as she slides her foot into the first one. After she has them on, she looks at her husband lying asleep in bed. "First things first," she whispers as she reaches back into her closet pulling out a purple plush velvet knee length halter dress. She looks at it for a moment, comparing it to her husband figure. "I think this should do nicely," she whispers again. She lays it on the nightstand, and proceeds to look through her dresser drawers to find the right things to go with it. There she finds a light purple convertible bra with a halter option, deep purple bikini cut briefs, black microfiber tights in the largest size she had, and her spare bottle of Veet with the bladeless razor. She walks into the bathroom, noticing that her ankles are alittle more wobly than she thought in these heels, and grabs a towel and a bowl of water. Walking back into the bedroom, she notices that her husband has rolled onto his back. She looks at him with her pale blue eyes and smails as he has positioned himself perfectly for her. She walks over to him with towel and Veet in hand, starts to lather small sections of his hairy legs and proceeds to remove the hair with very little effort. After removing all the hair from his legs, she moves all the way up his body and removes all the hair below his eyebrows. Then, she slides his boxers off, and replaces them with the deep purple bikini briefs. Then she manages to get the tights over his smooth legs and stares in wonder as she thinks about what he might say or do if he wakes up. She shakes herself out of her day dream, and gets the bra on him, but now the biggest challenge is going to be getting the dress on. After struggling for a few minutes, she finally gets the dress in place, and John lets out a small grunt, and rolls onto his left side. Now Sandy has only a few things left to do. She walks back over the her closet pulls out a box she put there just two days ago. Inside the box is a pair of ballet boots she bought in her husbands size and waited for the right time do emply them. She walks over to her husband, and places each of his feet inside the ballet boots, laces them as tight as she can get them, then slides a shoe lock over each foot and locks the shoes on his feet. Then she takes the keys to the locks, and puts them on top of the bathroom vanity. "He's gonna have to walk in there to take these shoes off, now," she whispers as she smiles. She looks in the bottom drawer of her dresser and pulls out a few items to use. She looks at each one as she lays it on the night stand. First, the riding crop they have used a few times before. Then, the first pair of real handcuffs they had ever bought. Then, she pulls out two pieces of cotton rope she bought from the local "novelty" shop. She takes each of his feet and ties them to the corners of the footboard, then handcuffs his hands together above his head through the headboard. She walks downstairs to the laundry room, grabs the shock collar they had when they were training their last dog, places a new battery in it, and takes it back upstairs. She places the shock collar around John's neck, tightens it to the right size, tuns it on, then smiles really big as she lets the riding crop smack against hs chest. John wakes up with a jump and finds himself helplessly tied to the bed. Sandy takes full advantage of his surprise and tells him what she has done, then explains what she is going to do. "I am going to go have some fun with a few friends, today." she says as she puts the key to the handcuffs in his mouth. "I will be gone until late afternoon, so this is your chance. The shoes on your feet are locked in place and the only way to get them off is to walk into the bathroom. The keys are on the vanity. Oh, one more thing sweetheart. If you don't walk, and you try to do anything else to get to the bathroom other than walk with one foot in front of the other, I will press this little button. You know what this button will do? That is the old shock collar you have around your neck. You try to take it off, and I push the button. Any questions?" Shaking his head nohe looks at her with confusion in his eyes. She kisses him, then walks over to a chair beside the door and sits down. She tells him to do whatever he wants, but he knows the consequences for doing what she said not to....