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....vomit!

Great find...

Those who make the negative comments are those who secretly wish they could wear that....

The whole package, but what gets me from the start is an honest smile..

Military-gladiator-OTK-peep toe-hiking-hidden platform-stiletto wedge heels..

I can back up Tech on this.. And if the sale is fraudulant, and goes through, not only does the seller loose the product, but the seller is also liable for the full cost of the product back to the credit card company....AND, depending on the card processeing company the seller uses, there is usually also a fine imposed on the seller by the credit card company... It's a loose-loose-loose situation for the seller..

One more reason to only carry cash (and not much)..

Lovely Lady.. Lucky Fellow..

I installed Ubuntu Linux on an old machine, just to play with it, and I've got to say that I was pleasantly supprised... The ability to boot the OS from a CD without doing an install is nice, and a it's a much safer way to pay bills and do online banking....

This may seem goofy, but really one of the, if not theee biggest high heel thrill I ever had was finding this website and the like-minded people who contribute and make it happen... It was that, "Wow, i'm not alone in my desire to wear heels..here's a bunch of other Women and Men who feel the same" moment... I felt welcomed and accepted before I even joined...

Are you willing to walk a runway in Gloria Vanderbilt Amanda jeans and a pair of basic pumps from Baker shoes??

Yes!..... Been thinking of trying a pair of basic black suede pumps with jeans anyway...

Best thread i've read in a while.. Congrads, Confused...

I regret quite a few opprotunities, after the fact... "Dang..Should have/could have worn this or that"... I can only think of one time where I regreted wearing heels and took some flack from some kids (and it put me back a bit too), but SF is correct... Just do it!

I have a couple pair of cowboy (actually, cowgirl..bought em' on the other side..) boots with very similar heels... Except for a couple complements, nobody bats an eye... I say those would be great for a guy to wear while working on his confidence and comfort level...

I don't know...I'd guess it depends on your definition of addiction and where you would draw the lines... I do like to see how high I can go, but by no means does that mean that I want to wear 6" heels all the time in public, or something like that... It's probably been a year or more since I wore anything over 5" because I've found what height I can handle, comfortably.. That said, I still want to try ballet heels, just to see how it feels, but I can't justify the cost, even though I can afford a good pair..

i just threw up a tiny bit...

I really don't see an issue of introducing a friend in heels to gauge someones reaction to the concept of a guy in heels... I think it would be a fair way to open that odd subject.... At any rate.. I did go out for lunch with her yesterday and there was no mention of my looks or boots or any of that from the previous night.. I don't know when we'll go out again.. Having her over with my folks for Thanksgiving was lightly discussed..

I admire your courage... Nice boots... I love suede... and at $700.00 I'd need the courage just to wear them..period... I bought a similar pair of Jessica Simpson over the knee boots, because the price was right; with the intention of wearing them under jeans, which I found does'nt work too well... I tried them over jeans, but I don't see that working for me...

The idea of a "high heel'ed wing man" just came to me.. Any of you guys looking to broach the subject of guys in heels, get someone else from the board to walk on by in a pair while you are on a date/etc. This way you can see her honest reaction, and give you an excuse to say "you know.. I've..."

That's not a bad idea, but it's a little...I dunno... why not more of a direct approach...? Something like, "Oh, hey that's my friend Jim over there...HEY JIM!:wavey:"... You (or which ever member) walk over (in heels of course) and be introduced to the date/friend,, or whatever the case may be...

I'd bet the conversation after that kind of encounter would be interesting...

I'd be game to go to bat for a fellow guy in heels.. Hell, I might even wear heels that are out of my normal public comfort zone if it might help a guy out...

Thanks Roni.. In private was what I meant, at least with the skinny jeans and pumps, to if it works for me.... I just can't quite figure out what kind of shirt to go with something like that.. I thought maybe a plain t-shirt and jacket... dunno..

Dinner was tonite.. Totally uneventful.. I decided to wear the exact same outfit as the evening I had the "omg! he's soo gay" incident a few months ago.. Black t-shirt, "distressd" boot cut jeans, and the boots in my avatar... Only thing I kind of left out were my glasses, except when I was driving us to the restaurant.. I was a bit nervous when I went to knock on her door, but she was just done getting ready and kind of rushing to get out the door...in flip-flops (must be a Florida thing).... I kind of expected her to say something because I am about 2inches shorter than she is when i'm in my work shoes (nikes), but with the boots it makes me right about eye to eye with her, but nothing was said... I know she had a good look at my boots at least once because she tripped on a curb at the restaurant and lost a flip-flop for a moment... We had a nice bbq dinner and called it a night, early.. After a full rack of bbq ribs and a bust-ass day at work, you just don't want to move... It's hell getting old..lol.. On the way home we talked about going out again in search of a good place for crab legs and maybe a movie or something...I dropped her at home and chatted with her and her daughter (who I was a bit nervous about) for a minute then headed home...

It's looking like friday night or saturday night for dinner... Should be interesting..

Hi,

I find the standing in heels makes a difference to any back ache I have after a long day in flat shoes.

It is just about using different muscles for a while, it helps me.

Just the same as taking a pair of heels off after a long day, but the other way around.

sendra45.

As someone who's on concrete floors in flat athletic shoes all day, I've found this to be true for myself as well..

I heard about that on the Bob & Tom radio show a few weeks back with all the usual hype, and all I could think of was "thanks, ya theiving Jackass, for making us look bad"....

The sooner is always the better.. I've been down the road where I waited to disclose my like for heels and it blew up in my face... That said, I've also been down the road where I was accepted for wearing heels, so I know it does happen... Bubba is correct.. The heels "thing" doen't go away..(tried it) I don't think I like this girl more than being friends.. The attraction isn't there on my part, so in the long run it really doesn't matter what she thinks.. I'll still ask her out sometime though, and wear a pair of boot out of the "norm"... Maybe the boots in my avatar.. Maybe my Corral womens cowboy boots that have a 2.5" heel and very pointed toes... one of those two... hhboots is correct on how I try to present myself in heels... I have little desire to look feminine or flamboyant (sp?), although I might try a full on stiletto heel under long jeans sometime... Dark colored "skinny" jeans and dark pumps is look I want to try, at least to see if I can possibly make it "work", but that would be pushing my heeling comfort level......