Shoeiee

Thanks to all for the kind words!! Will post more soon!! Shoeiee

OK!! OK ALREADY!!!!

The boots are Predictions, by Payless, and were just bought off EBay. they are a pair of last year's line up. I wanted to buy a pair in white last year but the $$ didn't line up in time. When they came available on E Bay I HAD to get them!! They have a psudo-leather look to the heel, toe box area and tongue with the rest a fabric. VERY COMFY!! I've also got a pair in black, but those dont have the leather look to them.

I've worn the black ones in all types of situations and unfortunately drowned them in mud last summer during an off-road 4X4 trip :-( They haven't been the same since...

Will be posting more here in the future as I'm no longer in the military and don't have as much concern about repercussions...

Would like some feedback on the overall look from you all too :-)

Happy Heeling!!

hello all!!

I've been around here for quite some time. Something like 7 years or so...back when it was jenny's page :-) Regardless, here are a couple of pics of my outfit for the day. Went into a local grocery store with my wife and son. Then after dinner we went to another store for cancer-sticks...Not one comment from anyone. I'm SURE some people noticed but no one said a word to us. More proof men in heels CAN WORK!!!

Happy Heeling!!

I have never seen another guy wearing heels. And I know many people around the Tidewater VA area have seen at least ONE...:-) i've been wearing my heels publicly for about three years now with no truly negative reactions. Many a "WTF" stare, but no negative comments that I've heard. I'm actually rather sprised about it all to be honest!! Happy Heeling!! shoeiee

My 2Cents added!! Shoeiee

Hello all, This really is not a fair poll for me as I would wear either the original OR the stiletto, depending on outfit and/or occasion. I like them both!! Happy Heeling!!

OK...I voted I can just about do it...Which is really not correct as I usually walk down stairs without holding on to anything. Even in 5" ers!! I initially found stairs to be the biggest hurdle in wearing heels but with practce and experience, they're no big deal nowdays!! Even carrying a 45lb 3 year old :-)

Hello LE and welcome to the HH Place!! I've been a member here for several years but haven't posted very much. Been mostly a 'lurker' with the occasional inspirational moment :-) This is one of those moments I guess :-) I am one of the fortunate few who has a VERY supportive wife. We just celebrated our 5 year aanniversary and can say we've done the whole time in heels! I told her of my love for heels the day we met. I was blunt about it because my love for heels ruined a prior relationship and I wanted it out in the open before anything happened between us. I tell you this story because as you approach your boyfriend with his love for heels it might be useful for you to consider how welcome it was for me to have a woman who accepted my love for heels. High heels have become an integrated part of our life. My wife has strongly supported my wearing high heels both privately and publicly since the day we met. She recognizes that this is part of me. This knowledge has given us a very strong relationship and understanding of each other. As a man with a strong love for high heels, it is initially very difficult to accept this while still considering ones masculinity. It took several years for me to come to grips that this is just part of me, having nothing to do with my sexual preference or masculinity. It does however, have everything to do with my individual comfort, and my wife has done everything she can to support this. Without her acceptance of my desire to wear high heels I would probably still be hiding them from everybody and everything. But she has given me the confidence and courage to walk proudly, both privately and publicly, wearing up to 5in. stiletto heels. These days I wear heels almost exclusively. Usually more moderate styles as 5" stilettos are even far fetched for most women. From what I;ve read, you're willing to accept your man wearing high heels privately around the house. I strongly urge you to tell him this openly and without reservation. Don't dance around the subject. Just tell him. I sincerely believe that he will appreciate it more if it is done this way. And if your suspicions are wrong it could be an introduction to him of something new and exciting!! As for him venturing out, most men do not have the courage to step outside of their house wearing something as feminine as high heels, but he may have that desire in the future. If he does decide to wear heels in public, let him. It shows that he’s comfortable with his sexuality and with his woman. And as for your comfort level, support him and he will support you. There’s nothing you should be ashamed of. Likewise there’s nothing he should be ashamed of either. They're only shoes! Well that’s my 2¢ I hope that this will provide you with the courage to just come out to him and let me know how you feel. Trust me, it will make a world of difference in your relationship. Skirting the issue will only make him hesitant about accepting his true desires. Likewise if it makes him hesitant about accepting his true desires, it will definitely make him more hesitant about confiding in you with those desires as well. Happy Heeling!! Shoeiee

