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That guy is a complete and utter prat...... And to be honest if I were in the same situation as you and he had tried to split me up from my other half, I would be waiting to be bailed out now because he needs a swift kicking. However, ilikekicks is advocating the more sensible option and that is to treat him with the contempt he deserves. Treat him with kindness yep sure, but I would make sure that he always sees me in heels, just to wind it in a bit more. But just remember that he probably has such an issue because he is either in the closet and can't find the door or really wishes he had the balls to wear heels himself. Don't let it worry you ...... Remember "He who dares wears heels"

I started off with heels, and whilst I have dabbled with all sorts of feminine attire, I find that it is really just to compliment my heel wearing. I decided a while back that as my interest was purely in heels, then I would concentrate on my heeling rather than anything else. That said I do find that women's jeans are much better cut and suited to wearing heels if I am making a statement with my outfit

Tell me about it, I've just bought two pairs of calf high boots in the sale at Evans and the temperature is up in the high teens, and I,m back in my 3/4 jeans, and let me tell you that the boots do NOT go with 3/4's:mecry: unless you want to really blow the look. I did see some really nice leather strap wedges today, but they only had my wifes size, so she got some today and I went without:sad: I am after a pair of killer heels for the summer, but just trying to get a decent pair I like in my size..... They will do for the summer:smile:

Absolutely, that's the whole point in wearing heels. At the end of the day when a woman goes out in a skyscraper pair of heels, it,s as much to make a statement and to be noticed as to also feel good. So I really enjoy wearing heels and that's as much how the shoes look as anything else, and yes I am quite discreet when out and about, but it is most certainly gratifying when I am noticed in heels. Bad comments are unwanted, but other than teens or gangs of youths sniggering the majority of people are only positive in their comments, especially the men. So yes I do like to be noticed and hopefully make a positive impression of men wearing heels.

I saw something similar at York races a few years back, two twenty something women wearing almost identical dresses one bright blue the other fire engine red. They both had identical shoes, one a pair of blue stilettos with those ribbon ankle ties that goe half way up your calf and the other red and they were wearing one blue, one red. It was absolutely amazing, and quite obvious that they had chosen to wear them like that. They were definitely getting quite a few looks.... And I have to say that I think it worked quite well

Myself and a fellow Heeler are meeting up on Oxford Street, (Oxford Circus tube) on Friday 6th May at 6.30pm for coffee, a pleasant stroll (In heels) and browse of the various shoe shops as well as time for observing all the fantastic heels walking by! Anyone who is available and wishes to meet us is more than welcome, the last couple of meetings have been really good and we have had no problems wearing heels up in town:smile: (If you don't feel brave enough wearing heels out, still come and meet up for a chat and a bit of shoe shopping!)

You have just got to go for it and buy those shoes, admittedly I would not have been overly happy trying on in front of all those staff, but you just have to front it up and remember you are the customer. If they dont see you trying on most staff will assume they are a gift, and even if they do see you trying on they will think its for a fancy dress do (Unless like me they know you buy lots of heels- my local New look the manager of the shoe sectikn puts aside size 9 heels on sale now until she sees me! ) I would urge you just to go for it, it really does get easier

A trio of my fave freestyle photos

Welcome to the forum, look forward to reading your posts, there is nothing better than a nice pair of high heels

welcome to the site, I look forward to reading of your explits in heels

Welcome to the site, hope that you will like it on here, I think that you have come to the right place, as for ballet heels you are doing well, I can manage 5 inch pumps, but to be honest I think I would really struggle in ballet heels, do you ever go out in them (During the Summer?) Once again welcome

Looks like this outing has been postponed... I shall let you know when the next one is

I shall be meeting a fellow heeler in London this Sunday (20th March) on Oxford Street if anyone would care to join us. Up to you if you want to wear heels or not, we are planning to meet mid afternoon for a coffee and a chat,followed by some shoe shopping(Shops close at 6pm on Sunday) and a bite to eat. Feel free to join us for any part of the activities, I am awaiting a time and meeting point from him and will post as soon as I have it.

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My wife, who knew that I wore heels from very early on in our relationship and was not overly impressed to begin with (It's deviancy) has almost totally changed her outlook and now will actually see if there are any heels in my size if we go past a shop with a sale rail! We were in the supermarket the other day and they had some boots down to 1/4 the original price and she had me trying them on! I know I am lucky in that she accepts my heel wearing and now seems to be joining in to some degree, we are off to meet another heeler on Oxford Street this weekend so we will have to see how that pans out, but it's all psitive so far!

