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i think it's an excellent question, i guess that i should have to be fair, so if she wants to do it, and as have gotten support so far, i think i should have to go the same way, though it would really creep me up, i guess the lesson to be learned is that you have to be honestly open about what you like to wear before you get into a serious comitment. i mean on both sides.

These are my recent purchases, still cant decide which is my fav

Tough decision to make, fortunately they are already yours, i like the more 3,4 and 6, and they're so different one from the other i guess you'll never find out. congratulations.

I think the better frame of mind is , "Will I accept this?"

If you accept yourself around women, then it doesn't matter if the women accept you or not.

The power doesn't lie in something outside of yourself, the power rests in you from the very get go. Get a hold of your own attitude towards yourself and everything else will fall into place.

couldn't have said it better.

i have been using 5" heels lately, but i'm not sure if they count as a fiver, since they do have a plattform, which takes away about an inch to the real height the feet feels. any way i just can't wear less than 4 inches, it doesn't feel the same.

my mother and sisters in the bathroom, or around the house when they weren't home, and as long as my feet allowed me, for my shoe size is bigger than theirs, so itnwas good while it lasted.

i told her the very moment i found out, as a matter o fact, i learned about this forum in the book "my husband betty, by helen boyd, and i've even encouraged her to write in the subforum, because i belive that the more she learns about how we feel, the more she will support my liking for heels, and may even help pave the way to a more tolerant world.

Straight, married for 8 years, two kids and love wearing heels since i was little, i have no precise date but i do have memories. *****EDITED OUT***** i even recollect being once or more caught, blurry memories. a bit more clearly about 7 to 9 years old remember sneaking into the maids bedroom in the afternoons while she watched hes soap operas and putting i¡on her heels, it's all about the way they make me feel, so of coarse actually keep on wearing them, and working with my wife to a wearing them anytime, anywhere life.

Sorry to hear it didn't work out, and as everyone else, i do feel you handled it very bravely, i hope you find a partner that likes heels too, i mean of course been worn by you. best wishes

i guess those sandals really are your lucky shoes. congratulations.

i agree, because if you look at a man to see what footwear he's wearing, then you're probably into shoe fetish, and a 50/50 chance the shoes you like are heels.

no thank you, it's just how i feel about myself.

congratulations, it must have required a lot of courage.

Thanks for the comments and concerns.

I realize that it will never be socially acceptable. In fact I realize how silly I must look in my guy clothes with stilettos on. I have no interest to dress feminine. In fact, if I saw a guy wearing shoes like mine in public, I might even laugh!

On one hand i do believe that someday not very far from now, it will be acceptable, such as it has become usual for women to wear trousers. Then if you feel silly about a man wearing heels, why should you partner turn on with you wearing them, i think it all a preconcieved image of men-women roles. I know that wearing heels is something that grows on you, you just can't fight such a wonderful feeling. i invite you to take a deep dive into your feelings and find out why should it be different to wear heels in the bedroom than to wear them elsewhere.

i agree with dr. shoe's comment, as a matter of fact i believe she makes so little fuzz about you modeling again, because inevitably her mind may be on second thoughts such as, does he really likes to wear heels? Why would he insist on medeling them? To the possible, am i wrong for enjoying his wearing heels?, Could i possibly like the way he looks on them? Or is it that i may like girls. I believe you're in a tricky one. best regards

something funny about society is that they always say you should be different, as long as you're not, because then if you're different, how on earth are they going to treat you, mostly because of fear or lack of self insight (if that's how it is called), beliving that if they hang around you inevitably they'll to become like you, on one hand as if that is a bad thing, then on the other hand as if they had no sense of selve being, or if any bahavior could be contagious just like a germ. i still belive the more respect we have for ourselves and about who we are, in the long run people will end up looking up at you.

thanks, too bad though.

Has anyone any idea of what has become of patemans divine boots web page or factory?

didi you happpen to get some phone numbers from your dance partners?

you lucky bastards i do belive also it isnt just for women , the bloke dressed up in blue suit looked as if any man in heels willing to coperate will be more than welcomed.

I believe that so far, the one thing that may have been too soon, was sending her the pictures, though i do belive that what i would do in a situation similar to yours is to pour me heart open to her, let her know you feelings for her such as marriage and the reasons why you would like to spend you life with her and then explain that as that feeling became stronger, you being true to yourself and the relationship needed for her to know about you love for heels, and give a sincere explanation of what heels mean to you. then end the letter by saying that if she doesn't answer you would understand, but it was very important for you to let her know. if she's the one for you given some time she'll maybe gather information and look for you, if not, at least you know you said what you felt, hoping for the best.

what's sad about the story, is that no one gives a chance to take a stand for his own cause.

Definitively congratulations, you've really moved forward pretty fast, i look up to you.

Cogratulations, hope you have more outings like that.

i voted a little bit smaller because though mi us size isn't that big 10 to 10,5 i happen to be short 5' 4 1/2", so a size or two smaller wouldn't hurt, besides locally it isn't that simple to find shoes my size, few shoe stores have them in stock, so sometimes if the shoe is worth dying i have to do with a half a size smaller.

so far 4" or a 3.5 to 4" difference, mostly because i've tried using 3" high heels and they don't feel tha same, i kind of like to feel the way my feet arches with that height, but still can walk comfortably, haven't tried higher difference in height.