Hello Dawn, Yes, my collection of "Extreme Heels" is quite small but my overall collection is much larger!! I've got a total of about 28 pairs of heels...More pics will be coming soon but I didn't have time last night to post everything...:-) And yes, the wear on the soles is from my use :-) I've even worn the Ballet's in a local park at night a few times :-) Will post more later!! Happy Heeling! Shoeiee

Hello All,

Some of you remember me from eons ago and the few posts I've had here lately...Well, I am MAKING time to participate more and wanted to start with sharing my collection of Pure Fetish Heels with everyone. Enjoy!!

Happy Heeling!!

Shoeiee

I too am a fan of skating, in particular, Ice Skating...So I NATURALLY wanted to see what it would be like to ice skate in High Heeled Skates...So...

These started out as a pair of "Easy" boots bought on EBay and a pair of sz4 ice skates...A few screws and VOILA!! A quick trip to the ice...Bottoms up!!!! The biggest problem was the front of the blades do not protrude in front of the foot so ANY forward tilt and you're catching the toe picks...So you have to lean back and put weight on the heels

It was truly an experience and I hope it freezes here real good sometime soon so I can go play some more...I don't DARE wear these at the local Ice Rink!!!

Happy Heeling!!

Shoeiee

DSW Shoe Warehouse had a screensaver of all kinds of shoes and boots available for free. It's no longer on their site so I created a new Yahoo Group and have it posted in the Files section. When you request membership, mention this post and I'll gladly grant you access!! Heppy Heeling!! Shoeiee

tightlevisandhhboots, Check your PM's...

YEAH!!! A Heel meet in the Eastern US!!! Count us in if funds are good!! Early October would probably work for us. Catch Leaf Season!! Same for the NYC meet possibility... Happy Heeling!!

Just to fill everyone in... I've been wearing heels outside for quite some time but they've always been chunky, soft-soled 'rugged' styled heels from Payless. Typically, they're about 2 1/2 - 3" lift and with minimal platform. I've only gotten a second look with my 'normal' boots a couple of times. With my old daily boots (almost 4" lift with a very distinct heel lift...) I only received on "OMG!! That guy's wearing HEELS!!" and a couple of "Hey!! I've got a pair of those!!" My wife and I even got a complement on our matching boots from one cashier at Fuddruckers awhile back. I have found that if you wear styles that are more masculine in appearance, regardless of heel height, most people don't pay a second glance. Once you cross into the thinner, spikier heels, you start getting comments and looks much more. Happy heeling everyone!!

Hello everyone!! It's been awhile since I've been active here but it is now time to come back and relate some interesting outings I have had recently... Let's go back to March - On our anniversary, my wife and I left the area for an evening out and we went to a fantastic restaurant for dinner. We stayed at a hotel in the area and generally did what most couples do on 'Their Day.' The nice thing about this trip was I did not bring one pair of block heels or men's shoes along :-) When we went to dinner, I wore my favorite pair of real leather 5" stiletto boots (under long slacks...Not brave enough for full exposure yet...) into the restaurant and enjoyed a fine meal. Between April and August 1, I didn't do too much heeling in plain sight except the usual fuel stops... This last weekend though, with much support from this board and the incredible storied of ThighHighBootGuy, I have gone out for two outings in my boots. The first was Saturday night when my wife and I went to Denny's for dinner. We went to one where a good friend works and got seated in a booth directly in line of the entrance/counter seating/register. The entire area under the table was very visible and while sitting, my boots were completely exposed. Not one comment!! Even from our friend who served us and knows about my heels but has never seen me in them!! Then there was today...Again, my wife and I went out but this time to Office Max. We spent about 45 min in the store during normal daylight hours shopping and looking around. Again, I wore jeans which covered my heels completely but we also had my 19mo son with us who tends to draw attention. I had several conversations with store personnel and of course, the store was busy as it was about 6PM. Not one comment or even a second glance from what I could tell!! The end result is a feeling of liberation!! Being able to go out and wear my heels publicly without fear is so WONDERFUL!! Now I am looking forward to our next outing...Who knows?? Maybe tomorrow when we take my step-daughter out for the evening I'll go for another round!!! Happy Heeling everyone!!