Mostly black though I have some fire engine red heels, some blue suede heels and also a pair of beige "snakeskin" design peeptoe courts... but boringly most pairs are black...

Hi and welcome to the forum, you have come to just the right place if heels are your passion. I am from the North west (Cumbria) and whilst its a bit of a trek, I do get down to Manchester every now and then. I do like shoe shopping in Manchester because there is a lot of choice and as it is a busy city you can get away with wearing heels without drawing too much attention to yourself! anyway enjoy the site

Against my better judgement (About buying in my home town) I went for a wander today and got myself a pair of lace up ankle boots from new look. They were £24.99 yesterday... today £12 in the sale - Bargain

poor me, I have aquired my mothers S reg (98 for those overseas) Vauxhall Corsa 1.4 auto:mecry: I can't really complain because it was free! it comes in faded vauxhall cherry red (basically it has faded to pink:mecry:) Thought it's better than my last car an N reg (95) peugot 305 in bright pea green!

Yes it is me wearing my favourite Red heels:smile:

Welcome to the forum, Let me assure you that you are far from weird for liking high heels, and I am glad that you have found this site so that you can reap the benefits of other members experiences which will hopefully encourage your own heel wearing. Like your self my wife has a foot problem and needs to wear medical inserts in her shoes, she does on occasion wear high heels, though she cannot manage to wear them for a really extended length of time. Saying this though she does have quite a collection of heels (Many selected by mysself) which she certainly does not get value for. I would also agree with the very valid comments from Histiletto, It will be a difficult conversation, but if you can tell your wife you might actually be surprised at her reaction. My wife was surprisingly accepting of my desire to wear heels and I can now wear whatever I like around the house, just as long as we don't have visitors around. I managed to broach the subject after dressing up for a charity walk in fancy dress (wearing 5 inch red stilettos) so this might be an option for you. I did initially start off hiding my heel wearing from my wife, though this caused a lot of stress on my part worrying if she was going to find them,and if she did what would she say! It was a great weight off my mind when I finally told her. She does have her off days though this is more to do with the time I spend on line than wearing heels. I do wear heels out and about with her, but usually only if i get out of the house without her noticing whats on my feet. Whatever happens, good luck with your heeling!

Now I am a guy that basically like to wear heels, which I do frequently and often at home and out n about. I have a quite large (18 pairs) collection of womens shoes which i do like wearing along with my male clothing. When I am out I hold my head up high and dont give a damn what anyone might say about what I am wearing. Now on occasions I do dress (Usually for work nights out/charity collections etc.) I am a six foot guy and whilst I am obviously a man dressed I dont look bad (Even if I say so myself!). I have noticed that my attitude completely changes from confident in heels to complete and utter show-off. Basically if theres a mic about I am on it(I really can't sing!) and "Alexandra" (my alter ego) takes over big style. I have never had any complaints and most people take it as fun, my boss wasnt overly impressed at the chaos that ensued at our last night out (Especially as pics got into the company staff magazine!) anyone else have an alterego........ and does your personality change?

I am off til then 17th May (Except 8/9/10th) so anyone going to name a day (Fri 13th!! or sat 14th look good to me). I can do both day and night and would suggest an afternon meet near Oxford St (For shopping) and an early bite to eat for those that need to go followed by some clubbing.. anyone else got any ideas?

Welcome, This is a great forum and I look forward to reading your posts. You will find loads of useful info on here.

as previously suggested you do have to take it slow with your wife, but as you have already worn them in the marital bed with her, I would say that she will be fine with the whole idea. I noticed that you commented that you believe that you would need to dress in female clothing to go out in heels, this is not totally right. I do on occasions dress up, but this is for fun in social situations but high heels is what I like to wear most! I often go out with heels on instead of male shoes under a pair of jeans, I know that I am wearing them and they are noticeable to the super observant, but as you will pick up from this site, most people that do notice, never say anything to you anyway. I think that the most important thing is to make sure that the whole outfit goes together. e.g a smart shirt, nice jeans and a pair of heels will go together well. anyway good luck and i hope that you get loads of useful advice from the forum.