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hhl4vr

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  1. Congrats Gallux, That is a major step forward and hope things go well. It gives me hope that maybe one day it may be possible for others like me to tell our wifes.

  2. Well said ILK...I totally agree .... I do not often have much to say as I like to think I'm still learning. I first joined this site as it was such a wonderful support system for me. It helped me lean about myself and come to terms that I was just a guy whom love high heels and how to deal with that in today's world. You made me feel as part of a group and that I was not alone in what I was going through. Thanks to your support, I have been able to get great advice and have been able to go out in public on a few occasions. I still watch where and when I go and I still take precaution as still an issue between my wife and I (but that is another topic for another day).... I did not join this site to "fit" in as a women or learn how to be a women. I imagine that one can go somewhere else for that. It may seem like I'm rambling and sorry if I'm not making sense but this site should continue to be about High Heels and be there to continue to help others like myself that need support to get over the hump that it's ok to be a man who wear heels.

  3. I too have thrown out many pairs (somwhere close to 20 pairs) just to go out an purchase new ones. I find that since joining this site about 15 months ago, I have not thrown out any pairs. I still sometimes get that guilty feeling and ask myself the WHY? but have come more to terms that I'm just a guy that loves to wear heels. Still a huge issue between my wife so still have to 'heel' in secret (but that another topic for another day)....

  4. Black_Boots - Great topic starter and I can so relate to what you have said. AZShoeNut -Great job with the capturing my own thoughts and feelings and putting into words, For me HHP was a saviour in many ways. Like it has been said before, I truly thought I was all alone. I never would have had the courage to admit to myself that it's ok to love and wear heels. I certainly would never had the courage to go out in public wearing heels. I'm still very careful on where I go and what I wear. Like some others have mentioned, in public I have stuck to boots and have not yet worn higher than 3.5 in in public. However, for now I',m ok with that until I'm ready for the next step. I'm just so happy to be part of HHP and have always felt welcome and more importantly - safe enviroment to be me. Thanks to all of you,

  5. Great topic FreshinHeels Yes I do and I have been asking myself that for years which would explain all the times that I have binged and then thrown out many nice pairs of heels. I too agree that if I could ignore the issue -life would be so easier but then those heels pull at me again and I'm back to them. But then when I get to wear them-I feel great and the the doubt starts again. It's a circle that I have been doing for many years now.

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