ThighBootGuy!! Welcome to Virginia!! Please check your PM's. Enjoy your stay and keep heeling!! Shoeiee

Becky, I have been a devoted reader of these forums for several years now and have witnessed many people come and go due to misunderstandings and sometimes blatant rudeness. One thing about the internet is there is no emotion from speech pattern conjecture involved, and hence the true meaning of one's words are easily misunderstood. After thoroughly reading this topic and seeing the direction it has taken, there were several misunderstandings and even some rude comments made that were uncalled for. The original topic was people lying about heel height and Daz did have a valid point in his original post here... "it annoys me when some women at work talk about how uncomfortable their 'high' heeled shoee, and theyre usuall only about 3" at that. Quite silly when i with about an 10000th of their heel experience can easily wear 4.5-5" without a problem. I think some people need introducing to real high heels, but id say in general, young girls or women dont measure their heels anyway." In his defense, there are MANY women out there who routinely complain about their "high heels," and when you look at what they're wearing, one wonders "What heels?!?!" because they're 2 1/2" - 3" heels. I can thoroughly understand and accept a complaint from a gal who's wearing 4 1/2 - 5" heels as these are truly challenging. But 3"?? I'm quite certain that if you, Becky, were wearing 3" heels which FIT PROPERLY, you wouldn't complain a bit. The main point here is what qualifies as a HIGH HEEL varies from one person to the next!! To most on these forums, we're talking about 4 1/2" or higher. As for his comment "Quite silly when i with about an 10000th of their heel experience can easily wear 4.5-5" without a problem," he does have a valid point, WHEN REFERENCED DIRECTLY TO THOSE WHO GRIPE ABOUT 3" HEELS...Not necessiarily about those who wear 5"+ heels though...And I don't believe he was commenting towards yourself or any other woman who wears 5"+ heels regularly. I would find it comical (if not tragic) to hear complaints about 3" heels being too high or uncomfortable after my own experiences in heels, even though I have not worn my 5"+ heels for weeks on end. As a male who regularly reads here, it would become truly boring if all the women left. Us guys cherish your stories, thoughts and inputs. And not all of us feel that it should be compulsory for a girl to wear high stiletto heels. It saddens me when a woman refuses to open her mind to the possibility of wearing high heels, but to each their own. If a gal doesn't want to wear heels, then that's her choice in fashion. As for guys wearing heels, I feel it is tragic that society is so down on this behavior. Women have been 'crossdressing' for years without any infringement on their rights to choose their own clothes from men (except in the beginning of the pants revolution when men objected...) Women now regularly shop in all sections of a store to find what suites them best in fit, fashion and comfort. Even though I'm not a CD/TV/TS I feel it's really sad that men are frowned upon by most of society for taking the same approach to clothing. After all, they're only clothes (or shoes!!) In closing, I feel that there has been a TERRIBLE misunderstanding starting directly at the root of this topic. Vanity has stated a desire to stop posting here because of how off topic this post has gotten and I sincerely hope she reconsiders. As for the original topic, I can only speak for the experiences my wife and I have shared. She has tried to exaggerate the actual height of her heels to me occasionally, but has been corrected and even impressed when she realized the true height she was wearing. She has had friends who have tried the same and we get a little private laugh at their ignorance :-) I've said my piece and hence return the board back to the women in hopes that more will join in here and participate :-) Happy Heeling!!

Gothika, If the harrassment continues, you may be able to get an attorney through the ACLU very reasonably, if not free. And if they won't provide one, there are plenty of other organizations that would. You may have to go with a gay/lesbian/CD/TV group for the support, but it'd be worth it. Also, I'm not suggesting that you go after monitary compensation, just equal rights. Who knows?? The right attorney may have case law which can back them into a corner and free you up without making a big stink... Regardless, you should not have to feel threatened about your schooling because of the clothing you wear. Choosing one's attire should be up to the person wearing it. And if you've got the gusto to wear 8" spike platforms to school, you've GOT the GUSTO!! Regardless which road you choose, my hat's off to you for wearing what you want and breaking out of the mold!! Happy Heeling!!

