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First i voted yes with restriction then i read the topic again and saw age 6?! I think thats a no go. After 12 indeed if they want to try it why not, obviously not for dayly wear though.

Yep yep, moms are more forgiving anyways, find the good time and sooner than your dad I dont think she will make big deal of it, especially if you explain her the things.

Why thank you!

England?

With 20 seconds of courage my life would change entirely haha. Currently i got around 1-2 seconds.

I don't have problems yet with 5" heels either, however i havent been outside yet

Oh, well, there's my problem. I've just never seen anyone able to run in high heels. I sit in my computer chair corrected.

Running in heels :

Be a man and do like him!

I have seen different conversions everywhere on the net...whichever is the real i guess depends on the actual manufacturer.

1. How old have you been, when you got your first heels?

37.

2. 2. What was the reason (i.e. special event like carneval/ halloween; because you lost a bet; because you felt in love for them)

I just found out there are high heels for my size and since i always wanted to own some i bought it. Guess i'm a late bloomer

3. Who paid the bill?

Sadly myself.

4. How much did you spend?

Around 60-70 euro? Not sure.

5. How and where did you buy?

Online.

6. Were you allowed to wear them at home (i.e. after of that special purpose)?

At home? Sure no problem.

Hi and welcome!

Kakazy are just beyond many a dancers dream/nightmare and they do it so easily.

Tried standing with one foot above knee level fell over and it doesn't go much higher, so over head is a failure but then I can't dance either

Al

Hehe practice make you perfect

I got me new pair! Its bit too narrow for my foot, (i wonder if i could broaden it or should i ask a cobbler?) however walking in them there is no problem at all 3.5cm platform, 14.5cm heels.

http://www.hhplace.org/picture.php?albumid=761&pictureid=7811

This is around for quite some time already.

There are various products on the market that are aimed at men for which they replace the first letter by an m. I think this is totally ridiculous. Just buy what you think looks good and feels good. Never mind the name.

You will find quite a few things if you go a bit through the old threads.

Y.

Of course i do! However you know the famous saying its one small step for man... Who knows once the media starts to spam such sites we can finally wear what we want without a single compliant. You speak easy from the netherlands but the further we go east i think the more complicated to be the self you want to be. I tried to search for this particular site and i haven't found it, hence why i posted

I was looking around the net for various things, however i found this site, oh oh its coming here the world is changing! http://www.e-mancipate.net/index.php

Sorry if this is only new to me, guess i had a long sleep Awaken from the Matrix

Glad the topic got so many replies and pretty quick, hoping i didnt offend anyone Why i brought this up is already in many of yours answers. Who decides what are male clothing or what are women clothing. Last year i was listening to radio, and a guy who works for marketing was talking about how perfumes are labeled as "for men" and "for women" while there is no such thing as smells based on genders. Its plain marketing strategy. Could it be the same for clothing? If it was decided without our opinion to live as they think we should, will it change ever? If it will how soon will it change, whatcha all think?

"The answer is you never call them a "crossdresser" but call them by their given name or the name they choose to be known as. "

Haha a good one Of course we call them on their given names, nicknames and so on.

"Remember my friend, the best label is NO label at all."

I also hate labels! Ive been labeled for my entire life. Maybe i just think i was, but it felt awful either ways.

"I personally dont know of any ' crossdressers ' as I dont see a gender for any clothing. Some people do though ( see a need for a gender label on clothing ). "

I don't either, and i also don't see labels on clothing either!

"Labels are dangerous and divisive and at the end of the day it is only clothes. I'm guessing that Newheeler is having doubts about his own identity and also expressing frustration that females can wear what they like but guys can't."

While at a point in my life it could have been the truth, now i'm fully aware of my gender and i'm happy with it But yeah the frustration is there because the society isnt as accepting as you all are here.

"Personally, I have gone far beyond the typical CD/TV and it so happens that today is my first anniversary of the day I started to live as a woman full-time. I now live and work as a woman and I have changed all my documents to reflect this."

My true and honest congratulations! May i bother you with pm some time?

I am curious, where is the point when you call someone a crossdresser? Women wear trousers that used to be mens clothing. Women wear other things that supposed to be mens wear. Do we call them crossdresser? I think no. While for men whenever they wear something that womens supposed to they are crossdressers. Is having high heels considered as cross dressing, or a skirt/kilt? Or when you have all womens clothing on you maybe with a make up? Where is the line?

Nope, i don't like skirts that much.

While i agree with this for just a "plain" public heeling, family and friends should be treated differently. I think a slow approach on a close friend or on a family member should come first. I would try some funny videos from youtube perhaps and see what they think about it A good backup can help a lot. Without it you might be just left alone whether you wear them or not once its out.

Arrow.

Not going to be any easy style to coordinate for public heeling.

Haha, maybe at home i don't have any problems, yet. Been wearing them for couple of hours.

Hello all!

Yesterday i finally recieved my first pair of boots! Today i managed to take some pics, my camera's battery is failing so i couldnt take too many.

Its so awesome to wear them, i wish i could go outside and be in them all day

http://www.hhplace.org/picture.php?albumid=757&pictureid=7797

Haha, i like it, not sure why so many dislikes there.

I was wondering since i have flatfoot, and i'm just gonna get my first high heels, do you guys, who have the same problem - wide foot - buy a size bigger high heels or the same size as your normal shoes?

I still havent figured out what has changed human thinking. In animal kingdom, most of the species have the males dressed up in colors, wide variation they look better. And we know its the opposite with us humans. If we look at natives and their fashion, i think its still the same as for animals. Maybe its the modern age, maybe its just all marketing, maybe...who knows what and why but its working like this..for now. If not in our age but perhaps within 10-20 years the trand will change or ease up. I wish us the best

Am i allowed to envy you all who will meet?

After rainy days.