MetalTips

Cinnamon - Not so much about being to apparent, but understanding women's expectations in general about the desired effect. I know so far it is the view of you and Amanda but then thats why I am interested in your views and feelings. For instance, how do you feel about what I am asking? Open-minded or somewhat shocked or horrified? If I flip the scenario, perhaps some women prefer metal for long life and less maintenance but dont want the attention that the sound ...demands. I remember a night out in London once when returning home late, she started tip-toeing alongside me down a silent street. I think I may be more inclined to look next time Cinnamon, knowing that its "compulsory viewing". I have spotted a few shredded hems in my time, faux pas and laziness duly noted!

but then I quite like the damage metal tips cause.

I think I am starting to see what you mean!

I guess the same element you find in sharp suits and power dressing to a degree. Having said that, Cinnamon - your point about "demanding attention". Would you then think what people are looking at when they turn to look at you in a public area? I adore the sound too but I cant always find myself to look for that reason. Whats your view on things like ankle chains and also things that I have seen before - the shredded trouser hem. Fashion or faux pas? Thanks again for the insight and openness.

Sorry, will have a go at rewording a bit. As you and Cinnamon mentioned about the sound of metal heels vs plastic heels, does the sound or lack of change you and how you feel. Say you had two pairs of the identical style, one with metal and one with plastic, and you switched between each pair on alternate days, would you feel any different all because of the sound? Hope that is clearer.

Foxylady, I usually just compliment the shoes and its always well received with a big smile. Cant say I have ever commented that she can walk in them, doesnt feel right to me but if you decide to, post how you got on.

And there was I thinking they would be like ice-picks getting you by! It is good to hear women like the sound too, does it make you feel any different if you had an identical pair of heels but you had to alternate between metal and plastic. Would no noise really change it that much? Sorry about all the Q&A, I am genuinely interested if not fascinated by your views and love of heels from a female perspective on the basis that heels are sometimes worshipped by women a la heels and handbag moments. If you know about the Professor Brantano ads, you will know what I mean ( I hope!) I'll stick to this thread instead if it saves you jumping between two threads?

Thanks for the opinions, I know that there is that feeling of society etc, I guess thats a debate that can go one forever, especially the kilt / trouser / tie scenarios. Its always something I like to gauge from women who wouldnt criticise or gossip about especially if I went around asking them in the office. I guess its just a confidence thing really. Re the compliments, I am happy to say that I have complimented women before in the past on several occasions and I must admit, they are well received! As you rightly say, theyre used to receiving comments or stares for other items and at least I can be completely sincere about beautiful heels. Well, there was that time when admittedly the heels were so destroyed by grates etc she admitted she was too lazy to get them reheeled!

On the slippery note, I notice that there seems to be an impetus to wear heels (boots - to keep feet warm?) in the winter when it has been snowing or icy. Yet seemingly get about fine if not better than the casual flat soled public. Is there a "method to the madness" as it were? Another plus point for the metal tip perchance?

I'm with you Amanda on the wear and sound, I heard that there was a certain health and safety issue with metal tips - apparently they dont absorb the shocks that plastic tips would. Not sure if its a myth or not but seems moreso when getting heels from abroad. Anyone heard similar?

Hi Amanda and welcome. As you can tell, I'm a fairly recent member here too. I would like your opinion on why you would not be a fan of men wearing heels? PS Glad you love your heels in public, I havent got that far yet so you know how I would feel being liberated! Would you say women were accepting of compliments about their shoes? PPS Sorry if there is a topic elsewhere about what I have asked.

Name: MetalTips of course! Age: Past it Gender: M Location: England Occupation: Nothing at the moment, doesn't pay the boots, erm I meant bills! Height: 5' 8" Weight: 10st Shoe size: EU44 What's your favourite heel style: Stiletto, metal tips preferably! What's your favourite shoe style: Court or Knee, preferably in black. Do you wear your heels outside: Once but not out out. What is: (a) Your favourite heel height: Anything over 4 ( Your highest heel height: Anything over 4 How often do you wear: Once or twice a week. More if I could. (a) Your favourite heel height: Anything over 4 ( Your highest heel height: Anything over 4 Do you wear socks, hose, stockings or bare feet with your shoes: Hose or stockings a must. Anything else you wish to add: Who loves hh in suede?! Not a big fan of patent though.

I guess I have been too conscious of sizing and not having the luxury or confidence to try on in shops. All of a sudden window shopping is not as fun as it used to be! Been looking at Italian Heels again, think I need some retail therapy to calm my nerves.

Thanks to everyone for the welcome and the advice. TB2, yes I havent really got to the point of physically going into shops so have really depended on the internet. Maybe one day I will get to a point where I can have sales assistants running around for me! Had a quick look at Evans online and their boots look good but conscious of the rule that if you are a UK9, then you have to get one size up. Is that still the case or a myth? It has been a long time since my last purchase and that was an EU44 which seems to be perfect. Do people find sizing different depending on where you go? Thanks again.

Thanks Dr Shoe. I am just surprising myself that I have finally joined and thats as open as I have been! I think my only question was where to get decent hh boots that cater for large calves. From looking at the posts, people seem to have a lot of luck with heels or is it just me reading the fortunate posts! I read from some posts that Duo are good, but then I find I then need EUR44 that they dont have. I have looked at Italian Heels and they seem to be the best place so far. Need some good knee or thigh but definitely not patent and trying to avoid having to get custom made.

North west. You will have to excuse the anonymity for now as this is as public I have got! How about you?

Hi Just thought to stop and say hi. Since joining a few days ago, I couldn't wait to start posting and thought best to drop a line in here as a new member. Started off as a true admirer but I guess I got curious and it went on from there! Will be on the lookout for advice.

I brought a pair of thigh boots - Amanda style from Italian heels - I am normally a UK9 - I brought a european 44 which fit fine.

They make brilliant boots!

Hi thighboots, can you tell me what the calf sizes are on the 44's as I was looking at those Amanda's a few months ago. Thanks.

a few more pics this time in some nice black slacks

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Well, I am new to the forum but have always loved wearing heels for as far back as I can remember, though no outings yet. Being from the UK, I would like to know where those boots are from as they are similar to what I have been looking for though can never find the right calf sizes. Thanks.