Hello again :-) Re: "I went to the school today wearing the same pants but today i wore my 8inch spike platform boots with flames on them (thigh high) and the school didnt say a thing.... odd isnt it? i guess you just have to catch them on a good day...." I wonder if the knucklehead that sent you home got a talking to about civil rights?? Or if that person decided to read EXACTLY what the school's policy on shoes is?? Or maybe that person decided that it isn't worth fighting you because they KNOW they'll lose!! You've now set a precedence in your school by wearing those boots all day, with lots of witnesses, without them 'enforcing' the dress code. Push until they force the issue and then call your attorney!! Happy Heeling!!

I think it's time to check out exactly what the dress code says about shoes!! Both for guys and gals!! Personally, I don't see anything wrong with those...The key is, does the school have a limitation on a man's choice but not a girl's choice of footwear? If so, it sounds like that nasty 'D' word to me...And I hear ACLU phones ringing!! I can see the school limiting footwear in the sense of "no stiletto heels higher than x (let's say 3") inches during normal school hours" for safety purposes, but we didn't have that when I was in school...I remember my sophmore year, we had a sophmore girl decide to wear RED leather 5" stiletto thigh high boots to school one day...She looked GREAT in them!! Too bad she was carrying them by 3rd period That gal carried them the rest of the day and teased the heck out of a LOT of guys that day!! Too bad I never saw her wearing them again... I look forward to hearing the outcome of this event!! Later!!

Psionic, read post on your other topic... Remember, there IS a difference between sex and making love...

Psionic, Thank you from your comments!! It means a lot to me that you value my words! 7 Years is a long time to be in a relationship with someone, regardless of how much fun the sex is. I find it hard to believe that two people would stick together for that long if there were severe differences which can not be overcome. Either you two are in the bedroom A LOT, or there IS more to the relationship than *JUST* sex. From your latest post, I feel that you're placing too much value on the type of sex you have with her and not focusing on the rest of the relationship enough. I know that my wife and I love to get crazy in bed but sometimes there's just one of those nights where there is a strong desire just to make love. No add-ons, frills, etc. Just enjoy EACH OTHER in passion. It's one of those things where you take her just to tell her that you enjoy HER, as she is, without all the extraneous 'stuff.' Is that as much fun as with all the other 'stuff?' Not in the same way. That's a deeper physical bonding which is not meant to satisfy all the other desires, only hers and mine. And yes, we both have those other, crazy desires, but the 'vanilla' version can carry much more meaning at times. You mention that you have some problems with your GF and something you're not sure you can live with...Although these things may seem like the 'Brick Wall' in the relationship, you may want to talk with her about these issues and see if there is room for you to understand her point of view on them or for her to possibly change a little. Regardless, you two have put up with each other's little quirks for SEVEN YEARS so far, so there's GOT to be SOMETHING there which takes precedence over those issues. It may be that you will just have to adjust to accommodate her in this matter or maybe you haven't expressed your dislike for that behavior well enough and she's willing to change for you. I'm SURE that if you REALLY sat down with her, she'd say that there's something about you that she really dislikes but is willing to overlook in an effort to please you. I'm certain that ALL of the married people on this board will say that there's SOMETHING about their S.O. that they've had to adjust to, or flat out ignore, to make their relationship work. Every couple has a little 'something' that bugs the heck out of the other person, and it's love and maturity that enables us each to either accept those differences and embrace the whole person, or come to the decision that he/she is just not right. You would be amazed at what one can accept and put up with for the sake of love!! I look at my parents, which have been married for 33 years now, see what they've had to put up with from each other to make it last and I'm amazed. But they are COMMITTED (REPEATE - C O M M I T T E D) to each other and LOVE (REPEATE - L O V E) each other enough to accept their differences and live life quite happily. And let me tell ya...There's some REALLY STRONG issues they dislike, but they each love the whole of the other, and hence, accept each other and live with those issues. I also look at my wife and I. We have both changed and grown so much in the 2 1/2 years we've been married, but we are committed to each other and love each other deeply. There have been some really rough times together so far, but nothing we haven't been able to either accept or overcome. I KNOW that I've got some quirks that bug the heck out of her and she does some things that drive me crazy, but we're both committed to each other and will find a way. Is sex a part of it?? Yes. we both really enjoy getting 'crazy' and we've introduced each other to some craziness, but every now and then, passion takes over... I pose a question... Have you ever looked at your GF and just wanted her?? I mean REALLY wanted her?? She's wearing the most disgusting outfit in the WORLD...No make-up...hair's not done...looks like she just crawled out of bed after a week of hibernation...And you just look at her and think "How lucky I am to have her!!"? If you can say yes to that question, you've got something really special that you should not let go of. Later!!

Psionic, First, let me congratulate you in finding such an open minded woman. It sounds like you're physical life with her is exceptional!! It appears that you and her may have quite a bit in common. You say that you've been together for a very long time, and that's a good start for a long term relationship, even marriage. But my question is are you with her ONLY for the sex?? Or is there a deeper bond between the two of you? Sex for it's own sake is good but you state that you only enjoy sex when it's , shall we say, wild. The question here is do you want to make love to her because of WHO SHE IS?? Or is it only for pure pleasure in fullfilling your fantasies?? This is a VERY important question you must answer. In considering this question I would recommend thinking about everything you and her do together. Is there a life with her outside the bedroom?? Some of the posts here focus on how centered on yourself your questions appear. I don't necessarily feel that's a bad thing, as you must also consider your future with her. Is there enough there to make a future with her? Are you two intellectually compatable? It appears that she is more than willing to explore your more unique side, are you willing to do the same for her? Also, do you accept her for who she is, as she is, PERIOD?? The reason I ask this is when she is pregnant, her whole body will change, and once a child is brought into a relationship everything changes rapidly! Your 'play time' will become rather restricted and you two will have to rely on out-of-the-bedroom activities to satisfy each other's desires a lot. This is when you must consider your interests and expectations outside the realm of sex. All of these questions are critical for deciding compatability. If you can honestly say that without her, you'd be lost in more aspects than the bedroom, I would say to stick with her. If the bedroom scenes are all that's holding you two together, then there is a serious problem with the relationship as a whole and there is a slim chance of making any long term relationship with her last. It is my experience that any major change in one's life brings fear and uncertainty. This is a NORMAL reaction when one asks another to vow a life to them. That is a HUGE decision which requires serious thought and dedication. Is she THE ONE?? There is a good chance she is. Will you find another as willing to accept you for who and how you are? Possibly. Are you ready for the commitment of a permanent relationship with her? Only YOU can answer that question!! But I will say this, if she can't satisfy your desires and you can't satisfy hers, there is no hope at all. You must BOTH be willing to lay aside your selfish desires to please each other for a relationship to last. Best of luck!!

Heelfan, You’re welcome for the links. I found them both to be rather informative, if not contradicting in some aspects... As for guys in heels, I believe it is a matter of several factors: 1.) It IS the one night of the year when anything is publicly accepted. The religious zealots don't even mess with people as all the dressing up is in the spirit of fun!! 2.) Since everyone is dressed so as not to be recognized, one can use copious amounts of make-up and serious costuming to be virtually unrecognizable. And even if they are recognized, who cares!! It's Halloween!! Everyone dresses up for that night!! 3.) Heels specifically - I would say that many men do take advantage of this unique day to either fulfill their personal fantasies (or their SO's) and dress the part just because they can get away with it. The ONLY way you can get in trouble going out on Halloween is to do something decidedly illegal. No one will 'turn you in' for dressing oddly, and you must admit that heels on men (or skirts, bra, panties, make-up) is still quite an oddity. I believe that all these factors combined make this the perfect day for any man who enjoys wearing heels to go out and take their first outdoor steps. No one will criticize you for wearing them unless you're wearing a really horrible costume. And even then, you can blow that off without too much trouble! I remember in college, the music dept had a banquet at Halloween. Mind you, this university is in a VERY (V E R Y!!) conservative area where evangelism is HUGE!! (Pop 20,000 - about 1000 churches...Mostly Southern Baptist, the most conservative religion in the US...Not even one lingerie shop in town at that time...) There was a group of guys who showed up in dresses. No make-up, heels or anything. They just decided to wear dresses that evening. They REALLY looked horrible!! Probably the worst criticism they got that night was 'Where's the heels??' or 'No Make-Up??'!! Their answer?? "We couldn't find any in our size!!" or 'I can't put that stuff on!!' Even the ultra conservative in the department didn't say anything!! They were just accepted that night as having fun! As would nearly anyone who does the same! Happy Heeling!!